| Prostitutes! Posted: 8/6/2008 1:42:49 PM | Surely if you married a prostitute she wouldnt need to work the street any more ?
She could get a normal job and just work part time.
However, women are usually prostitutes to pay for a drug habit or some other expensive habiy. | |
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| Prostitutes! Posted: 8/6/2008 1:47:19 PM |
Could you marry or even just date a prostitute assuming that prostitution was completely legal? If you could then how would you deal with another man or woman having sex with your boyfriend or girlfriend? never never never and i woudnt date a pimp either!  | |
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| Prostitutes! Posted: 8/6/2008 1:58:59 PM | I don't think any of you have any right to judge anyone who may feel the need -whether financial, in which case there are two involved in the transaction - or pyschological - in which case its more than that. Be honest if only to yourselves - how good would it make you feel if you got paid for doing something you enjoyed doing? What happened to job satisfaction? x | |
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| Prostitutes! Posted: 8/6/2008 4:25:24 PM | Forget the street prostitutes or highest level Call Girls...most of the best hookers are either married/divorced...the only difference being they only use one or a few guys to get paid...yeah I have a lot of respect for them...please!
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| Prostitutes! Posted: 8/6/2008 4:47:40 PM | | I could never be that INsecure. No way, no how, would I ever think so little of myself that I would lower my standards to that level. Hell, I won't even date a man who sleeps with ONE other woman, much less countless numbers of them! Ewww!!! | |
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| Prostitutes! Posted: 8/6/2008 4:59:02 PM | | Male prostitutes only service other males. Women are smart enough to know we never have to pay for it. | |
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| Prostitutes! Posted: 8/6/2008 5:00:44 PM | No matter how ugly,pretty,fat,skinny,skanky,classy,whorey,refined you are-a woman can always get laid. Now love, on the other hand, may be harder to find for some, but sex? Nope. | |
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| Prostitutes! Posted: 8/6/2008 5:01:03 PM |
I am a man to answer your question ,if I will date or marry a prostitute but I will share what I know about them. They are beautiful young women who from good /bad families who wants a fast bucks,they are mentally strong and can stomach anything in the name of money,they want expensive things that only the rich can afford, that is their compensation of their selfdisrespect. They support a boyfriend with money and true love, and they crave for real friendship. As a teenager I envy their material things but they discourage me to turn a trick because it is a *dirty*. What I learn from them is never give pleasure to a man for nothing,be the best of what ever you do and be the best of who you are. Some of my friends are married to americans,their past is a hush hush few are good wives and mothers and some are not...
Get the facts straight...the majority of prostitutes are neither beautiful or clean...the majority have various STD's/psychological problems/are uneducated aborting babies as if life means nothing and not really caring for the kids they already have...the fast bucks they make either go to paying for drugs or keeping their criminal boyfriends from beating them or out of jail...and whatever funds they do have left can't even pay for Kotex and you can forget about them loving anyone at this point as realistically they don't even know what the word means. Whatever reasons they get into prostitution unless they are forced/raped it is their choice,it has nothing to do with wanting material things like others have or creating a better world for themselves ...it has more to do with taking the easy way out,not having any pride in yourself and whether rich or poor being brought up in an atmosphere where your self worth doesn't amount to anything even if you try...you can't learn anything from these lost souls besides how to prevent it from happening to other individuals and the only ones who change are the ones who start respecting themselves or note rotten to the core to begin with...and the ones who make it out alive are in a small minority.And don't think the higher priced Call Girls have it any easier...you want to live like that in the end you pay the price and I assure they are no different with their Mink Coats or Jewels.
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| Prostitutes! Posted: 8/6/2008 5:04:19 PM | I'm disappointed. When I saw the exclamation point in the header, I thought there was a new musical on Broadway! But no, just another badly defined "what-if."
Would you marry a priest or nun? A professional bowler? A pirate (who owns his ship) with a hook hand? A space alien (who looks like George Clooney/Eva Mendes)? A star of musical theater? Your mother, if she weren't?
Who knows or cares? Whoever chooses or refuses a category of people hasn't got a clue. It's only ever about the individual, every one of which has some balls-out nasty flaws.
Cheers!
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| Prostitutes! Posted: 8/6/2008 5:15:09 PM |
Male prostitutes only service other males. Women are smart enough to know we never have to pay for it.
I think a few gigolos living in Pent Houses driving Sports Cars would tend to disagree with you...
