| The first time you realize that you're sexy
Posted: 6/15/2008 10:42:54 AM | Being sexy is attitude for me. Has little or nothin to do with looks.
I know I'm sexy. Sometimes though, it's the pretty that I'm not sure about.
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NYinNM
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| The first time you realize that you're sexy
Posted: 6/15/2008 11:44:36 AM | I like to look in the mirror and make little pouty faces, like I´m kissing myself......
GOD I LOVE ME!!!!!!!!
My momma said.......If you don´t love yourself, then no one will.................
I try to love myself nightly................. | |
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| The first time you realize that you're sexy
Posted: 6/15/2008 1:40:24 PM | Well it was not the first time, but the first time in a long time. I had just gotton out of a 7 year marriage and immediately moved across the country. I had an acquantience IM me when he found out I was single. He said that he always thought I was the most amazing girl he had ever seen, but had stayed far away out of respect for my marriage. I realized that I had always been sexy and I won't ever let a man forget it again!
Too bad I moved so fast.... | |
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| The first time you realize that you're sexy
Posted: 6/15/2008 3:02:16 PM | Hmmmmmmmm....well I have always thought that I was special......Like Farley, I now cherish that I am not mainstream, but I love my look....
The first time....I was about 11-12, but that was an immature view as I realized the power sexuality had over men..........it was in my late teens when I really realized it and felt it.............through all of life's ups and downs, I think it is growing stronger.
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| The first time you realize that you're sexy
Posted: 6/15/2008 3:13:03 PM | One day I really liked myself inside and out.There was a glow and I shook what my mama gave me and realized I was blessed.And it doesnt hurt to catch a stare every now and again. | |
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| The first time you realize that you're sexy
Posted: 6/15/2008 3:32:58 PM | I've always felt sexy, even tho what I felt like may not have been outwardly shared, or even perceived in the same way I felt it. As I aged and began to grow into my skin, I knew it was oozing out and I had to learn to adjust it a bit...it was very powerful and still is.
Now, in intimate sexual interactions, I always knew by the look in his eyes and the way he touched me. You can tell so much simply by the way you're touched.
Course, it was always real cool to hear "My God, you are so fukin sexy"!
Did you look in the mirror and smile and smile back?
Always, lol.
Did you think about past lovers and how none of them really didn't like you?
Nope, they always liked me just fine.
I always found it interesting the times I was told I was sexy when I wasn't doing anything I thought was particularly sexy, lol. | |
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| The first time you realize that you're sexy
Posted: 6/15/2008 4:42:08 PM | | I've never thought of myself as sexy, I hear I'm cute, or good looking guy from time to time, but have never considered myself to be sexy. never saw it in the mirror | |
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| The first time you realize that you're sexy
Posted: 6/15/2008 4:59:39 PM | Being sexy and feeling sexy are two distinct things...Sexiness is very subjective.... I'd rather be regarded as a "sensual" person than a "sexy" person..
I do get more than my share of "you're fine as hell" , "omg you're hott" /"sexy" etc .. BUT I am always grateful for any compliment that I get and am humbled but it ... I am never one to let compliments on my looks go to my heart because lets face it looks are fleeting and not forever. The inner qualities are what is lasting..
To me, sexy is more that looks.. its defined in the attitude and the whole vibe a person gives off....
I confess that many times tho I am told I am sexy but I dont often feel it because ...sometimes I see myself as I did years back... confession time - I was an ugly kid I... mean like awful.. I was horrendously skinny no curves, braces on the teeth, thick glasses.. horror show.. I guess I'm what they call a "late bloomer" of sorts so its keeps me grounded and humbled really .... | |
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| The first time you realize that you're sexy
Posted: 6/15/2008 8:05:14 PM | SEXY, you either are , or your'e not. It' s not a look, its not something you wake up with ....... it is a your demeanor, its how you feel from inside showing through to the outside.... | |
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| The first time you realize that you're sexy
Posted: 6/15/2008 8:34:03 PM | When I put on my mothers bra..oops..shhhhh..I really didn't write that
never really thought of myself as feeling sexy,just really horny all the time | |
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| The first time you realize that you're sexy
Posted: 6/16/2008 3:12:02 AM |
We have all felt sexy, thought we looked sexy
Nope. Some of us have never had that feeling. Very often, the best I felt I could hope for is that she isn't disgusted by me. Not everyone is beautiful in this world. Some by design, some by circumstance. Wow, an epiphany. Maybe a blind person would like me. | |
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| The first time you realize that you're sexy
Posted: 6/16/2008 3:31:20 AM | | People keep asking me are you married?......or I bet you meet lots of women?....or how come you don't have a girlfriend you're a cutie? so figure on some level must be sexy....but everyone is sexy in their own way. | |
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| The first time you realize that you're sexy
Posted: 6/16/2008 7:36:58 AM | The day was a day I could smile despite the young girls at college making fun of me while I walked by (boob comments mostly). I realized at that point their opinion didn't matter, and that all of them were dressed to their necks.
