| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 5/13/2008 5:58:09 AM | | No, it's not that common for women to do that. She cheated on him, plain and simple. | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 5/13/2008 6:19:46 AM | Hows is using a strap-on shamefull?! Why do they need ot get help? Because they explored their sexuality and some toys?! How is it disgusting? Is using viberators or having sex disgusting?!
I am shocked at how close minded, judgemental and prudish the posters on this thread are. Yes, his wife cheated he acted as I would have hoped any person would have, left and hopefully spoekn with his wife about what happened and been adult about the situation; but grow up, it's a sex toy. LOADS of people use them, it's not a big deal.
Hoenstly, grow up people. If using a sex toy bothers you, then don't have sex. No offense, but havng sex is a LOT more 'disgusting' than using toys. It's messier and you can get STDs, other diseases AND possibly get pregnant from having actual sex, whereas with toys, that is nill. Think about it.
Would you just chill out!!!!, what I meant was that what she did in general at the expence of her hubby, THAT was what I was criticizing and rightfully so. She acted immaturely with another lady while cheating on her man, that is the main fault and what I am criticizing. But also, yes it is sick when two ladies do that with eachother, that is my opinion, take it or leave it, it is what it is!! | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 5/13/2008 6:19:51 AM | | yea she cheated ..the dirty **** .....now get on with it forgive her with the condition the girlfriend comes to live with both of you.....and if you cant do that whats her number | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 5/13/2008 6:35:15 AM | Freaking? depends on one's perspective... many people define having sex by "getting their freak on"... Me? Use a strap-on? Nope my guy has all the equipment I want or need. And he has never indicated to me a desire to see me sport like equipment...lol
You asked nothing of us women as to whether we consider it cheating but I'll address that anyway - oh hell yea, she cheated on her husband.
I have several friends who are gay (females) & from the outside looking in at this lifestyle, I see an abundance of infidelity (which none of these friends consider as such) - they seem to always be on the lookout for the next partner although their SO may be standing/sitting beside them at the time...not saying this is always the case, but seems to be the way of those I know.
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 5/13/2008 8:37:41 AM | I'd be totally shocked and hurt if my SO had a lesbian encounter and didn't let me watch. I'd consider that, cheating, even with video evidence. But I'd have to be sure and watch it over and over.
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 5/13/2008 9:21:36 AM | | Yep ... this would be cheating because it is sex with someone without her hubbys knowledge ..male or female ..cheating . Not saying it's a bad thing , just not something that is right to do behind your spouses back . | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 5/13/2008 9:45:57 AM | I don't get this duality. If your wife is having sex with a man behind your back, you're ready to kill him.
If she does it with another woman, it's OMGAWD SO HAWT.
First of all, I'd be extremely angry. Secondly, it's cheating. I'd leave too. It wouldn't bother me if her feelings were expressed to me before hand, and her desire to explore her curious sexuality.
If she told me before hand, and we talked it over. And allowed for me to set some boundries. Cheating is cheating, and it's hurtful. | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 5/13/2008 9:51:42 AM | I recall once when a golf buddy discovered his wife was cheating with another woman. We began joking that he needs to view it as an opportunity. We saw very quickly that he was in the same pain that anyone would be if she was sleeping with another man.
No. It's not an opportunity nor hawt. It's a painful betrayal that's very real. | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 5/13/2008 10:05:26 AM | the only strap on i've ever used is a feed bag.
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 5/13/2008 10:16:58 AM |
I don't get this duality. If your wife is having sex with a man behind your back, you're ready to kill him.
If she does it with another woman, it's OMGAWD SO HAWT.
THANK YOU. I was beginning to wonder if I was the only one who noticed this.
I don't understand how a female who cheats on her spouse with a man is unforgivable and makes her some kind of whore, but the same sex is somehow "forgivable" if the husband is allowed to watch or participate? What kind of twisted world do we live in?Betrayal is betrayal. She is married, it's clear it's not an open relationship, and she cheated on her husband. The gender of the person doesn't matter.
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 5/13/2008 10:33:03 AM |
Oppertunity is knocking on his door
Sare STD's...
Last time I looked, lesbians can't use condoms.... | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 5/13/2008 10:53:36 AM |
shes a cheat. doesnt matter what or who she did it with!
yep..sex with any other outside the relationship is cheating | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 5/13/2008 10:59:16 AM | In my profession, possession is nine-tenths of the law, so what possessed this guy to go nuts? An invitation to said friend (of the wife) and recreation of the crime scene would have been much more appropriate. | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 5/13/2008 11:04:20 AM |
She's a witch! Burn her!
I wouldn't go THAT far.....at least, not without seeing if she weighs the same as a duck first.
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 5/13/2008 11:15:19 AM | One of the reasons for the separation was that he was snooping in her panty drawer(he had suspicions about her)
This is only one reason?
He was snooping in her panty drawer looking for what?
He had suspicions about her?
And HE wants to know if she's a freak??? | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 5/13/2008 12:01:19 PM | I'm sorry I was making lite of the situation. A friend of mine had his wife leave him for a woman. It's painful and it's not really a joking matter.
Betrayal of trust is not gender specific. | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 5/13/2008 12:18:02 PM | Hell, he had what most men only dream about that being a real certifiable Bi Wife.
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 5/13/2008 1:56:38 PM |
she's a cheat! tie her tubes up, women like her shouldnt be allowed kids!
k ummmmm what does that hafta do w/a strap on????..  .. | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 5/13/2008 2:00:48 PM | my oh my, what a tragedy
perfect example on how one man's trash is another man's treasure. i know plenty guys that DREAM on marrying such a kinky woman, look what ur friend made out of it... LOL
my question is... how on earth did that woman marry such a dumb-ass in the first place?? why i ask u, why??
should have left him find some nice girl at church that would never demand having her p*ssy eaten or even think of using toys
lol
is it cheating? yes, it is... but why she married that dude i really don't understand. and what would ur friend done if she had actually used that strap-on on a GUY? | |
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