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| Prostitutes! Posted: 8/6/2008 5:19:59 PM | Well, well! This lovely response is obviously from a bitter person who has been hurt.
All women are NOT whores. Many of us have our pride, standards, values, morals -- AND BRAINS. * FYI: SMART, INDEPENDENT WOMEN DON'T NEED TO USE MEN TO GET WHAT THEY WANT.* We do just fine on our own. For you to even say such a thing is not only offensive, but vulgar and obviously ignorant -- and inexcusable. Get counseling and then get a clue.
Now, if you're going to accuse women who've had more than 2 sexual partners in their lifetimes of being sluts, then you should drop the whole 'Double Standard' thing. It's NOT acceptable for promiscuous men to be considered 'studs' and women who've had more than 1 or 2 partners 'whores'. Men quite often can be bigger whores than women: 'nail' as many women as possible, do whatever it takes to advance at work, even if it means compromising your ethics and values, and 'trade up' when you grow tired of your current partner. What some men consider to be acceptable behaviour for their gender and detestable for the other is illogical and assinine. It's just utter rubbish!
Sorry, Sparky - but there's enough poor behaviour from BOTH genders. It's completely ridiculous to insist that it's ingrained in women's psyches only.
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| Prostitutes! Posted: 8/6/2008 5:32:17 PM |
I don't think any of you have any right to judge anyone who may feel the need -whether financial, in which case there are two involved in the transaction - or pyschological - in which case its more than that. Be honest if only to yourselves - how good would it make you feel if you got paid for doing something you enjoyed doing? What happened to job satisfaction? YOU CANT BE SERIOUS! you are a wacko for thinking that! | |
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| Prostitutes! Posted: 8/6/2008 5:37:32 PM | | i'm flabbergasted,speechless!! You men have more of a negative view on prostitiutes than i thought possible.What about male prostitutes,never once in all those quotes did i see any reference to the male species selling it,but i'm sure that would be a handshake or slap on the back kind of admiration from the male species,nothing changes does it??What the guys seems to forget is that a prostitute isint always a drugged or alcoholic dependant person,i have a few friends who are upper class and do it for a living,They offer a clean positive experience without the long chain of events that a night out for a guy entails whos looking for a one night stand.These women are more aware of stds and always use condoms,can i comment that 75% of stds are virally passed through fluid consumstion and one night stands!! On a lighter note,any guys who go to see a sex worker know what theyre gonna get and are not gonna have a bunny boiler showing up at there door a few weeks later.The likelyness of any call girl working nowadays is sure to earn them over a quarter of a million over a period of just a few years give or take,but i'm sure you guys will all say ,dosent matter,ive got my respect.Well all i can say is heres to you and my friends,the ones who have worked and quit cause theyve made theyre fortune,whos kidding who??? I certainly know whos side i'm on and whos laughing all the way to the bank!!! | |
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| Prostitutes! Posted: 8/6/2008 5:51:02 PM |
That's assuming that some prostitutes do what they do because they lack self-respect. I know a few working girls and one of them is among the more brilliant people I've ever known in my life, sparkling and vital, she just happens to LOVE sex, and getting paid for it is a bonus for her...
Some people can be secure in relationships that their partners have sex with others for free, but not for pay? Seems hypocritical. I know of married porn stars, prostitutes, etc, that seem to manage just fine. Yet people look down their noses at them because they get paid to do what people do (and sites like this are around to facilitate) for free. Personally, I don't really see why anyone feels they have the right to judge what is or is not acceptable to others too. Just because YOU aren't comfortable or secure with your significant other doing that kind of thing DOES NOT MEAN that you can think, choose, or even attempt to understand how it can be ok for someone else. People make their own choices, they have to abide by the consequences of their own decisions. A situation that works for you might not work for the next guy, and his life might not be one you'd choose for yourself, but that certainly doesn't give anyone the right to look down their noses at others simply because they have different values or make different choices. It's entirely a personal thing.
(I am not a prostitute btw, I'm sure that some might get that impression because well... people in general are rather dense (and I didn't bash it like most others), I just happen to be supportive of personal choice and allowing people to live their lifestyles without society and do-gooders putting their noses in like power-hungry hall monitors)
OMG, baby doll, this whole thing you wrote was so fantastic it nearly gave me a brain orgasm.. the clarity, the conciseveness, the lucidity and logic.
WAY TO GO!!!
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| Prostitutes! Posted: 8/6/2008 6:05:06 PM |
Male prostitutes only service other males. Women are smart enough to know we never have to pay for it.
