***Bounce965***
Very nicely put; indeed.
I have been on this site for almost 2 years, and so far, have only met 1 person who had a negative impact on me. I have only met 5 in the entirety, 3 of which are close friends now, never anything more, then or now.
I believe it's safe to say that both genders play a role, and **Bouncy** hit the bullseye when she said,
I believe that, sooner or later, the BS-artist is gonna hang themselves, IF you're paying attention to their messages. And the inconsistencies that will invariably pop up
Inevitably, the bad seeds fail. Simply put; one should be in depth with their communications, and patience is most definitely a virtue here. For no one can fool everyone. There are also things we can do to eliminate doubt; for example: When you DO go on a date with him, tell him you'd like him to cook you dinner at his house next time (2nd date), And see what he says.... If he says yes, then back out of it if you feel unsafe or awkward, if he says no, then guess what??
Best of luck to you **OP**
God Bless,
Scott