Remember that woman generally have these 3 needs,
1. They need to be loved.
2. They need to feel secure
3. They need help with children(if you have any)
Men I believe have these 3
1. They need respect
2. They need domestic help
3. They need sex.
I can't really say whether I agree with these or not because I know it's different for everyone, but perhaps generally that is what both genders want?