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Posted: 5/7/2008 10:59:58 PM | If I had a man I would not be okay with him being an escort, etc.......Not b\c of jealousy or b\c I found his profession to be wrong....It would totally be a health issue.....b\c even if he was being safe, it is putting him at a higher risk because he would be having encounters with a larger volume of people than the norm.....My health is too valuable so I better not find out any man, regardless of his profession, is having sexual encounters with others.....off with his HEAD!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 11:20:15 PM | Personally, and answering as well the previous posts talking about "how prostitutes DISRESPECT themselves", I believe this is utterly stupid thinking. How society has come to make us judge those who do this or do that. The fact that they are prostitutes doesn't mean they deserve less respect than those who doesn't ( I know you didn't say that, I'm saying it!). Also, judging and not thinking about what the hell is going on with their lives is something to think about? Were you born perfect? If you do don't why don't cut them some slack. Those who reply to this question with a statement like that, obviously didn't read well the question. It's the same people talking about disrespecting prostitutes who go and sleep with prostitutes. Would that be disrespectful (hell no they'd say)
I know most people wouldn't. But I would. As long as the heart of that person belongs to me. I'm nobody to say anything to change her life, even if she makes a living like that. I can try to change her, but if she doesn't want to. You have to respect that. But you want to change her? well ,change her situation, be man enough to provide for her the things she needs. And I'm talking about the right person! not every single prostitute out there is good hearted, nor every person in the world is!
My philosophy is not unique, and even if you don't agree with me. Well known people in history such as Jesus, Ghandi, Aristotle, even Abraham Lincoln mentioned about....
"Never criticize anybody"
Respect everybody, anybody, anywhere. | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 11:24:31 PM | | What a stupid question! Of course nobody would want to date and certainly never marry a prostitute. That's disgusting!! He/she could have a number of std's. Who would want to chance that? | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 11:38:44 PM | This is not really about disrespecting prostitutes. If you want the truth i think prostitution should be legalized. If that is what someone chooses to do then why is it illegal? Now i may not like what someone is doing , agree with it or ever want to do it myself, but that doesn't mean it should be illegal. Just like marijuana and polygamous relationships i believe should be legalized so should prostitution.
Never would i ever want to be involved in a polygamous relationship , smoke pot or be a prostitute but that doesn't mean that it's wrong for others. It just means it's wrong for me. Sex is an important thing for me and being with someone who has sex with others for money obviously don't think or feel the same way as i do about things so that's not someone i would ever want to be with.
Sex to me is an act of love and selling it cheapens it in my opinion. Sex to others may mean nothing more then a handshake, a hug or an extracurricular activity , so to these type of people their wife or husband having sex with others for money would mean nothing. I need someone to be faithful to me in mind and in body. If too others all you require is that someone be faithful to you in mind then that's just how you are. I believe though that most people would have a problem with someone they love having sex with other people. That's one thing about humanity that wont ever change all that much.
What a stupid question!
Obviously it's not a stupid question as their as some who answered that yes they would date or marry a prostitute. | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 11:40:39 PM | | no i couldent unless thay left that life, it gos againts whats moraly right whats naturealy right and whats right by god, it falsl under the thall shall not camit adultry, ( 10 camandments) so no i would neve try and have a family with a girl that knowingly gos againts god and whats right and dont care. | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 11:48:11 PM | nah...not interested in dating or a ltr with a hooker
i cherish my lower frontal appendage too much to take the risk | |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 11:59:57 PM | | Why would anyone jump at the chance to be with someone who has sex for money or really anyone who has slept with alot of men or women? I guess I just can't get past thinking that someone could fall in love with someone who sleeps with multiple people. If you love someone than you shouldn't be sleeping with others. Love means committment to that one person. I guess I'm old fashioned that way. | |
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Posted: 5/8/2008 5:46:09 AM | Prostitution has been going on since the beginning of time. Next step is for vaginas to start acception credit cards, think about it, the vagina is already shaped credit card friendly..... All one has to do is swipe the card between those lips. No need to worry about carrying cash while going into those scary neighborhoods to visit your favorite hooker
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Posted: 5/8/2008 6:08:27 AM | Like I said in my earlier post...I don't think I could ever date another man who had worked as a prostiture before, let alone
someone who was still working as one...BUT...
I would rather be with someone who works as a prostitute but who has a kind, albeit wounded heart, than be with someone
whose heart is so cold and dark that he sees all women as whores or as liars and cheaters.
I would rather share my meal with a prostitute who sees me as a decent but flawed human being, like them, than have dinner
with someone who's so bitter and jaded that he sees me and all women as potential dinner whores or gold diggers.
I would rather share my bed with a prostitute who plays no games than with a man who is honing his latest pickup artist
techniques on me only to callously toss me aside like yesterday's garbage when he's done.
I would rather share my home with a prostitute who has a deep love for humanity and who cries for the plight of mankind than share it with someone who is full of hatred and who sees people as mere commodities to be used and abused.
