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 rebel1542
Joined: 10/25/2007
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20 years ago back in my band road travelling days, yes. I felt a little peer pressure back in those days because it was the musician thing to do. There were some embarrasing times when I had a bit of trouble performing because I do prefer to know and feel comfortable with someone first. Nowadays it is a must to know someone first.
 WaywardWynde
Joined: 5/19/2007
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Posted: 10/31/2007 5:47:41 AM
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I don't know about some of you ppl, But I can't sleep with a stranger! I mean I need to know the person first and know a little bit about them. What about you guys, Would you sleep with someone you don't know?
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They are strangers if you have told them your deepest, darkest thougths. You are happy to tell tell your deepest, darkest thoughts if they ask intriguing questions, listen without judgement and are handsome in a way that touches you. Handsome you know when you first see them. The rest can happen in a couple hours, or less. They aren't strangers anymore
 WaywardWynde
Joined: 5/19/2007
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Posted: 10/31/2007 5:48:55 AM
Sorry, "they are not strangers ..."
 Mr-S-4u
Joined: 8/22/2007
Msg: 129
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Posted: 10/31/2007 7:50:29 AM
Casual Sex was something I did when I was 18-23 and while I was being stupid. Then I grew up ! These day's, it can be very tricky and there are danger's to it. The world has changed a lot and so it's kinda like running through a Minefield with a blindfold on... you are bound to step on one.

I personally want to get to know the person a bit first, see where they are at (Head Space) and watch for the famous "Red Flags"... Once I have a "feel" for the person and everything is good, then I will consider it. It simply isn't about the physical "act" (Fries Only) it is the "Whole Meal Deal".

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 Zentimes
Joined: 12/31/2006
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Posted: 12/1/2007 5:50:01 AM
With the right protection ~ I guess that anything is possible!
 SoccerBoyII
Joined: 11/7/2007
Msg: 131
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Posted: 12/3/2007 5:51:16 PM
Yeah, I could do it & have done it. It helps me if I'm really attracted to her & she's got a kicking personality, laid back & cool. Though in the end, yeah I'd do it,****d & protected. Of course there's big risk, but to be honest there's risks anytime you hook up, it's just the stakes are much higher with a new found stranger.
 sherlock
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 132
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Posted: 12/3/2007 6:01:07 PM
I like to at least see what they are looking for. Of course I WEAR A CONDOM! I then check her out to see she's clean at least on the outside and then we have fun. I had a really sh!tty marriage where the sex was infrequent and boring. I've gotten more blowjobs in 1 year than 15 years of marriage. I will never be married again!

I think I'm reasonably protected. No swelling itchiness or bad blood test.
 vahbsc
Joined: 1/5/2006
Msg: 133
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Posted: 12/3/2007 6:18:00 PM
i could, not just anyone, i'm selective, but as long as i can have sex with them a few times, then i never wanna see them again... sporadically of course. not every week or month
 Brownlady1953
Joined: 12/12/2008
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Posted: 12/16/2008 12:53:47 PM
I think anyone who does this has a death wish....
 Sepia777
Joined: 2/26/2008
Msg: 135
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Posted: 12/16/2008 12:59:06 PM
^^^^ agree 200% .....getting your swerve on with strangers amps up the likelihood that you're going get something you cant give back.. herpes( condoms do not prevent transmission), hiv/aids etc...
who needs that?
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 136
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Posted: 12/16/2008 1:02:17 PM
^^^ I'm with her. Well, not literally, but I agree.
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 137
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Posted: 12/16/2008 1:38:39 PM
I don't know about some of you ppl, But I can't sleep with a stranger! I mean I need to know the person first and know a little bit about them. What about you guys, Would you sleep with someone you don't know?


me either I first introduce myself.... ask them their name and then we shag ....just kidding but really its probably the more partners you have that increases your STD odds not whether they are strangers or even how strange they happen to be

I know two sisters the oldest one was very lets say adventurous...she slept with every guy she could for many years casual sex was her sport ...her sister gave up her virginity on her wedding night and caught herpes and HIV from her Husband who had had only one other partner...she caught it on or around her first time...she found out she had herpes about a month after her wedding and when they were tested the HIV showed up

bottom line either you are abstinent...or you are just as much a risk as someone who is promiscuous...its like a raffle the guy with one chance in the basket wins as often as the guy who takes a hundred chances...every time you have sex you roll the dice
 F*uck Head
Joined: 8/26/2008
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Posted: 12/16/2008 1:52:06 PM


Depends on how hot she is. Once in Vegas a women that was MODEL HOT was all about me for some reason. SO off to the hot tub around 5 in the morning and didnt end our little session till around ten. What an experience

It all depends for me. If she's hot and has an intense sex drive then hell yeah i'll take a ride. If she is good looking but no intestiy than probably not. Then again the life i use to live in Vegas was not a normal one and im surprised i didnt do it more often
 Kirota
Joined: 10/21/2008
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Posted: 12/16/2008 1:56:36 PM

It all depends for me. If she's hot and has an intense sex drive then hell yeah i'll take a ride.