I felt good and thats what did it for me. Not a guy or lover saying it... it was all about my own self awareness. | |
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| The first time you realize that you're sexy
Posted: 6/17/2008 7:05:11 PM | | It is all in the attitude. If you like yourself everybody else will. If you think you are sexy, more than likely everybody else will. I haven't found the "sexy" moment, but I do remember when I started believe I was cute. Big difference between the 2 | |
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| The first time you realize that you're sexy
Posted: 7/2/2008 8:14:18 PM | I always think when I'm having a really shitty day that somewhere someone envies me. Whether its because I'm tall, thin, funny, witty, smart or drive a cute car -- someone wants to be me. And it doesn't hurt if I have a handsome guy on my arm either (which I don't yet, I hope that might change) 
My ah-ha moment? I still get cat-calls from construction workers. | |
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| The first time you realize that you're sexy
Posted: 7/2/2008 9:37:56 PM | when i became comfortable with who i am and what i'm all about...mid 20s i guess and well i'm still sexy now at 40...
sexy is definitely an attitude one portrays...confidence in ones appearance and abilities equals sexy...and once you have that figured out then well it starts 'raining men (or women)!!! that was my theme song for many years...gotta love the Weathergirls for their one hit wonder!
and now, my man gets to enjoy me all to himself!! | |
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| The first time you realize that you're sexy
Posted: 7/2/2008 11:48:11 PM | I remember it like it was yesterday, and i still use it as my feel good thought to this day.
I was working at a Country Club in my area as a chef. I was perty young at the time, i would say 21 or 22. Well working at a private club you get to know the members deacently well. There was this beautiful girl who's father was a wealthy lawyer. She used to bring in her sorority sisters every night. After about a month of me working there we kept a perty regular dialog. After we put out the dinner service the kitchen staff would get cleaned up and make our rounds of the dinning room. Well one evening im making my rounds when i notice a spoon on the floor right next to their table. I bend over to pick it up and I dont know why i did it but i glanced around behind me. Her and 3 of her sorority sisters where checking out my butt and they all had huge grins on their faces. When they noticed that i had caught them the whole table turned beet red. Nothing ever came from it but after that evey time i did my rounds i would take a quick glance over usually finding her eyes pointing in my direction.
To this day thinking about that 1 occasion makes me feel like a million bucks. | |
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| The first time you realize that you're sexy
Posted: 7/9/2008 10:11:29 PM | ill be back to feelin sexy again after i lose another 10-15lbs or so.
as much as women say they arent superficial, its amazing the difference just 15 lbs can make.
when i was 10-15lbs leaner, every weekend i would goto a club/bar or goto the beach, or just any public place and end up with a good looking girl asking for my number or flirting etc, and never had a shortage of girls to date.
10-15lbs heavier and now im on POF and all i seem to get is chubby chicks hitting on me, lmfao.
actually, i wasnt even very nice when i was leaner, i was kind of an ***hole, and still got 10x as many women as i do now, lol. | |
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| The first time you realize that you're sexy
Posted: 7/10/2008 12:00:08 AM | The first time I realized I was sexy was when I was 9, looking at myself (while flexing) in my spiderman underoos, before "accidentally" barging into my older sisters slumber party.
The first thing that went through my mind were choices of sexy theme music.
I went with Rod Stewart. | |
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| The first time you realize that you're sexy
Posted: 7/10/2008 4:48:51 AM | I am told that I am sexy by a lot of women, I dont feel that way...... I just try to be me...what is comfortable for me
now sensual is something you have or you dont | |
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