| No Strings Attached Sex-- Ladies, can you do it?
Posted: 5/22/2008 9:35:15 PM |
You know, I think no sex attached is sometimes a great idea. Women are not the only ones that get attached. You have some men who hound you just because your sex is the best sex they ever had. Sometimes a women just wants a little fun or a quicky and just wants to be on her way. Relationships are not all they're cracked up to be. Most relationships fail. Me personally, I'd rather have a one night stand and leave it at that. Well, if it's really good, then maybe one more time. One night stands usually are more kinkier. Makes you orgasim alot faster. None of that slow shit.
Wow, interesting quote here. Boy, am I glad that not everyone shares your same ideas. Maybe men want more than just getting laid and usually, the women who "think" they have the best sex are usually the ones who do not. This statement right here really shows the attitude perfectly of the dating world today and even a little bit of the marriage world today and just how selfish people are
Relationships are not all they're cracked up to be. Most relationships fail.
Very interesting, another person who doesn't want to work at a relationship, just would rather let it be and let it die. Are you sure your not my ex? The only reason why most relationships fail is because one person doesn't put forth the energy or time into it. Just like a marriage, if you expect things to be perfect all the time, you will be severely disappointed. Interesting how the human species has evolved over the past 100 years. I feel real sorry for the next generations, with these types of attitudes, no one will have kids, no one will get married and everyone will be screwing everyone just because it "feels" good. Wow, I am shocked!!! | |
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| No Strings Attached Sex-- Ladies, can you do it?
Posted: 5/23/2008 1:31:17 AM | hello, My name is kevin, I was reading your post and here is my thoughts,
I'm 44 years old, I'm devorced with ful time costody of 2 very young kids, ages 3 and 4. I've always been a guy who never has sex with out having feelings for the person, in others words i can never just jump into bed with anyone, so where does that put me? | |
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| No Strings Attached Sex-- Ladies, can you do it?
Posted: 5/23/2008 4:10:59 AM | Hi, I have been seeing a guy for almost 12 months. Dinners, lunches and drinks. We only slept together once in about 6 months. I of course have feelings for him, but he says he cant do committed relationships. We are great with each other and I know he has feelings for me, but recently I had to put the foot down and told him I want a relationship as that is really what I want. Surprise, surprise he then says he wants a no strings relationship. ?? Its hard for women as I think most of us do get feelings where as men can sleep with lots of women without any attachment. Silly me agreed and we have slept together on numerous occassions - but it has changed our relationship. I dont hear from him as much, and funny enough my feelings for him have changed. I figure Im worth more than that so now im looking again for someone who will take it further. AAAhhhh MEN. It is a man's world................... | |
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| No Strings Attached Sex-- Ladies, can you do it?
Posted: 5/23/2008 4:39:13 AM | | I todally belive that after time , the feelings change for women they do fall in love, this happend to me i was 33 seeing a 45 year old after a couple years of nsa fun , she told me she loved me , well , i ah couldnt reply , That worryied me after and sure enough we had a chat and she told me she wanted more of me , wanted me to end my marriage and go with her , well it ended our fun , and since i have never seen anyone else , always worried , So yes i belive it will change after time , some faster than others , but you and both parties can call it whatever you want , feelings will change , cause i loved her , i just couldnt tell her , and i knew she did | |
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| No Strings Attached Sex-- Ladies, can you do it?
Posted: 5/23/2008 4:51:44 AM | i'm currently having this problem as well cause the dude i'm seeing won't give me a straight answer on my question.....
i'm almost to the point i'm going to ditch him and find someone who does want a relationship instead of playing this dating game | |
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| No Strings Attached Sex-- Ladies, can you do it?
Posted: 6/13/2008 3:30:06 PM | Hey im with you VERYGREENEYEZ, all the way bout the rope/handcuffs - I prefer to refer to them as having an interest in exquisitely tight Tiffany bracelets!!!!!!!!!!
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| No Strings Attached Sex-- Ladies, can you do it?
Posted: 7/2/2008 3:50:51 PM | Unfortunately there is an old quote form Sex in the City we girls need to remember "He's just not that into you" cause believe me, when he is interested you can't keep him away.
Can I do "no strings sex?" you bet - sometimes there are many things about the "relationship" that aren't right, but a couple things are VERY right :) | |
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| No Strings Attached Sex-- Ladies, can you do it?
