| 4 great dates... and no kiss?
Posted: 5/20/2008 6:48:20 PM | Or grab both his hands when you're facing each other. Very good for keeping the momentum from going in the hug direction. Then step into his personal space with a smile and looking at him in the eyes. 
If both of those fail, I'm not sure if any of us can help you. | |
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| 4 great dates... and no kiss?
Posted: 5/20/2008 6:48:33 PM | | He might just be a little shy. Some men, myself included, become a little withdrawn or shy when they know they like someone and often even wait till the girl makes the first clear difinitive first kiss, Nothing wrong with you initiating the first kiss but don't get too eager to give away too much too soon. Some men can read this only as sexaul. He ought to sweep you off your feet and after you initiate the first move and you notice he never does, then that's grounds for a sit down discussion. I think he'll come around though, four dates is a signal of interest and you should have nothing to cause you sleepless nights! | |
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| 4 great dates... and no kiss?
Posted: 5/20/2008 8:25:28 PM | to Stbruno:
It was a very sweet and convincing answer and great to hear it coming from a guy.
to OP :
dont wait any longer and give yr date a sweet and deep kiss...hope you will share yr happiness with us. | |
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| 4 great dates... and no kiss?
Posted: 5/20/2008 9:10:59 PM |
Posted By: Stbruno on 5/9/2008 8:03:17 PM
Subject: 4 great dates... and no kiss?
Message: I don't know how many times the girl has had to make the first move with me. The thing about us guys is that if we really really like someone, we'll be extra careful with what we say and do. We won't do anything that might risk a slap or a cross word being thrown at us. He must really like you girl. Make the first move. It'll pay off, I promise.
All the Best!
BINGO!
But 4 dates??? I couldn't take it. I gotta do me some makin' out by the 2nd. | |
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| 4 great dates... and no kiss?
Posted: 5/21/2008 2:42:42 PM | A dating site is full of people doing just that "dating" (hanging out and getting to know each other). When you have such a large amount of the opposite sex to choose from chances are you will be talking to more than one, and possibly hanging out with a few women at a time as well as overlapping them. To believe you're going to find "the one" the first time is optimistic but not realistic.
So wouldn't you rather have a man put some effort into getting to know you a bit? In a world where most women are convinced all men on these sites are just complete sex crazed pigs, I would think it wouldn't be such an issue. Three dates out of a possible lifetime isn't that long.
Plus kissing every woman you meet does get a bit numbing, if you are just doing it for such selfish reasons as your hormones being on overdrive. | |
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| 4 great dates... and no kiss?
Posted: 5/23/2008 11:03:55 AM | God, I always have this problem, because I must, must, must connect with a guy mentally. Then, once you do that, the conversation is so mental, it's hard to transition to physical. I usually get stuck at hug goodnight and lots of back rubbing, arm touching, blah blah.
Hand holding is a good transition too. I think by the time guys realize you just touched their arm or rubbed their shoulders, you're done, especially if they are trying to tune out naughty thoughts and be a good, sparkling conversationalist. Hand-holding lasts longer, gives him time to register that physical contact is occuring. Also, it puts you in closer proximity, just in case it dawns on him to kiss you.
And I loved this advice:
<div class="quote"> When he asks you to pass him something (salt, map, remote, playing cards, popcorn, etc...), tell him it will cost him a kiss.
When it is appropriate, tell him you are ready to be paid!
That will work even better if you're already holding hands. | |
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| 4 great dates... and no kiss?
Posted: 5/23/2008 9:16:09 PM |
Why is it so difficult to just TALK!!!!
Because it's much easier to ask a bunch of strangers on the internet rather than facing the situation straight on and asking the person whose opinion actually matters. That's why. | |
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| 4 great dates... and no kiss?
Posted: 5/30/2008 9:45:34 AM | Each end with a hug. No compliments either - physical or otherwise. But otherwise four great dates. Kind, sweet, fun, gentleman. What's up? I've affectionately rubbed his back or his arm while we are walking or sitting and talking, so I've given him signals. He calls our meetings 'dates' and has brought flowers. Safe to assume he finds me attractive because he keeps asking me out? I guess it's nice not be pawed or drooled on from the get go. What do you think?
So........? It's been like 3 weeks since your first post. We are all dying to know! Did he kiss you yet? | |
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| 4 great dates... and no kiss?
Posted: 5/31/2008 5:16:52 AM | Sounds very much like a self pity thread.
Crikey, last time I was stuck in the hospital waiting room, sick as a dog, my SISTER, rubbed my neck , which reduced the agony to simply severe pain. Sexual? I don't think so.
Signals? No way. Cave man invented the spoken language because body language simply wasn't effective. | |
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| 4 great dates... and no kiss?
Posted: 5/31/2008 11:33:37 AM | she might be right ..
it happened to me once .. i met one guy we liked each other . we hang out together for some times . he gave me signals i also gave him signals ..but we wew too shy to each other .. i could not fo the first move ..i was waiting waiting but he did not do anything .. since he left we keep in touch on msn .. then we said out about what happened while we were dating without kiss ..lol just too shy .. and he said to me he was not sure that i like him so he respect me that is why ..lol | |
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| 4 great dates... and no kiss?
Posted: 6/1/2008 3:32:39 PM | I agree with Big Sis. It sounds like he is shy or may not have dated that much. It may take you to initiate the first kiss. Then after that he should want to reciprocate.
Have fun. | |
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