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| Whatever happened to making out?
Posted: 5/8/2008 3:30:42 PM | ~OP~
Good question. I personally feel that all of the "mystic" has been moved to "hurry up." PFT on that. I only respond to the thrill of it all. If his intentions are a quick "Let's get nakie and move along........." he'd better be prepared to do it alone or with someone other than me. I deserve;/desire more.  | |
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| Whatever happened to making out?
Posted: 5/8/2008 4:01:35 PM | | I get the impression here that people are talking about making out BEFORE going any farther. Personally, I want to make out before, during AND after -- lots. I would never want to see kissing as something I MUST do to get any farther with a girl. | |
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| Whatever happened to making out?
Posted: 5/8/2008 4:42:38 PM | Making out, heavy petting, the anticipation buildup...definitely underrated these days, for sure.
It goes both ways, too. Ive known a lot of women who want to just get to the sex too and bypass the kissing. To me, the touching & kissing is the best part! | |
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| Whatever happened to making out?
Posted: 5/8/2008 5:33:35 PM | | hhhhhmmmm Making out!!! Just the thought of making out with my hubby makes me need a cold shower!! I adore the intimacy of touching, kissing and cuddling!! I hope it stays in my life forever!! | |
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| Whatever happened to making out?
Posted: 5/8/2008 6:55:28 PM | | I'm not sure when it happened; I do remember that after my divorce, whenever I discussed dating there was now this 'three date and then sex' rule of sorts that people seemed to be following. But for the life of me, I have no idea where it came from. Also, younger women were engaging in 'friends with benefits' relationships, which didn't exist when I was growing up. I don't understand it. Making out is wonderful. Holding someone I'm enchanted with in my arms is one of the true joys in life. | |
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| Whatever happened to making out?
Posted: 5/9/2008 10:56:37 AM | I just love making out! There is nothing better than a good kisser! Making out is just the tease of the anticipating "deed" .    
Sexual seduction at it's best! | |
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| Whatever happened to making out?
Posted: 5/9/2008 11:20:00 AM | | I 'm glad there are other guys that think making out is fine. I think it is a lost art. I love passionate kisses and holding that person so tight I can feel her right through her clothes. Oh and let's not forget kissing her neck and behind the ear and slowly working down her cheast. I even like to run my hand around her body with her clothes on.... so sexy and still a mystery at the same time. Holding back when your body say go go go. Wanting more all of those things make the experence very hot. | |
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| Whatever happened to making out?
Posted: 5/9/2008 11:23:00 AM | Oh I have such GREAT memories of making out for hours in High School. In the car after a date. Steaming up the windows in the winter. On the bed when the rents weren't home. Some of the best times of my life. And that guy remains the best kisser in my life too.
Later in life when I had sex I was so disappointed. It was like... oh... that wasn't nearly as good as it looks in the movies. Those damn movies built up my expectations too high. I'm even a "multi" girl and a fabulous make out session still wins. Anticipation and wanting is where it's at. It's like living in technicolor. (Saying it makes you feel so alive seemed palyed out). | |
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| Whatever happened to making out?
Posted: 5/9/2008 1:45:00 PM | | Making out is still my most favorite thing to do. I don't need to go further. But I've found that men see it entirely as a landmark on the way to sexville, instead of a place to stay for a while. Really takes the thrill out of sensual kissing when someone sees it as something to get out of the way. | |
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| Whatever happened to making out?
Posted: 5/9/2008 2:34:06 PM | This is one of those things I had to learn about most women. Being a typical guy sometimes, I didn't see the big deal about kissing...making out, doing intimate stuff that was non-sexual (dancing included).
But I have learned that many women love this. Sitting on the couch and making out with no 'plans" for sex = a huge turn-on for most women I've known. Yes, the wanting / waiting can drive a woman crazy, in a good way. If she's loving it, so am I! | |
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| Whatever happened to making out?
Posted: 5/9/2008 2:55:13 PM | The "art" of making out is not lost. I experience it often and still get that same giddy feeling I did as a teenager. I will admit it had been many many years that I went without this special part of a relationship but now it is amazing. 
