| Long distance, and the breakup.
Posted: 5/18/2008 9:57:03 PM | Love is suppose to have no boundaries and not suppose to hurt...........
My opinion:
How can anyone be taken seriously with the text typing?
Romantic.........not.
Hard to argue with all the; o, u, 8, 1, 2's..........pitr?
Were they?
Op, I don't think you would solve the matter by trying to explain the why of your actions.
It would be and probably has been, talked to death.
The outcome of the conversation will always be the same when someone doesn't stop to listen, interrupts, accuses the other person and keeps saying, "me....what about me...how do you think I feel......me, me, me".
It's a helluva sight different when it's;
we are going to pursue of our dreams and build a life together....you can build a relationship upon a we.
Time to throw your hands up in the air, shake your head and get to the airport........onward to Canada and follow your dream.
Everything else will fall into place.
Good luck.
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kat2k8
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Msg: 52 | |
| Long distance, and the breakup.
Posted: 5/20/2008 11:27:19 AM | " u can't type"
aye i can type actualy im Geordie u idiot, and i type in txt language- wasent for u to read in n e way was jst replyin t me ex. | |
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| Long distance, and the breakup.
Posted: 5/20/2008 11:34:05 AM | | I can spell actualy, I prefure to type in text language it's quicker ok.. and why wud I care if you can't read it its not for you to read anyway. so mind your own beez wax, i was just replying to my ex ok. | |
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kat2k8
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| Long distance, and the breakup.
Posted: 5/20/2008 11:53:59 AM |
and why wud I care if you can't read it its not for you to read anyway. so mind your own beez wax, i was just replying to my ex ok.
Um in case you hadn't noticed kat, this was posted in a forum, not as a personal letter to you, therefore he had every right to comment as that is the whole purpose of the forums. If you didn't want people commenting on what you wrote then maybe you should have have made your "reply" a little more private and written him directly instead of publically posting it for all to see. | |
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| Long distance, and the breakup.
Posted: 5/21/2008 2:41:53 PM | Wow this is the best thread ever! Flippin great! I love a good domestic!
why wud I care if you can't read it its not for you to read anyway. so mind your own beez wax, i was just replying to my ex ok.
Yeah Kat, you posted in a public forum which suggests it was for the public to read. If you wanted to address your ex privately, you shoulda tried a private message
Wh33lz, you've been more than fair to this woman. You've offered her the option to go to Canada, what more can you do? If you don't go you'll always regret it. I was in a similar position recently. I was gutted but I knew he had to go for himself. As a wise man once said:
If you love someone set them free
If they come back to you, it was meant to be
If they don't return, they were never yours in the first place
Best of luck, Canada is an awesome country. I lived there for 2 years myself, a fabulous experience
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| Long distance, and the breakup.
Posted: 5/21/2008 3:00:16 PM | why wud I care if you can't read it its not for you to read anyway. so mind your own beez wax, i was just replying to my ex ok.
Yeah Kat, you posted in a public forum which suggests it was for the public to read. If you wanted to address your ex privately, you shoulda tried a private message
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I sure hope those two don't have children, they will be color blind and stupid. | |
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| Long distance, and the breakup.
Posted: 5/21/2008 3:26:34 PM | "I sure hope those two don't have children, they will be color blind and stupid."
They'd be really short too.. 
She's not stupid mate.. She's a really caring person. Just in our case it wasn't meant to be.
Thanks loiterer, hope you didn't get too hurt by that guy :) | |
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| Long distance, and the breakup.
Posted: 5/21/2008 3:57:38 PM | If the ex really has the ability NOT to type in textspeak - may I suggest that this does this from now on? It will make the whole drama much easier to read.
Tks. | |
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| Long distance, and the breakup.
Posted: 5/21/2008 4:01:43 PM | | in my opinion ,love is not the problem here,both of you are hurting..ever consider stopping the pain,discuss things and give it a second try,because i think this needs a second chance.forget the things siad and done.go back to zero.forget the past and forgive each other.pain will go away .the second time both of you are wiser.this deserve some talking and attention. | |
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| Long distance, and the breakup.
Posted: 5/21/2008 4:21:52 PM | I couldn't put her through a 3500 mile relationship.
She needs to stay here for family reasons, and I need to go- for my own.
And the likelyhood of me coming back is slim indeed.
We have to let it go- it's better for both of us.
I have to stress, from what people have seen of her on here, she is completely different in real life. She's a really good, strong person.
And her forum posts made me laugh (love her attitude), because I know what she's like :)
I chose to leave, so if it's anyones fault for me hurting, it is my own.
But I had to do this for myself. I HAVE to earn my wings.
It's not right to deny myself what I have always felt myself capable of.
A second chance, I think, is no longer on the cards for her anyway, but I hope we can remain friends. Bitterness is not the way to go.
yeesh I did say I was leaving, but I think I just got another beer.
Oh well ;)
how much are ciggys in here? £7?!!? grr | |
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| Long distance, and the breakup.
Posted: 5/21/2008 4:37:38 PM | | LOL!!! I was thinking the SAME THING. I was like, "what the h*ll is she saying???" Suffice to say, it is a soap opera. You two should speak to each other, rather than with a 1000 other people in the mix. Just my .02. | |
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| Long distance, and the breakup.
