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Posted: 5/7/2008 10:35:46 AM |
ALL WOMEN ARE WHORES " This was said by William Shakesphere many years ago..
With that said, you must take into account the following, an excerpt from Wiki:
The sexuality of William Shakespeare has been questioned numerous times over the years. Even though he married Anne Hathaway and had three children, circumstantial evidence (such as in Shakespeare's sonnets and plays) suggests he had affairs with other women or may have taken an erotic interest in men.
There is no conclusive proof but it seems like old Bill Shakespeare was quite the whore himself.
OP,
I think many prostitutes who are married happened to be married to someone in the biz. Please note, I said, 'many.' At any rate, I, for one, could and would not. It's not about security, it's a personal preference regarding morality. Someone with many former lovers does not have the same mindset or morality views as someone who sells their body, despite the reason, for sex.
I wouldn't judge them for doing so, I just prefer not to date them. | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 11:01:48 AM | | That is really gross. I would not want someone with STD's. Now there is a differnce if its a street whore then no. if its ahigh end prostitute working in a classy brothel with high end clients and is screened for STD's regularly then maybe... but there si still the ick factor. | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 11:04:26 AM |
Unless it's rape, women always have the final word as far as whether sex will happen. They are the ones making the rules. Men do what they can to get that precious vagina. No woman HAS TO take money for sex, but she WANTS TO.
Because, clearly, the guy would have no say in the matter.
Oh wait... | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 11:10:01 AM | Don't get me wrong I do not agree with prostitution I think it is awful. I do not think highly enough of money to sell something that is personal. To me sex is something that gets better with someone you love and the more you know each other the better it gets. It is something only for him and no one else.
But the women selling it and the men buying it are the same kind of people.
You can not look down on a woman who will sell it and not look down at a man who will buy it. Men should be held up to the same standard why can't he wait to be in love or whatever. I agree her chances of a STD is higher but men can catch it from any woman with only one interaction.
Also unless she is a high price call girl or escort from what I understand they do not make all that much money. | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 11:12:50 AM | | I have nothing against prostitution, swingers etc. But I would not want my wife having sex with other men regardless of the circumstances. | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 11:20:37 AM | they don't give it away for free.... you have to buy dinner, drinks and so on....then a kiss on the cheek. better off with a prostitute,LOL. when i was married it was the honeydew list.don't do it and no luvmaking.
just kidding ladies. | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 11:34:06 AM | | Hmm would you marry a ball player who does what he loves to do for a living? | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 11:38:39 AM | Good for you,man!!F...what anyone else thinks.
I remember something about a prostitute and cast the first stone....hmmm | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 12:55:11 PM | > Could you marry or even just date a prostitute assuming that prostitution was completely legal?
NO!
So, now do I get a free night with a good one for giving the correct answer? I'm just wondering... | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 1:24:22 PM | As george carlin once said -
"Selling is legal, Fuc$ing is legal, why isn't selling fuc$ing legal?" | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 2:07:31 PM | Oh goodie!
Yet another thread where women (our mothers, our sisters, and our daughters) are called whores...youpee! 
OT...
I had a short lived but very intense relationship (5 months) with a man who had sold his soul on the streets of Detroit when he
was a young teenager.
His was a very sad (and complex ) story of severe physical and emotional abuse/neglect at the hands of his father.
His mother died when he was 8 years old and...well...anyway. I met him in 1978...I believe the year of the child was in 1977...he was 25 years old when I met him...the law came in a little too late for him and his brothers and sisters.
Anyway...he was a very nice and beautiful man and he's one of the few men I can honestly say I loved and "clicked" with on every level.
But life is what it is and I had to let him go. He just had too many issues and his past kept coming to haunt him time after time. I was freshly divorced with two young children at the time and I had to make a choice and I chose my children.
He came and paid me a visit some years later in my hometown, and my heart sank when I saw him. In just a few years, he seemed to have aged one hundred years...he looked old, worn out and without hope. Many of his teeth were missing or rotten and he was in extremely poor mental and physical health.
Unfortunately, he had gone back to doing the only thing he felt he knew how to do, and it was slowly killing him physically,
as well as emotionally and spiritually. And that's the last time I've seen or heard of him...may the universe be kind to his soul.