Posted: 7/2/2008 8:23:08 PM | | Yes, it can be done and yes no strings attatched means I won't get the warm fuzzy feeling about you (and I'll treat you like the piece of meat that you are)... but personally, I want something with substance. If all you are is a****on a pole for me, I will get bored very quickly. And it wouldn't matter how great the sex is because in the morning if you have nothing intelligent to say -- you may as well turn over and go back to sleep. | |
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| No Strings Attached Sex-- Ladies, can you do it?
Posted: 7/2/2008 8:51:08 PM | I don't want NSA personally. I LIKE the bonding, I WANT long term.
NSA sex lacks the trust and emotions I WANT.
I want special, I'll leave the NSA to those that can tolerate it. I won't judge those that prefer NSA sex, but I do not want it. | |
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| No Strings Attached Sex-- Ladies, can you do it?
Posted: 7/2/2008 9:03:26 PM | | SEX IS SEX, Alot of men and women are just fine with a NSA type relationship becouse they dont want anything serious........ making love is when you actually have an emotional connection to a person, and care about them, you want something more than just sexual gratification. | |
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| No Strings Attached Sex-- Ladies, can you do it?
Posted: 7/3/2008 7:04:00 AM | I think it all relies in insecure and secure ladies.
If the lady is insecure about herself with low self-stem then that girl will be looking most likely for the one night attachment.
If the lady is secure about herself then she would careless who she messed with. Unless the guy has work up her ear pretty well.
Girls seem to fall to fast through the ear. | |
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| No Strings Attached Sex-- Ladies, can you do it?
Posted: 7/3/2008 1:44:56 PM | no, i can't do it.
every time i try i get blindsided by the feelings that come up from out of nowhere. now i just try to step back & stop everything b/c it gets painful to want something you can't have. or you think you can't have. or think you don't want to have. whatever. | |
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| No Strings Attached Sex-- Ladies, can you do it?
Posted: 7/3/2008 5:23:48 PM |
SEX IS SEX, Alot of men and women are just fine with a NSA type relationship becouse they dont want anything serious
making love is when you actually have an emotional connection to a person, and care about them,
So then SEX with someone else while you're in a relationship is ok then because "It's just SEX"?????? | |
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| No Strings Attached Sex-- Ladies, can you do it?
Posted: 7/6/2008 11:24:40 PM | I think it depends on how much the man likes and values sex.
A good sex life goes along way in overlooking flaws in the other party. Personally I think it is very bonding. With the sex question answered good or bad it seems to me to get it done with and move on to a deeper relationship. It can only be better with good sex.
It is said that a way to a mans heart is through his stomach. If that were true then the value of chefs throughout the world would be staggering. | |
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| No Strings Attached Sex-- Ladies, can you do it?
Posted: 7/6/2008 11:55:23 PM | I think we are all different individuals even though we may share gender. To answer your question ~OP~ it can happen 'No strings attached sex' but usually this means there is no real bond between him and I.... and it dies very quickly. The sex could have happened but there is no more desire to be with the person. It doesn't mean sex was not good, it basically means the heart was not involved in it, this is what I define as 'sex with no strings attached'... something not very interesting on a long run... yawn
...and just to add few cents, as I hear many ladies are saying that once they sleep with a man they create attachment. To me this happens before sex, the desire to be with the person must be there before sex. Once sex takes place, it creates more desire for the person and confirms the attachment, but it isn't the other way around. Sex in itself does not create an attachment.
I notice that once I desire the man, the dynamics is already different, it isn't like between friends, even before sex takes place. | |
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| No Strings Attached Sex-- Ladies, can you do it?
Posted: 7/7/2008 12:16:32 AM |
SEX IS SEX, Alot of men and women are just fine with a NSA type relationship becouse they dont want anything serious
making love is when you actually have an emotional connection to a person, and care about them,
SEX IS SEX... is like some kind of physiological function, and it does not have anything to do with emotions. It is similar to having to go to the bathroom.
I wonder why would anyone consider SEX without putting emotions into it, to have non-serious relationship? If it is not serious why have it at all? I'd rather prefer masturbation over sex for sex sake. | |
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| No Strings Attached Sex-- Ladies, can you do it?
Posted: 7/7/2008 1:41:07 AM | | It would only be with someone I'd have a strong attraction to in the first place, and then, if it's really good why would I want to walk away from it? I had my share of one nighters in my twenties and told myself "girls just wanna have fun" (yes it was the eighties), but deep down I was always disappointed if I didn't see or hear from them again unless they were totally crazy or awful. | |
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