AHHHHHH to feel so young again. | |
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| Whatever happened to making out?
Posted: 5/9/2008 4:03:17 PM | Folks seem to forget those times in youth (and the lucky adults) spent in long passionate lip locks, that would get all hot...hearts racing, breath quickening, a bead of sweat, bodies creating the crescendo of passion, and it all started with a kiss.  | |
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| Whatever happened to making out?
Posted: 5/9/2008 4:09:55 PM | I think most of us want to make out, but maybe we are under this impression that we should move faster or the other person will think we are a pansy?
Maybe some of us equate this with being young and immature or perhaps think that not allowing a guy (using this example here) to go further that we are a tease?
I don't know the answer....let's make out and find out lol or better yet "let's go parking" lol | |
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| Whatever happened to making out?
Posted: 5/9/2008 6:20:35 PM | | This post has brought back many happy memories of making out in my teens. The smell of the ocean air (I grew up in Florida), avoiding the cops (the excitement of 'danger'). I'm right there with the posters singing its praises and stating that it is every bit as good--and at times better-as sex. As I look back at my years when sex predominated all my serious relationships, I chastise myself for letting this mutually wonderful experience go by the wayside. I will never, ever make that mistake again. | |
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| Whatever happened to making out?
Posted: 5/9/2008 7:31:18 PM | | Yes yes, a good make out session can be such a rush.....A tease...but leave you wanting more...Without giving it right away....The tingles, the rush of blood....The want....so much passion with the right person.....Fully clothed, but feeling the brush of his fingers over them.....as his lips meet your neck...behind your ear.....tracing their way to your lips....*whew* I think I gotta meet somebody who wants to make out with me a few times, minus the sex....Been so long since I had that. | |
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| Whatever happened to making out?
Posted: 5/9/2008 10:22:59 PM | I am definitely in favor of the make-out.
I remember one time a girl and I had broken things off for a month or so. We decided to try things again and that first time going out was incredibly intense. We ended up just making out at the end of the night both knowing things weren't going to go further that night but still being tempted. It felt like high-school all over again. | |
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| Whatever happened to making out?
Posted: 5/9/2008 10:57:15 PM | | i was studying too much to make out in high school. i still need to get more of it. kissing and touching is very sensual so why need coitus unless you're wanting a baby? :) | |
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| Whatever happened to making out?
Posted: 5/9/2008 11:12:08 PM | I agree with sahsami_03
But who ever said making is for the young is sadly mistaken there are 50 year old couples and older who have never gotten over the thrill of making out and some couples will never stop till they die it's been proven yeah sure it maybe a little harder for the guys soldier to take notice but in the end the 75 year old wife was embraced and that's all that matters   | |
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| Whatever happened to making out?
Posted: 5/10/2008 12:16:43 AM | | Guys like it too or most do anyway. Those early dates when you're not to the point of sex yet but you both want to and you make out until you almost go ahead but you don't... that going to the edge of the cliff... pulling back... edging back forward and peeking over again. Electric! | |
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| Whatever happened to making out?
Posted: 5/10/2008 12:36:15 AM | Ooooooooo eden,,,everything you wrote in your op is the exact same thing i brought up with a man i am currently getting to know!! lol Those hot make-out sessions are something i miss and would just loveeeeeeee to do with the right person but not have it have to end in having sex (tho you might be thinking about it! lol)!! The touching, the groping, the caressing, the grinding, the heavy breathing, the hot lips all over your face and neck....and thats it!
But what if you don't have sex? That just means you get to do it again and again. Get closer and closer. If you do it just right you can get off without having any sort of penetration. The wanting is so much better than the having.
Hell yeah thats the best thing about it!
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| Whatever happened to making out?
Posted: 5/14/2008 6:04:40 AM | I just A D O R E Making-out..!!
Granted...it leads to -slightly- more enjoyable things, in many cases . . but . .
I prefer the Lady to control when, how and where it's continued..!!
If she just wants to roll around and Neck . . that's Fine with ME...!!!
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