| DISAGREE. Time for math
Posted: 5/7/2008 3:15:56 AM | Besides giving us a chance to list our favorite stereotypes, generalizations, myths and for some, their
bitterness about both genders, why did you ask this question OP ?
As mentioned above, there are studies if it is pure Science that you are looking for.
Otherwise, this is just a chance to prove we all believe some pretty silly and conflicting
things about each other.
Or am i just generalizing ? Don't you hate when people do that ?  | |
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| Women have a lot more sexual partners on average - agree?
Posted: 5/7/2008 4:09:50 AM | I've never gone to a club to meet a guy, or given my real name to one, or left to go home with one. That's the the place I hope to or desire to meet someone. My girlfriends arrive together and leave together so there's no chance for them to risk getting kidnapped or doped up and date-raped (I'm assuming they carpool -- could be cuz gas is high). The only theory I'd be willing to go with is that to support women having more sexual partners on average than a man is because they statistically have more of a challenge having an orgasm and therefore may switch partners more frequently to achieve satisfaction-- but once they do are x's more likely to remain monogamous in pursuing that relationship.
Otherwise, I think women are generally more chaste and selective about each partner they select where men might be more anxious because it is not as easy for them to 'get it'. | |
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| Women have a lot more sexual partners on average - agree?
Posted: 5/7/2008 5:58:54 AM | I go to the clubs alot and my main thing is music is im there alot and as an artist coming off the stage after doing a show is the equal of having a Vigina haha i mean it makes it alot easier to bring someone home. I usually dont because im busy with some business i usually tend to.
With that being said. being in the club i would say from what i have seen over the years reguardless of what studies say and i go to alot of clubs all over Canada and U.S and from my experience and from what my other friends have told me and i seen it....
Ladies are the sneakiest ones. they do it and dont tell the Gf....they dont tell no one...i dont care what the ladies here are saying....i seen it and most of them have BF at home...laying in the back seat of a car getting it from some stranger... drunk out of her mind .....i cannot say every single gurl but come on i have seen alot of this happen. if not back seat then definitely they go back to the home lol....not for nite thoe cause thats how they get caught and usualy say ohh im out with the gurls .... | |
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| Women have a lot more sexual partners on average - agree?
Posted: 5/7/2008 6:29:18 AM | I'm tired of people saying that " calling women by sluts is a double-standard". It is NOT a double-standard. It is strictly a reality due to anatomy. women control HETEROSEXUAL SEX. Not men ! a man can go as far as a woman let him to go. It's the woman's choice, not the man's. Why do you think that over 90% of all prostitutes in the world are women? do you think is just a coinsidence??
In heterosexual sex, women are in the receiving end, she has a hole where she can receive a penis. She can easily open her legs to admit an infinite supply of penises in there. Homosexual men, the same, all he has to do is open his legs too or bend over, he won't have problem finding an infinite supply of " homosexual penises". Therefore, he can be label a slut, because he is using his anatomy as a receiving end.
Men, stop adopting this politacally correct bs from the feminazis, getting yourself brainwashed. Ask Wasimodo, the hunchback from Notre Damn, if is easy for him to be a slut, een if wants to.
Caesar08, have you EVER heard anyone call a homosexual man who prefers to receive rather than take a slut? Cos i havent, and im sure no one else here has. Women are the ones labelled sluts, and thanks for adding the 'feminazi' label to the mix. Comparing people merely fighting for their gender rights to people who killed millions of jews. nice. | |
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| Women have a lot more sexual partners on average - agree?
Posted: 5/7/2008 7:24:31 AM |
Think about it - all a woman has to do is walk into a club, and while not directly go up to a guy and say "I wanna fu(k you", she just has to grind up to any number of guys on the dancefloor, give him the right look for him to move in for a make out session, and it's off to the bedroom.
I used to buy into this theory as well until a few years ago I sat down with a friend and actually listed the number that I could remember off the top of my head of female sexual partners that I had had. I had always considered myself to be a little low on that particular totem pole but... ouch. I had to blush when we actually totalled them up. She was laughing and calling ME the "slut" by the time we finished. What's worse is that I always thought that she sorta "slept around" when we were younger as she has always been a very good-looking lady. It was all in good fun, but it opened my eyes.
I think men feel this way because we have to work much harder at it than most ladies do so we perceive that they have more partners because they have many more opportunities. | |
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| Women have a lot more sexual partners on average - agree?