I would rather be with a prostitute than with the "john" who just paid for her/his services but who has no respect for her/him as
a human being and who sees her/him as a semen receptacle only.
I would rather sleep with a prostitute using no condom and risk possibly catching the worst physical diseases than sleep with someone who's already infected with the worst diseases known to mankind, which are hatred, ignorance, and bigotry (IMO).
So I guess I'll have to change my previous answer from a simple no, to...."there are many people who I would not date or even
care to spend one minute of my time with, and prostitution has nothing to do with that decision."
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Posted: 5/8/2008 7:39:47 AM | It is so interesting that again I am percieved as a man that is bitter towards women...
Just because I quote a historical figure and something that is known that this person said..
I am NOT a woman hater.. I LOVE WOMEN.!!!!
What people like valla maldoran seem to get upset about is my profound honesty..
Am I supposed to act like some of these other men that only want to kiss up to women so that I can get some of them into my bed ???
NO,, I will be honest about what I have seen during my life...
I have nothing to hide and no games to play..
I just think that all men should be aware of the things that women are capable of doing..
A married woman being a secret prostititute DOES happen all the time..
If I give up on finding a good woman and also become a prostitute " just like so many women" that doesn't mean that I don't love women..
I am a very passionate man that loves sex, With WOMEN.
So please,, find someone else to bash or at least get the facts straight.. | |
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Posted: 5/8/2008 8:52:07 AM | I don't know about today, but prostitution used to be a way for some women to jump social classes, to come from the lower strata of society and stand a good chance of meeting, interacting with, and maybe even marrying a man of high standing. There are numerous examples of this happening. H.L. Mencken wrote about it 90 years ago in In Defense of Women (http://www.gutenberg.org/dirs/etext98/ndwmn10.txt - see section #43, "The Lady of Joy").
I think the idea, which is real easy to understand, was that if she was able to make a decent go of it in the profession it meant she had to have some idea about pleasing a man, and this made her more attractive. I suppose a somewhat rudimentary analogy would be renting a car and then deciding you liked it so much that you wanted to drive one all the time, rather than just picking a new one off the lot because you thought you liked its color or styling.
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Posted: 5/8/2008 10:26:26 AM | Dating a prostitute would be hard.. You'd have to deal with the fact that she's sleeping with and being intimate with other men for money. You'd constantly be worrying about her safety when she's out working hoping all her clients are normal men and not psychos. and what if she comes home after being with a client she genuinely enjoyed being with how do you think that makes "him" feel? That's why I couldn't date one Too much drama too much complications. A former prostitute maybe but not one who still worked in the business. Too messy and complicated.
"I would rather be with a prostitute than with the "john" who just paid for her/his services but who has no respect for her/him as
a human being and who sees her/him as a semen receptacle only. "
no respect for human beings... kind of like many bleeding hearts who think prostitutes can't think for themselves and bash johns and blame them for all sorts of crimes? the "johns" are usually the ones who treat prostitutes with the most respect. because the rest of society thinks prostitutes are trash. | |
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Posted: 5/8/2008 3:43:41 PM | I just think that all men should be aware of the things that women are capable of doing..
A married woman being a sercret prostititute DOES happen all the time..
And tell me what are men capable of doing ? How about paying prostitutes for sex risking getting a deadly disease and then on the SAME night going home to give that disease to their loving wife. Now who's the victim here? Sadly but true many unwiting senior wives who must spend the last years of their lives suffering the pain and shame of it all. | |
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Posted: 5/8/2008 4:29:27 PM | Too funny black_velvet
"OW! Turning the card doesn't help. I said I DON'T accept American Express...OW! Stop it!" | |
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Posted: 5/9/2008 1:57:27 AM | " ALL WOMEN ARE WHORES " This was said by William Shakesphere many years ago..
His reasoning was that women have survived throughout history by using their sexual favors as a survival tool.
I have observed this to be true..
Also I have found that very few women are true to their spouses..
My exwife cheated and lied..
She was the last one in the world that I thought could do such a thing.
She acted like the perfect housewife and mother but still has many secrets that she will never tell.
So I have to tell all the men out there that if they think their woman wouldn't cheat on them...
THINK AGAIN AND WATCH YOUR BACKS.!
Chances are that you already ARE married to a prostitute...
Dude I really don't even know what to say to your post, other than you are just plain wrong. Yes there are plenty of women and men that cheat on their spouses, but there are just as many of us that would never to that no matter what. If you have to watch your back with someone you are with, then you are with the wrong person.
I read your other posts, and perhaps you are more bitter than you think you are, or you would not have given up on the idea of finding a good woman. I have had my fair share of men cheating on me, but that does not mean I am giving up on finding a good one. I know they are out there, and I am hoping that I will be lucky enough to find one of them.
Perhaps you would have a better chance of finding a good woman if you weren't still sleeping with your x wife.
Just because you like having sex with women, it doesn't mean you truly like them.
