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| I had a misunderstanding with my guy
Posted: 5/6/2008 8:11:19 AM | | if you did nothing wrong why did you say sorrey?that was your first mistake now he feels he has the upper hand and he will probably put you through the ringer and break you down mentally like he is doing now being matter of fact with questions feelings.leave him alone now this will be hard.let him call you and when he does dont spill your heart out be amatter of fact with him .try not to bring this up either even if you get back together .if he doesnt call you back in a week forget it.alot of times us guys are into someone elses but we dont have the guts to tell you and we will make an argument bigger than it should be just to get away from you check it out hes playing with you.you think its bad nkow stay with him have a kid bye him be cause thenit will be to late because all the seats on the roller coaster will be filled and the conducter will be there with your speacial saved seat. | |
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| I had a misunderstanding with my guy
Posted: 5/6/2008 8:16:43 AM | why would you appologize for something that wasnt your fault??
seems strange..thats like admitting guilt that wasnt there...hmmmm
anyway...You have to leave the ball in his court..
You could try this.....
Leave him a message saying that you are unsettled about this situation and say that when he is ready to talk about this then give you a call..then leave him alone! If you give him space, and if he cares about you, then he will call you. | |
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| I had a misunderstanding with my guy
Posted: 5/6/2008 9:02:22 AM |
I apologised (even though I wasnt in the wrong)...any advice will be greatly appreciated In the future, don't offer disingenuous apologies--they are condescending.
Until there is more information about the misunderstanding that you falsely apologized for, we're all shooting in the dark. I vote that the OP is the type who never makes mistakes and never admits they are wrong. | |
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| I had a misunderstanding with my guy
Posted: 5/24/2008 8:26:43 AM | | Don't chase him and don't be a door mat. It was a misunderstanding. He knows you still care. If he cares about you, he will come around. If you need to talk about it, vent here and talk to your friends but please DON'T CALL HIM. Keep yourself busy and get on with your life. Let him miss you. | |
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| I had a misunderstanding with my guy
Posted: 5/24/2008 10:36:51 AM | sherrybomb, consider that this is supposed to be the time when you are both at your best trying to woe the other.
If he is like this now what is he going to be like a year from now, five years from now, ten years from now?
Is that what you really want?  | |
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