Posted: 5/21/2008 4:49:10 PM | No way man!
If those 2 are done, has anybody else got any dirty washing they need get done in public?
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Posted: 5/22/2008 12:17:30 AM | | just my opinion,well as far as i describe love you have to be patient,accepting all flaws,not minding the distance not minding the past .my marriage fail in the first place because i always believed in love at first sight,my husband is not that in love with me he married me bec.i was pregnant then.so the issue here is love but between the two of you its not about love.its who will give in for love's sake.if ill get marreid again ill be the same wife to him as i was with my first.ill cook,ill clean and will give hime long massages head to feet everyday.well maybe its jsut me if love comes around its not easy for me t o throw it.ill guard it with my life to keep it..but jsut the same its just me.i dont give up easily but probably i just havent met my match thats why im still here | |
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| Long distance, and the breakup.
Posted: 5/22/2008 12:56:23 AM | hmmmmm.....
well its obvious both people are hurting...in seperating...
this too will pass..
ive had some great laughs on here...
but seriously..... op your come backs to jibes was supurb.......
defending kat ..once again... thank you for valuing the friendship...hopefully you 2 can have .......after being together for over a year....
yer he/said she said... .... thats the hurting time... but once you both accept.. whats the future... hopefully you can be friends....
as for you Kat your a geordie? cool hun.. i seriously thought you were using welsh dialect..... i actually love all uk dialects (hearing them...not used to reading them)..... different regions .....
so seeing it expressed in text with added modern text.. was interesting....
i can tell you are a gurl that speaks from your heart/soul.. no fooking around that mulberry tree..
im an aussie if we spoke ocker most people wouldnt have a clue what we were saying or rhymning slang....
so i see no point belittling or calling someone stupid b/c they express themselves differently...
this be real life.... aint no scripts.....
1 thing though Kat..... id really like to see you show the same regard to your friend... (albeit your peeved at him currrently)... in not maligning his character on your profile.... seems hes sticking up for you..... aint no need to have your whole profile about him... besides it will make most guys run a mile.. seeing you were abused... treated badly.. etc it screams baggage///not over my ex stuff.... but thats your choice...
i know you hurt....
reality though? unless this thread is deleted... i guess neither of you are going to be dating from pof... with this on your profiles.. and historys..
good luck to both of you.... stay strong... get through the pain/hurt...... with respect for a year of joining in hearts/souls/life/time...
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| Long distance, and the breakup.
Posted: 5/22/2008 1:25:30 AM | soulmate.. your right..
I may have very much given up the best thing I ever had (relationship-wise) but I have to fly.
It kills me every day to think of what I've lost, because she's a great gal.
But I HAVE to fly.
I'm emotional as hell writing this here... I hurt every day, but I HAVE to earn my wings... it's something that I won't feel complete as a person knowing I haven't done.
Kat's awsome, and any guy to be with her is incredibly lucky, as I was.
Don't judge her by the way she types :)
I miss her greatly and would give anything to be with her again, but I gotta fly.
It was MY choice, and so I shall have to deal with it.
This is what life's all about.... Sacrifices.
Damn it sucks right now but once I'm circling the airfield, I guess it'll all make sense.
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| Long distance, and the breakup.
Posted: 5/22/2008 1:32:06 AM | ^^^^^^ op... id never cut someone for their communication choices.....
what matters is what theyre communicating....
damn i even read sign lingo... ( i like the your still number 1 middle finger singal...lol... its universal isnt it?)anyhoo i digressed...
yep can tell your both hurting.... i think deep down kat knows you want to fly.. and although it hurts to part from you... she knows you need to do it.... (besides you might suck at flying ...lol.... be a shame if kat dosent realise..... one day things can change... but right now its set in stone.. you need to at least try.. and a mate would love to see you try ya dream.. and im sure youll do great)
what would be a real shame?........ would be if you both couldnt remember to respect each other... b/c it sounds like you both once loved/liked each other... and in life?....... true people/friendships are important...
anyhoo. nana needs a nap
hugz to both...... you both seem like nice kids...
she a bonza shelia mate..
and im sure under kats hurt.. shes knows ur a bonza bloke.
edit to below,....ohhh hun i hoped i didnt shite no leek peeps.. hey hun... i heard welsh.. love em quite a few descendants in my area... i remember seeing a few road signs... re written welsh... just the way she was typing i could tell their was an accent/dialect.. just not used to written....lol... love all leek peeps trust me...
come to oz.. we will teach you a completely new way to talk lol....
on that im going for a dad and dave... (me legs not me face)...lol
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| Long distance, and the breakup.
Posted: 5/22/2008 1:39:10 AM | i seriously thought you were using welsh dialect
lol We talks much more tidy in Wales than that, isn't it?
Nah, the Welsh language would've made more sense than that - nevermind the Welsh dialect!
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| Long distance, and the breakup.
Posted: 5/22/2008 1:59:00 AM | ^^^ yer lol..perfectly understandable... id love to see welsh in text form lol.... wtg gurl
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| Long distance, and the breakup.
Posted: 5/22/2008 4:05:54 AM | | Wh33lz, you don't need to apologize. Looks like you barely made it out as it is. You definately made the right decision and I'm so happy you chose to follow your dreams. I wish you much love, success and happiness. Don't look back. | |
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