I hope a lot of men don't think this way or you are sharing a ride with a lot of me. I have to laugh because a friend of mine will sleep with anything but he won't let anyone drive his car..........guess he just likes his women ridden hard not his car.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
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Posted: 12/16/2008 2:03:30 PM

I know two sisters the oldest one was very lets say adventurous...she slept with every guy she could for many years casual sex was her sport ...her sister gave up her virginity on her wedding night and caught herpes and HIV from her Husband who had had only one other partner...she caught it on or around her first time...she found out she had herpes about a month after her wedding and when they were tested the HIV showed up

bottom line either you are abstinent...or you are just as much a risk as someone who is promiscuous...its like a raffle the guy with one chance in the basket wins as often as the guy who takes a hundred chances...every time you have sex you roll the dice



BS... You have the same chance with each partner. Not the same chance with one as with all. The more chances you take the greater the odds against you.

If you just said, "I find it exciting, and it's worth taking the risk for me.", I'd have more respect for your choice than trying to justify it with a silly anecdote and a weak statistical argument. People have casual sex with strangers for the thrill of it. Part of the thrill is the irresponsibility.
 WhiteTigress0107
Joined: 9/30/2008
Msg: 141
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Posted: 12/16/2008 2:05:02 PM
Nope! Because that would also mean me meeting the guy somewhere private where I could possibly put myself in harms way.

 F*uck Head
Joined: 8/26/2008
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Posted: 12/16/2008 2:12:16 PM
[qoute] I hope a lot of men don't think this way or you are sharing a ride with a lot of me. I have to laugh because a friend of mine will sleep with anything but he won't let anyone drive his car..........guess he just likes his women ridden hard not his car. [/qoute]



I wont just sleep with anything and that was my point and believe me with the job i had it was very easy!!!

I mostly sleep with women im in a relationship or have know for awhile. That doesnt make you less safe when it comes to VD or other things but if you wrap it tight theres nothing else you can do really <img src=http://www.plentyoffish.com/smiles/icon_201.gif border=0>

When it came to lifestlye i wasnt your typical Vegas guy. Quite the opposite really <img src=http://www.plentyoffish.com/smiles/icon_201.gif border=0>
 F*uck Head
Joined: 8/26/2008
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Posted: 12/16/2008 2:18:37 PM
WhiteTigress0107 why does it have to be somewhere alone. Havent you ever done it on the hood of a car on a back road?? A closet in a mall??? A stairwell in the middle of a city???

You havent lived much have you
 goodone4ya
Joined: 10/12/2004
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Posted: 12/16/2008 2:24:48 PM
In my teens when i thought i was invincible it wasnt a problem. As i got older, it just started to feel weird because there are so many stds roaming out there. Theres also alot of nuts out there so i like to get to know em make sure they whom they portray to be
 WhiteTigress0107
Joined: 9/30/2008
Msg: 145
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Posted: 12/16/2008 2:28:38 PM
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uuugghhh *blushes* thinks to herself (damn I've been caught) nope, you're right have not lived much by alot of standards but am more than willing. hood of a car=no , closet in a mall= no but fantasized about it, stairwell= nope. I really need to get a life!!!

This one is aimed at you!!!
 bsg789
Joined: 12/4/2007
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Posted: 12/16/2008 7:26:48 PM
getting your swerve on with strangers amps up the likelihood that you're going get something you cant give back.. herpes( condoms do not prevent transmission), hiv/aids etc...


Anytime you have sex with someone, there is a risk regardless if that person is a stranger or not. Even if you had known someone for 5 yrs before having sex with them, would you know their sexual history prior to meeting them? Probably not. The only way you would be completely safe is abstinence. BTW most people do have some type of herpes ( usually oral / HSV-1 ). Oral herpes can be spread by kissing.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
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Posted: 12/16/2008 9:50:09 PM
Casual sex with stranger? Sure ,some wo/men do it all the time,when they are drunk or on drugs that induces them to crave for sex it does not matter who as long as they got their fix. And some women do it with money down first and no question ask..
 theadventurestartsnow
Joined: 1/17/2005
Msg: 148
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Posted: 12/16/2008 10:07:41 PM
It happens. Hopefully you are protected when it does but I find it naive for a person to say never cause honestly in this crazy world ya never know what will happen. It's all about passion.
 snookassassin
Joined: 11/28/2008
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Posted: 12/16/2008 10:17:27 PM
No casual nookie for me, thanks. I may be a silly banana, but I'm no dummy!
 snookassassin
Joined: 11/28/2008
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Posted: 12/16/2008 10:31:13 PM
Seriously, people... Here's some food for thought for you folks out there who think random stranger sex so long as you have a condom is okay:

The size of the HIV virus is something like .034 microns. The size of the largest average hole in condoms? Something like .05 microns. That's small enough to block sperm, but that's about it. That's the reason that condoms say that they are not guaranteed against diseases. I don't know about you, but but I really don't see the short term pleasure worth the long term risk.

And guys, wtf are you thinkin?!?! If a woman is willing to put out for you as a total stranger, then what's to make you think that she's not gonna cry rape later? and the holes in the condoms bit goes for us, too.

And what if the condom breaks? an unexpected pregnancy with someone you don't know? The insecure thoughts of abortion, marriage, custody if you turn out to hate each other.... No fvcking thanks.
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