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sqVirgo

Joined: 7/5/2009
Msg: 151

How do I learn to enjoy being alone? Posted: 7/10/2009 7:24:19 PM
But what do said lonely people do if the friends are no where to be found and family support doesn't exist? No one adresses the possibilities of this. Would be interesting to know... Perhaps one hangs around here and makes new friends when they aren't out trying to stay busy and make new ones?

GenuineIssue

Joined: 7/1/2009
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How do I learn to enjoy being alone? Posted: 7/12/2009 4:30:39 PM
Ross, Read your posts mate. Some interesting replies there bud. listen remember darwin's theory derived from the apes? We are not solitary being's. If you make a lifestyle choice to live alone that's one thing, but if not, you cant blame the actions of one past tense female to another. Woman are all different in their own ways. As the male of the species we evaluate what we see,hear and feel in woman and we decide whether we can put up with there little imperfections or not, it's a natural human perception and they do it too us as`well. I read one post about waiting for the perfect woman... I would submit a long wait haha! What's all this stuff about reprogramming yourself to do without women about?? That would be like saying you bought a car and because it didnt pan out as you expected it too, you decided to give up driving. That seems pointless and extreme mate. Many people feel alone at some point in there life, it's part of living. Whilst you are alone do things you want to do, because should you meet someone else and commit to some sort of relationship you may find you no longer have time for those things! personally for me after 13yrs of marraige sure i felt alone initialy, but later realised that same relationship was chocking me and that there had to be more to life than that. I am now looking forward to making my own decisions and if they are wrong being accountable to me!! Good ol' forrest ghhhump' summed it up perfectly mate, life really is like a box of chocolates. Relationship's come and go in some cases, but personal strength and happiness are forged in your own will mate. Question though, how will moving to another country help? I have known many friends who tried it and didnt like it. Do you think it will make you feel any better or make your feelings worse? Just a thought mate. All the best Steve (UK)

peace1991

Joined: 6/6/2009
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How do I learn to enjoy being alone? Posted: 7/12/2009 5:42:45 PM
Some days are better than others. And some days you just feel really lonely. I go through the exact same thing....and if you figure it out before I do....let me know..... Peace

tattoo_barbie

Joined: 6/30/2009
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How do I learn to enjoy being alone? Posted: 7/12/2009 6:35:14 PM
within two weeks of being single I had caught up with 3 mates, one I hadn't seen in 3 years, one in 5 years and another in 9 months. I had got to know my old work mates better and was invited out to one of their infamous "work parties" which was one of the best nights out I had had in so long. I found a new job, a new house and had sorted out all my paperwork. I have joined a gym and I am doing all the stuff I could either not do or didn't have the time to do in a relationship. Sometimes I am lonley and some days I wish I was in a relationship, but then I think about all the stuff I have accomplished and then I give my friends a call and we have a little gossip and I feel better!! You'll find your way, you will learn to enjoy being single. Promise ;)

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