Posted: 5/7/2008 7:35:07 AM | | If that were true, then a select few guys are getting a lot of action. Last I checked, it takes two people (at least) to have sex. Is there a secret "for women only" sex club that they aren't telling us about???? | |
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| your math is wrong
Posted: 5/7/2008 7:48:14 AM |
Since there are more females than males(war, missing leg on your chromosomes, etc) men will HAVE to have more sex than the
Dude, are you living in the 60's? Wake up, this is 2008, and the wolrd is a SAUSAGEFEST ! There are more men than women in the world, just China and India alone, which make about 40% of world population, there is a growing crisis with their male:female ratio imbalance due to all the female infanticide and abortion of females.
It is funny that people still believing olddata, like there are more women,even from a decade ago, things have changed.
In the United States, there are more men than women, U.S.A is a sausagefest, and getting worst.
go do a google search, and type " missing women". you'll see that article and the censi. That'll take you out of the 60's. | |
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| Women have a lot more sexual partners on average - agree?
Posted: 5/7/2008 7:48:58 AM | I think men feel this way because we have to work much harder at it than most ladies do so we perceive that they have more partners because they have many more opportunities.
Without a doubt, this is where that "theory" comes from.
In bars and clubs there are a lot more men thinking they are "off to the bedroom" than there actually are. I have worked in clubs over 20 years, and have had a LOT of female friends/aquaintences over the years, and almost none of them have regularly left a club with strangers. A couple did, but it was once or twice over the course of years...and it was motivated by revenge, drinking, vacation, recent divorce or something else outside the actual encounter itself. Also, the man they slept with was someone they'd been looking at/flirting with/talking to for a while before something happened.
Most women are getting laid, but it's not by someone in the club - watch them as they leave a bar or club, most are either taking a call or making one. That's usually the end of the night booty call... | |
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| Women have a lot more sexual partners on average - agree?
Posted: 5/7/2008 7:53:47 AM | nope. On average both genders have the same number of partners.
For years studies have found women with fewer partners than men on average.
A couple of yeras ago a mathematician and statician studied the results. The wrote a rigourous mathematical proof that showed that for every hetrosexual encounter both a man and a woman were present. Consequently the total number of such encounters must bee the same for either sex. Divide the number encounters by the number of participants(which must also be the same number) and you get the same ratio.
Of course it's easier for women, and not just average looking women. Any woman, no matter how old or how fat or how ugly, can get a quickie. However men spend a lot more time trying to get a quickie
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| Women have a lot more sexual partners on average - agree?
Posted: 5/7/2008 7:54:51 AM | | A thing i notice that many guys (mostly younger) don't understand is that the majority of women are sexual only when they are stimulated mentally, meaning turn on their mind and the body follows while almost all men are stimulated physically. This just means that yes women have what all men want but very few men have what a woman wants. It is nature, the way we are made the males are meant to try and breed as much as possible and the females are meant to be fussy and choose the best male it all boils down to keeping the race going with strong offspring. Oh and about the number of sleeping partners it means nothing for both men and women, life is short and if you can't handle the number of lovers you partner has had then you should never ask!! | |
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| Women have a lot more sexual partners on average - agree?
Posted: 5/7/2008 7:58:41 AM |
Caesar08, have you EVER heard anyone call a homosexual man who prefers to receive rather than take a slut? Cos i havent, and im sure no one else here has. Women are the ones labelled sluts, and thanks for adding the 'feminazi' label to the mix. Comparing people merely fighting for their gender rights to people who killed millions of jews. nice
bwahaha, plenty of time. Obviously you haven't been around gay people much . Go to youtube and type " Noah's Ark", you'll see the word " slut" alot there.
about the term " feminazi", it has been explained here a million times. It doesn't mean a woman that was a fan of the nazi party. The nazi part means " hate", hate of men, and the fascist tactics they want to employ to try to subjugate men. ( domestic violence,child custody, alimony, etc, etc). | |
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| Women have a lot more sexual partners on average - agree?
Posted: 5/7/2008 8:02:10 AM | | I thought the formula depended on who the man was talking too...If talking to the wife/gf he cheated on take the number he told you he slept with and times by three, If you are his male buddy, divide by four. I think women are more honest about how many they slept with though, but like an above said, the number is low cause it is fwbs and stuff. | |
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| Women have a lot more sexual partners on average - agree?
