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 someonesx

Joined: 9/25/2007
Msg: 26
If a man has been looking for intimate encounters= no trust?
Posted: 5/10/2008 6:03:55 AM
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Could a man who has previously been looking for intimate encounters be trusted?


First of all many of the men I've encountered on this site are really only looking for intimate encounters; but they label themselves as long-term or dating which I suspect is so they can contact more people and look like a "nice guy"...or as a few have told me, well sure eventually I'd like long term...uh huh so in the mean time you'll nail anything that moves and is willing?

So from one perspective at least if a man lists intimate encounter in a "twisted way" he is being more honest about what his true intent is..verses the others who use the other labels because they don't want to appear to be horny dogs-even though they are.

The problem with men who have listed intimate encounter is that while they are being honest about their true intentions, they also are basically telling you...I'm only here for sex and not for any type of "relationship"-so can you trust them?

Yes, you can trust them to only want to have sex and most likely never be heard from again

You need to determine what YOUR dating agenda or goal is and proceed with caution with ANYONE you encounter from this site or others. Any man that is truly looking for a relationship will put the time needed into getting to know you, the others will quickly disappear when they don't get what they really want regardless of the "label" they list themselves under.

Based on my experiences using online sites, you'll be lucky to meet a few 1-2 out of like 50 or more that don't have serious issues or otherwise known as fuktards...it's really sad and depressing; but it's the reality of our society today...
 SweetieGuy_81

Joined: 12/25/2005
Msg: 27
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If a man has been looking for intimate encounters= no trust?
Posted: 5/10/2008 1:25:24 PM
Well, i personally would love to meet a nice woman to take things slow with and eventually settle down, but in the mean time while i look for her, i don't mind having some fun along the way. :)

As long as both people involved know its just sex, its all good.
 ridster

Joined: 4/12/2008
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If a man has been looking for intimate encounters= no trust?
Posted: 5/11/2008 5:19:44 AM
I think you need to look at the individual circumstances. I was in a position of forced celibacy for a long period of time before my wife died. After that, when I joined here, I was looking ONLY for intimate encounters simply because it had been so long. As time passes by and I adjust to my new role as a widower, who's to say what i will befeeling and thinking. So mu advice is don't close the door as it's quite possible his attitide has changed.
 compactdisc

Joined: 1/7/2008
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If a man has been looking for intimate encounters= no trust?
Posted: 5/16/2008 11:19:00 AM
for over 2 years i had dating or long term on my profile....................what a complete waste of time and effort that was.

i now have intimate encounter on there now and guess what its an even bigger waste of time and effort.

when looking at a womans profile with intimate encounter on it she will have hundreds of guys affter her attention, when a guy has intimate encounter up women seem to keep away..................strange that !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i do however think that the majority of women with intimate encounter on their profiles are just on here for the laugh, most seem to have been on here years and never ever seem to answer their mail............
 browneyes1030

Joined: 5/3/2008
Msg: 30
If a man has been looking for intimate encounters= no trust?
Posted: 5/16/2008 7:02:02 PM
It depends....but I would tend to not trust him...or atleast keep your spidey senses on red alert!
 Carrie Bradshaw™

Joined: 6/24/2006
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Posted: 5/16/2008 7:22:30 PM
At different times in our lives we look for different things. Maybe at that time he just wanted sex and now changed his ways. But maybe not as one of my male friends is a man tramp and uses that line on new females to make them think he wants a relationship and he does not.

It is important to ask yourself if you trust him. Do you think he has changed and can you live with his past? If you do not trust him or you cannot live with his past then you cannot have a real relationship with him because it will just cause you to have real big issues in the future.

~Carrie
 compactdisc

Joined: 1/7/2008
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If a man has been looking for intimate encounters= no trust?
Posted: 5/17/2008 3:36:25 PM
browneyes1030


so when a woman has or at some time " intimate encounter " on her profile she should never be trusted then.

by your own way of thinking all women looking for intimacy should never be trusted, so of course you have never had any intimate moments in your life.
 browneyes1030

Joined: 5/3/2008
Msg: 33
If a man has been looking for intimate encounters= no trust?
Posted: 5/18/2008 10:54:50 AM
I did not say that...I told her to keep her guard up...you never know...its nuts out there, as I'm sure you know.
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