| How many partners is too many and how many have you had?
Posted: 6/5/2005 7:23:28 PM | My last post was my lame attempt at a self-defacing joke.
But seriously, what I meant was yes, I believe to be a completed evolved moral person, a saint, is to constrain your physical/emotional urges and do what is right at all times. We can never be a saint, but this does not mean we should not strive toward it.
We can never have perfection but we should always strive for it. In the process, we become better. | |
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| How many partners is too many and how many have you had?
Posted: 6/5/2005 7:30:16 PM | | ill be honest here, every country i went to i met someone, 2 weeks of friendship/lusty desires and moved on, this is the first year ive been in one spot longer than a few weeks, so im creating a new sexlife and staying abstinant for a year, its been 3 months now | |
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| How many partners is too many and how many have you had?
Posted: 6/5/2005 8:21:17 PM | IMO usually the # of partners someone has increases their chances of getting an STD and not all of them can be tested with a simple blood test... like HPV... which can be tested on a man via a DNA test.... and it is said that every # of partners you have after 3 you usually have HPV....
HPV is debilitating for women's reproductive organs.. Soooo I would rather a guy have 1-2 than more than that.... Anyway... I want to experiment WITH them....
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| How many partners is too many and how many have you had?
Posted: 6/5/2005 8:24:23 PM | | To seeker: Good post...I think that either male or female the question gets asked because people are insecure about their experience, or lack thereof, and they're unsure of their "skills"...so, no, you're probably not going to get out of the question...lol...she's just going to say, "Oh, that many, huh?" lol | |
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| How many partners is too many and how many have you had?
Posted: 6/5/2005 8:25:52 PM | | Sweetheart, I'll teach you everything I know...but first you have to tell me what the hell is an HPV or an HOV. I thought HOV were carpooling lanes in Canada? You can't drive in those if you have sex? I'm all confused again. | |
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| How many partners is too many and how many have you had?
Posted: 6/5/2005 8:32:31 PM |  whoops spelling error on "HOV"
Human Papillomavirus, commonly known as genital warts (which do not always show up on the penis!!! Mostly men just carry the virus... and a lot of times it is only detected on the cervix of a woman when she gets her pap smear.... ).
OT: Soooo I don't wanna sleep with a man who have had a million partners because this is the last thing I need (and condoms don't work 100%). (JUST MY OPINION OF COURSE! And it doesn't make someone "bad" or "evil" just not for me) | |
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| How many partners is too many and how many have you had?
Posted: 6/5/2005 8:32:35 PM | | well then i guess the only way is to mary a virgin and stay together forever,pshhh ya right i think you have just as much a chane of catching something nomatter how many people you been with hav'nt you seen kids | |
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| How many partners is too many and how many have you had?
Posted: 6/5/2005 9:11:10 PM | | I've never put notches on my bedpost but I've enjoyed those I wanted to and felt safe to. I have good self-restraint but I each person is a new experience altogether so you never accumulate brownie pts for it. Hehe... | |
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| How many partners is too many and how many have you had?
Posted: 6/5/2005 9:39:33 PM | LOL...very funny biz.....
I stopped counting in college and never looked back...means nothing and I do get tested often for me and insist on all my partners be tested too....that limits the encounters much and causes both of us to think first...is that bad or wrong?
I have never had a disease and never plan on having one.....life and relationships are out there and being careful and considerate.....as well as honest.....is what it takes on both sides.....   | |
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| How many partners is too many and how many have you had?
Posted: 6/5/2005 10:01:38 PM | @c_deacon No really this isn't a joke. I played in bands and was always in the clubs when I was younger. I would never wait in lines, just walk right up and the doors were open. No cover no nothing, lots of free drinks. I lived a life and with that life there was lots of sex. When your on stage there were groupies and you could pick who you wanted after the show and at your breaks. Things moved in heartbeats back then and it was a very fast life.
2500 may seem like a lot but it wasn't for me because of the way that I lived. Some nights there were an average of three a night and with all the blow I could go days without sleep and there were many around.
Now adays things have slowed down a bit but it's all still fun. | |
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| How many partners is too many and how many have you had?
Posted: 6/5/2005 10:13:29 PM | Yeah, bizie...I think I'm going to call shenanigans on that one...LOL...
J/k, if you did that many then you did that many...but I just can't help but wonder...do any one them stick out in your mind at all? Wouldn't it be hard to remember anyone special with that many? | |
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| How many partners is too many and how many have you had?
Posted: 6/5/2005 10:29:37 PM | Meg believe it or not I remember most of them, they all meant something to me be it a fast one in the storage room or in a relationship.
The ones from the club scenes were just a blur but I remember the groupies.
You have to keep in mind that there were lots of woman around in those days and sometimes there were 3 a night, sometimes a certain one would stay for a few days. I guess it was a lifestyle.
The past haunts me now as in when I'm asked how many woman that I've slept with and it takes a lot out of me to explain this to the person that I'm with. | |
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