So I guess my answer is both yes and no. Yes, I have dated and loved a man who worked as a prostitute before. No...I don't
think I could or would ever do it again.
JMO
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Posted: 5/7/2008 2:11:12 PM | If someone is not willing to pay for it then it would not be sold.
Prostitution is not only women men do it as often as women just not talked about as much.
Would I date a male prostitute.. No way in H E L L....
All the men I have been with in a dating relationship their numbers were at least twice as many as mine. Why can't men keep it in thier pants?
I don't care either if men have sex just for the sake of having sex he is still getting something out of it. Whether a female is getting money or having sex it is still the same thing. Prostitutes are providing a service of which does not involve me unless my man is going to one. If that is the case I am not doing something right then that is my fault. Still does not give him the right to buy it from someone else. If he needs to do that he should divorce me before doing that. | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 3:37:45 PM |
ALL WOMEN ARE WHORES " This was said by William Shakespeare many years ago..
His reasoning was that women have survived throughout history by using their sexual favors as a survival tool.
I have observed this to be true..
Also I have found that very few women are true to their spouses..
My ex wife cheated and lied..
She was the last one in the world that I thought could do such a thing.
She acted like the perfect housewife and mother but still has many secrets that she will never tell.
So I have to tell all the men out there that if they think their woman wouldn't cheat on them...
THINK AGAIN AND WATCH YOUR BACKS.!
Chances are that you already ARE married to a prostitute...
Wow nebula i really should be surprised anymore by your angry misogynistic statements seeing as you never let a chance go by to slam women some how. You think because you have had bad experiences that this is how it is for everyone? You are really messed up. I really don't see how you have been able to stay on pof with the filth you spew. On the first page when you are signing up it says anyone with anger issues will be kicked off pof. I guess it's just for show. Some of the men in these forums are very discouraging people. | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 3:46:55 PM | The idea is without doubt most ludicrous and utterly disturbing!
Isn't the idea of a relationship with a significant other to form a bond of trust.
One would never be able to trust someone who sold there body.. Even if the other was fully aware of the ongoings.. there could never be true love.
It only comes from giving oneself fully to the other.
Two halves of a whole... | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 4:03:48 PM | If prostitution were legal, wouldn't that inherently reduce or remove the social stigma of it being wrong? Kind of like cigarettes before the negative ad campaign and connections with cancer?
I am assuming in this situation, since it is legal, there are tax (contributing member of society) and health (OSHA) regulations in place and the women are working in this profession by choice rather than necessity. I couldn't date a crack whore.
Holding to the previous assumptions I wouldn't have to "deal" with someone having sex with my girlfriend. It's her body, her choice, and her method of supporting her life. I consider her my SO/Girlfriend/wife due to more than just sex, and in no way do I own her.
I am not sure how I could date her though. Did I meet her through her work? Probably not be able to date her. There is the issue of possibly breaking up, then the business relationship would just suck. There is also the issue of asking her out. While inside her? When cleaning up? "Thanks for the moist towlette, wanna go out sometime?"
If I met her in public, some innocuous setting, and learned she was a happy legal prostitute then sure, no problem.
I think a better question would be what if I was pro life and my girlfriend or someone I wanted to or was dating worked at an abortion clinic?
Or are you asking if it is possible for two people with different standards, paradigms, and ideals to start ,or continue, a meaningful relationship without one person attempting to change the others beliefs? | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 4:38:56 PM | | Valla, I couldn't do it. I couldn't even date someone who was in one of the adult entertainment portions of the industry. | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 6:54:09 PM | Ya, know ppl date everday period. what is a date its where a man or woman ask the opsite sex out for dinner or what ever. what happins at the end sex maybe maybe not. chances r gthat most ppl do have sex after a date . If ya drive over to there house u pay for it dinner paying for it, fixin there cars,mowing there yards. doing anything and then having sex your paying for it. Hello to all the ones who say they dont , wont , cant , whatever ur excuse it ur fulla shit. u pay for it in a way at ever time ya have sex u payed for something that was done for ya HELLO BLIND PPLS. use ur heard for something besides a hat rack....