Clearly you have never seen Deuce Bigalo Male Jigalo. An excellent documentary about the adventurous life of a manwhore. Check it out sometime. | |
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| Prostitutes! Posted: 8/6/2008 6:17:19 PM | I'd marry a pirate with a hook for a hand if he owned his own ship. Nothing like a man who has financial security and brings the arrrrg in large. 
Would you marry a priest or nun? A professional bowler? A pirate (who owns his ship) with a hook hand?
Clearly you have never seen Deuce Bigalo Male Jigalo. An excellent documentary about the adventurous life of a manwhore. Check it out sometime.
My bad. I have seen it and I stand corrected, sir. | |
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| Prostitutes! Posted: 8/6/2008 7:02:57 PM | [[[[She bore me two wonderful children, she did leave us a few months later & I haven't seen her since. That was thirteen year ago now. I am still in contact with her parents, who love to see their grandchildren from time to time.
No regrets]]]]
oooh Ovacado...
May be she died!!!.
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| Prostitutes! Posted: 8/6/2008 7:15:01 PM | They offer a clean positive experience without the long chain of events that a night out for a guy entails whos looking for a one night stand.These women are more aware of stds and always use condoms,can i comment that 75% of stds are virally passed through fluid consumstion and one night stands!!
OMG...you are too funny... ...and what percentage of prostitutes are high end Call Girls...around 8% in my town...and even in legalized Bordellos where health measures are taken seriously the incident rate for STD's is high where on the street it's out of control...furthermore which clean positive experiences are you talking about...where mostly rich males with no dignity visit these women because they can't handle genuine relationships or unfaithful middle-class married men with kids that are cheating on their wives instead of acting like real fathers/husbands...please...and for your information may of the higher earners also deal with drugs/criminal elements/illegal activities..still you know the best ones and they're all laughing to the bank...maybe you've been watching too many movies and need to explore the truth.Whether you're a male/female prostitute or a client most of these people in one way or another are messed up and they're filled with a lot more psychological issues than most average individuals and if you want to cheer them on go right ahead...just remember what you said you know a few...not the vast majority...and believe most of these women/men are unsuitable for marriage.
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| Prostitutes! Posted: 8/6/2008 9:07:00 PM | | Well I don't know how many prostitutes are married, but I do know that quite a few porn stars are married. After seeing some interviews with the husbands, most seem to be at ease with it although I did see one guy who said he was ok with it but he really wasn't... It all depends I think on how much importance someone puts on sex. Some people don't connect sex and love like others do. | |
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| Prostitutes! Posted: 8/6/2008 9:57:42 PM |
Well I don't know how many prostitutes are married,
Two that are freinds of mine are married and their husbands don't know. I was rather skeptical, since we're talking 8+ years, but in fact, they really don't know. You're on your own to figure out how that could be possible. It's not stupidity.
I don't think many marriages where the husband knows work too well. A few do, but I doubt the odds are very good. | |
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| Prostitutes! Posted: 8/7/2008 5:15:32 AM |
Two that are freinds of mine are married and their husbands don't know. I was rather skeptical, since we're talking 8+ years, but in fact, they really don't know.
That's nice of them... Not only are they lying (even a lie of omission is still a lie) but they're sleeping with others which could endanger the health of their spouses. Why did they bother getting married? No offense to you abelian, but your friends that you mentioned are low-lifes in my books.
I don't think many marriages where the husband knows work too well. A few do, but I doubt the odds are very good.
Well they might not work too well but at least the husbands should be able to make informed decisions and that requires knowing what their wives really do for a living. | |
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| Prostitutes! Posted: 8/7/2008 8:45:39 AM | | never would happen with me at all.i do not sleep around nor would my partner if i had one.you must be dating one get out because you cant win.there is a killer epidemic out there your playing russian roullete. | |
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| Prostitutes! Posted: 8/7/2008 10:35:06 AM | | Are we all forgetting that men sell themselves for sex as well? Although a smaller percentage of the population, and operating either homosexually, or bi-sexually, or heterosexually, the situation is the same. Would a woman bring a gigilo home to mother? Doubt it. Just like you wouldn't bring a known prostitute home to mama either. Our values determine our decisions. Every man wants a lamb in the kitchen, and a whore in the bedroom. | |
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| Prostitutes! Posted: 8/7/2008 10:39:01 AM | Actually,if she can cook on here...WHICH IS RARE...I prefer chicken...
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