Posted: 5/7/2008 12:56:54 PM |
if you can't handle the number of lovers you partner has had then you should never ask!!
So based on that logic, we shouldn't know because we're afraid to ask?
Sorry, if I can't handle the number of lovers my partner has had, then I'll move on to someone whose numbers I can handle. It's not insecurity or anything... it's just choosing based on personal preferences... no different than choosing to date blondes over brunettes... | |
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| DISAGREE. Time for math
Posted: 5/7/2008 12:59:58 PM |
So it's no wonder women think all men sleep with anyone they possibly can!
If I followed the math correctly, then it seems to me that statistically, women have a higher likelihood of sleeping with men who have a higher number of partners also...
further reinforcingthe stereotype... | |
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| DISAGREE. Time for math
Posted: 5/7/2008 1:07:37 PM | Sometimes I feel silly even reading some of this stuff. Good grief!!!  I agree with those above who state that it does takes two (or more if you're into that scene) to have sex. Well, unless you're only having it alone 
As for the whole walking into a club and walking out with a new sexual partner ~ PFT. If you walk in alone and out with someone else, seems to me ~ he's having just as much sex as I am if that is the plan and I'm the one he's leaving with. It is, as stated above, simple math. JMO  | |
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| DISAGREE. Time for math
Posted: 5/7/2008 1:36:20 PM | if it's an average the answer would be practically the same. it wouldn't matter if a few women had hundreds of partners as they'd be doing it with some guy and for each occurence a woman does it, a man is involved. I could explain it if asked for mathematical details...maybe i could even come up with a proof.
if you want to isolate a portion of each of the groups, men and women, then you'd have something more to talk about. Speak of the top 10% aggressive women versus the top 10% aggressive males for example. An ordinary woman can get 10 men per day, EVERY DAY. No man I know can do that, not even rockstars as women might get creeped out in time about what they're doing, but plenty of men would keep going at a woman with reckless abandon if she keeps screaming for more sex!. | |
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| DISAGREE. Time for math
Posted: 5/8/2008 1:29:51 AM | its like a lot of things in this life, lots of women think a lot of things men like sexually that is considered out of the norm to be perverse.
What i have discovered tho from the forums is that a lot of women will go outside their comfort zone and do/try other things but ONLY with the guy in her life and ONLY in the bedroom.
Whereas a lot of guys will do just about anything with any woman almost any where. | |
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| DISAGREE. Time for math
Posted: 5/8/2008 2:46:37 AM | The maths in this thread made me happy on the inside.
The average is the same for all intents and purposes. The median and distribution will be different, but that was not the original posters understanding.
People have sex. They may not want to have it with you. Deal with it. | |
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| Women have a lot more sexual partners on average - agree?
Posted: 5/8/2008 3:00:13 AM | Using a 10.0 scale, "average" would be 5.0. OP, please freshen up on your math skills before using them again in the forums.
OT: I disagree with you. I know plenty of guys who have slept with over 100 lucky ladies (ewww...can we say "What's your STD of choice?"). MOST women I know have slept with between 12-30 men. On the other hand, most men I know are over 50+ women. I can count on two fingers the number of men I know that are in the single digits.
~Welder's Girl~ | |
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| Women have a lot more sexual partners on average - agree?
Posted: 5/8/2008 6:43:18 AM | "I'm tired of people saying that " calling women by sluts is a double-standard". It is NOT a double-standard."
YES, it is. I am not talking about biology, I am talking about calling people derogatory names and having a general lack of respect. I adopt nothing from feminazis and no one is brainwashing me. Go back to your dead bug collection and come back when you know what you are talking about. | |
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| Women have a lot more sexual partners on average - agree?
Posted: 5/8/2008 9:26:07 AM |
MOST women I know have slept with between 12-30 men. On the other hand, most men I know are over 50+ women. I can count on two fingers the number of men I know that are in the single digits.
Well, then either you're hanging with the wrong crowd, or your friends are telling fiction.
Most of the men I know, have slept with less than 5-8 women, yet most of the women I know have slept with 15+
I know one who had reached 15o men by the time she was 20....
Another was a swinger...
( I know, maybe I'm hanging with the wrong crowd....)
I've had a lot of partners, but there's none of my friends even close to my numbers...
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