yall have a good nite
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Posted: 5/7/2008 7:00:44 PM | | From the looks of you guys' replies and content, anyone can tell you know nothing of what you speak. The world goes on just fine with people being in the dark about certain things, and this Industry prefers that they wank themselves while only fantasizing to fuzzy and idealistic dreams. | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 7:37:37 PM | I can still remember the prostitute that went door to door when i was away at college. She was nasty. And she made some money. But not at my door.  And one of the lines she gave was that she was pregnant and needed the money for the abortion. THAT had to be about the lowest thing i have EVER experianced. Even for me. | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 8:15:38 PM | The problem with the typical "street ho" is that (s)he's addicted to crack, and who knows what else. Issues about STDs and a criminal history aside, the drug addiction is nearly impossible to overcome, most are sucked back in (I believe the recidivism rate for "reformed" crack addicts is about 98%).
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Posted: 5/7/2008 8:35:10 PM | ^^ Yeah but who would even seriously contemplate marrying a (non-reformed) "street ho"?? And I'm sure most of those have no real desire to get hitched anyway.
I'll change my own earlier answer; If a girl I was with already told me she'd been, at one time, say, an "escort" -- as long as she was always safe about it and wasn't currently doing it -- I could live with that. But I'm not sure if that's exactly what they're talking about here by "prostitutes" (although most escorts basically ARE that anyway). | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 9:13:20 PM | | What i meant by prostitution was anyone who has sex for money. This includes people who work in pornography. I could not live with the fact that my husband would be banging other women. Getting paid for it or not would make no difference to me. Ughh gross. | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 9:59:37 PM | " ALL WOMEN ARE WHORES " This was said by William Shakesphere many years ago..
His reasoning was that women have survived throughout history by using their sexual favors as a survival tool.
I have observed this to be true..
Also I have found that very few women are true to their spouses..
My exwife cheated and lied..
She was the last one in the world that I thought could do such a thing.
She acted like the perfect housewife and mother but still has many secrets that she will never tell.
So I have to tell all the men out there that if they think their woman wouldn't cheat on them...
THINK AGAIN AND WATCH YOUR BACKS.!
Chances are that you already ARE married to a prostitute
What a sad and despicable commentary to read on here although I'll admit that I'm not
surprised knowing that there are so many angry and hostile men among us. Its so much easier to lash out against women instead of dealing with one's own inadequacies. As if all the viagra commercials would not suffice! And as far as the prostitution issue is concerned, as well as objectifying women lets not overlook that fact that it is a slow death sentence ending in drug addiction, stds and cervical cancer.. Not a life that most
women would chose for themselves had they better oportunites. | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 10:22:41 PM | I once had a discussion with a person who was violently opposed to killing another person. I posited a situation inwhich she had to choose to kill or not to defend a child. I am reminded of that discussion when I read your question. Can I imagine a scenario that I would marry or date a prostitute? I can imagine any number of situations that I would sublimate my personal moral or ethical views. To turn the question around to make it more palatable for women, would you date or marry a gigolo. I can remember two movies that Richard Gere figured in prominently that examined both these questions.
What a person does, does not define who a person is. Valla (or any woman reading this), if you were in a war torn country and had two starving infants at home, can you say that you wouldn't prostitute yourself to obtain food or safety for your family if you had no other option? I would not hesitate to form a relationship with a woman who had to make that choice.
The other question dealing with someone else having sex with my partner. Around 30 years ago, there was a fair amount of controversy around sexual surrogates. These were trained professionals who performed a "medical" service. I would have no hesitation in dealing if my partner was a sexual surrogate. Once again, it comes down to the motivation of the person "prostituting" themselves.
PS Any woman who wants to hire ErehwonEnoon - the middle aged gigolo - just remember, I might be easy but I'm not cheap. | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 10:49:09 PM |
Valla (or any woman reading this), if you were in a war torn country and had two starving infants at home, can you say that you wouldn't prostitute yourself to obtain food or safety for your family if you had no other option?
That has nothing at all to do with the topic of this thread. This is not about the lengths we would go to to feed and protect our family. It is about right now in our lives and society would you date or marry a prostitute. The answer for me is no i would not. We are not living in a third world country where we have a choice between starve or prostitute ourselves. That is an entirely different question.
Sorry but the only person i want having sex with my husband is me. I guess i am weird that way. | |
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