I think my brain is bleeding and I will now go to sleep. | |
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Posted: 5/9/2008 2:46:42 AM |
To some people street walkers are not the only prosititues, there are bar flys and also barmaids, who in my thoughts are much the same. Get involved with any of the mentioned.. roimantically?... lol... hell no. Thats bottom of the barrel dating.
PLEASE tell me I have miss read this and you are not saying barmaids are the same as prostitutes???
I have worked in pubs for 14 years, worked my way up (through study and hard work) to area manager, dont drink alcohol so if someone buys me a drink its an inexpensive coke, and find it unprofessional to have any type of relationship with customers......I am educated to degree level in science, A damn good mother and generally have decent morals........I wonder how that makes me bottom of the barrel dating materal or on the same level as someone who sells sex???
If I did missread that then I appologise....if not then that was way out of line.
On the subject OP, if I found out that a guy I was seeing was in the sex industry I couldnt stay with them or marry them. purely becuase its just not for me, others may not have a problem with it but It wouldnt be a lifestyle I would choose to accept in a partner.
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Posted: 5/9/2008 2:49:21 AM | Hooker or not nobody is new anymore............................
 .........only God,Allah,Buddha knows what went on in Vegas............some people are just as busy.....they just don't get paid....... | |
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Posted: 5/9/2008 3:36:50 AM |
Could you marry or even just date a prostitute assuming that prostitution was completely legal? If you could then how would you deal with another man or woman having sex with your boyfriend or girlfriend?
I've dated several escorts. This is going to be hard to explain, but anyone who has visited escorts (or is an escort, whatever the case may be), will understand. Paid sex between an escort and client is nothing like sex between a boyfriend and girlfriend (husband/wife, etc.) If an escort I was dating were to have sex with someone _other_ than a paying client, I would consider that cheating. Escorts have no emotional investment in their clients (unless they end up dating one). To them, it's a job and for the most part, they are fairly detached, although many are good actors.
After visiting escorts and dating several, I finaly figured out that all of the crap about how many partners someone has had and the rest of the crap people worry and post about here is just that, crap. At first, dating one felt a little weird, but rather than make me feel insecure, those experiences made me feel a great deal more secure. Think about it. If someone who charges guys $300.00+/hour wants to date you, you have to be doing something, since no matter who you are, she's going to have seen someone better looking, better built, bigger d**k, etc. Where I draw the line is living together or marriage. If a relationship with one of the escorts I've dated would have gotten to that point, I would have expected her to retire. (Call me old fashioned.) The bottom line is that it didn't bother me and wouldn't bother me to date an escort and know she's still seeing clients. | |
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Posted: 5/9/2008 3:45:23 AM |
What a stupid question! Of course nobody would want to date and certainly never marry a prostitute. That's disgusting!!
Don't kid yourself. First of all, escorts are usually interesting people, so they aren't boring. Second, how many escorts do you know? None, you say? Then how could you possibly know what ``they'' are like? I'd certainly rather marry an escort than someone who is so shallow that she judges people she knows nothing about.
He/she could have a number of std's. Who would want to chance that?
I'd take my chances with an escort over a civilian any day. An escorts' livelyhood depends on staying healthy and I'd bet that as a rule, they are more careful than you are, unless you're a virgin and plan to stay that way. | |
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Posted: 5/9/2008 3:49:31 AM |
Sex to me is an act of love and selling it cheapens it in my opinion.
You've obviously never spent the night with an escort for $1600.00. On the other hand, it may very well be cheaper than love, given the cost of a divorce. | |
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Posted: 5/9/2008 4:01:57 AM | | I respect your opinion. If you feel like you can date or possibly even marry a prostitute and have no problem with your wife having sex with other men then go for it. For me though this is not something i want to be involved with at all. My opinions are going to remain the same though. Sorry but if i were to have to buy it from someone i would rather never have sex again. | |
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Posted: 5/9/2008 4:16:30 AM |
I respect your opinion. If you feel like you can date or possibly even marry a prostitute and have no problem with your wife having sex with other men then go for it.
Before you can respect my opinion, you first have to read it. I specifically addressed the question of marrying an escort who was still working, yet you still misconstrued it.
For me though this is not something i want to be involved with at all. My opinions are going to remain the same though. Sorry but if i were to have to buy it from someone i would rather never have sex again.
Well, if you HAVE to buy it, I can understand why you might feel that way. It's easier on the ego. On the other hand, it probably never occurred to you that someone might prefer to not be in a relationship and rather than lead someone on or waste time looking for one night stands, he might find it more responsible and efficient to visit an escort? You need to stop assuming things were not said. | |
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Posted: 5/9/2008 7:27:34 AM | By the way...
The three weeks going to music festivals with the very good looking 36 yr old educated woman was her treat to me..
Her father was head of one of the divisions of GM.
She can afford it.... Peace.... | |
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Posted: 5/9/2008 8:58:59 AM | no; I don't care about laws. I care about my morals and who I'm with. I would never date one.
STD's are a very major problem in the U.S. and also just the fact that she was with so many people. NO way; not for me. | |
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