| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 5/15/2008 8:57:38 AM | First of all it is cheating, if he had no knowledge of her activities she was sneaking around behind his back. If she would do it with a woman, she will do it with a guy. All a woman like this needs is an oppurtunity.,so kick her to the curb. But before she goes may I suggest he introduce her to the Monkey and the midget mentioned by a previously poster, get it on tape and be YouTube famous    | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 5/16/2008 3:00:32 PM | Is use of strap-ons among women common or is my buddy's wife a freak? - bigthunder167
She's not a freak, she's bi-sexual. And of F*cking course, it's still cheating!
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Now the use of toys...that is everyone's personal decision. What works for one person, will be disgusting to another. - simplelady66
Everyone's personal decision? Well yes, but I would think that it should be discussed, when entering into a
relationship. If he's not comfortable with it & she refuses to get rid of it/not use it while they are together,
I think that would constitute a HUGE compatibility issue.
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If she would do it with a woman, she will do it with a guy. - wileydiver
Not neccessarily, wileydiver. Some bi- people don't consider it to be cheating, if they only have one partner of
each sex. I met a guy like this years ago, when he explained to me his idea of a monogamous relationship,
I declined to let things go any further. I told him up-front, "Michaelann does not share or play well with others." | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 5/16/2008 5:48:17 PM | Not going to bother reading the whole thread.. first 3-5 replies were all I need to know what direction this thread would be tipped in.
Mine has never been used on a woman. 'Nuff said.
Oh.. and as far as infidelity goes... if she didn't tell him at the time this was happening, in other words kept it a secret, then yes... I agree it's cheating. | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 5/16/2008 6:01:29 PM | Oh Man... I want to know her story...
You used yours on a man??? What was that like, to do the dude?? | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 5/16/2008 6:27:42 PM | No, that practice is not common among women. I have many single girlfriends who, like me, have been disappointed in relationships and no, we don't have lesbian activity, or toys or anything like that. We get together, with a takeaway, a bottle of wine and Bridget Jones.
She is a liar. | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 5/16/2008 6:33:08 PM | Re the Opost
1. She is a cheater, hands down!
2. As per if many women do it, no clue.
3. Freaky? I would not say that! | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 5/16/2008 10:53:26 PM | | Quite honestly, I would have a hard time not slapping her in the face with the strap-on, not really for causing pain purposes... more for the comedy. Then I would tell here to get out and if she ****es, tell her she can go sleep on her girlfriend's couch... don't let her forget the strap-on... | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 6/13/2008 5:39:19 AM | | personally i think its not common for a woman to do that unless she is bi curious! maybe she needs to step out of the closet and be honest! ever wondered why he wasnt asked to join in though? | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 6/13/2008 6:34:47 AM |
perfect example on how one man's trash is another man's treasure. i know plenty guys that DREAM on marrying such a kinky woman, look what ur friend made out of it... LOL
Agreed, there is someone for everyone out there. Although my personal dreams don't involve women with a strap-on desire, I have heard POF'ers describe and brand women as "S-L-U-T-S" that sounded just perfect and very desirable to me. I enjoy women with a strong appetite for sex and an experimental desire to experience different things. Life is short and should be enjoyed.
Although, I can understand the hurt in being left out of the loop by someone so close. If this man really loves his wife, I would hope that he opens an understanding dialog with her to put this behind them, especially if they have children. Love is sometimes most appreciated and needed when the reciever of that love is not deserving of it. | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 6/13/2008 12:12:39 PM | | Seems kind of like a troll post here; however, if true, his reaction seems a little overblown to me. | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 6/13/2008 12:29:23 PM | Why do people assume she'd be in to a threesome with him? With me, I can understand, but I don't know the "friend." :)
I think I would have hidden a camera before confronting her. Maybe your friend is walking funny because he is a heavy sleeper. :) Maybe she's doing the dog. If she wasn't honest about getting sex outside the relationship, what makes you think it really is her friend she's boinkin?
My bet is on Rover. haha. | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 6/13/2008 12:52:17 PM |
He confronted her and she admitted using it on a girlfriend of hers and having it used on her by the same girlfriend. My buddy freaked out and said he was out due to her infidelity.
 MOST MEN would have been over come with tears of joy.............LMAO! | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 6/13/2008 6:19:34 PM | She makes it sound like screwing her friends with a strap-on is like having a Tupperware party!
that's very much cheating. I wouldn't say she's a freak, but she's definitely a cheater! | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 6/13/2008 6:50:36 PM | | DUDE! Haven't you ever heard of a Menge e trois (sp). Could be alot of fun!!! AS long as she loves you. Brian | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 6/13/2008 11:29:09 PM | I know more about strap-ons than I feel comfortable discussing here.
HOWEVER, what interested ME is the whole "cheating" thing.
I am constantly amazed at how some people state what is at best an "opinion" about "cheating" in such a way that it comes off as a factual statement.
Try looking into the adultery laws (in states that have them). You will see that something like this would not be considered cheating.
Never mind the emotional, off the cuff responses. . . | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 6/14/2008 1:21:18 AM | The idea is she had a sexual relationship outside of a marriage that basically had an unwritten contract that involved "No sexual relationships with other people." F*ck and people think I'm crazy to insist "if you want another women for any god damn reason you'd best tell me about it and bring her home so I can have some too otherwise good luck with your life and get out."
Cheating is cheating whether or not there is a real man c*ck involved or not. | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 6/14/2008 4:12:43 AM | | Yes, I think she hid something from you, which is not good, but I don't think it's the same kind of cheating as it would be if it was a man (assuming she is straight, and wants to stay in a male/female relationship with you). If she was bi-curious, and just experimenting a little, I could see how she might be feeling like it wasn't really cheating, though if she were really staying true to you, she could have discussed the whole thing with you before experimenting. | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 6/14/2008 7:44:44 AM | well after reading post #8 for loveonfire i would say there r some VERY uptight people in this world....she is NOT a freak because she used a strap on...what goes on behind closed doors is NOBODYS buisness as long as both parties are of consenting age and like what they are doing...but the fact that she was MARRIED and doing this is reason to be worried...all BS aside if any of these "i would like to watch" guys found out their wife or GF were doing this without their knowledge they would be upset also..cheating is cheating no matter what sex they are cheating with...and in closing loveonfire you mingh want to find a time machine and go back to the fifteen hundreds so u could find a few "FREAKS" and burn them at the stake...nothing like a closed minded douche to ruin everyones good time with their own version of right and wrong | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 6/14/2008 7:51:20 AM | I know several women who own one.. novelty or for fun.. some have boyfriends/husbands.
I know of one friend of mine who has "girls nights" where they do all end up usually in bed together.. its more common thing now a days for women to own sex toys and be more open with there friends.
I dunno I think your buddy is an asshat and should have talked to his wifes friend and her at the same time and see what happens.. then go from there. | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 6/14/2008 9:25:27 AM | Cheating is having sex with someone else outside of your relationship. I've heard it all. "I'm bisexual so having sex with my own sex is ok". LOL
I would have thrown her and her cheating ass out and thrown her strap on; while I was wearing surgical gloves; out in the street.
Cheaters expose the others to STD's and its also wrong. No question here. Done deal; she's out. | |
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| Friend Found Wife's Strap-On
Posted: 6/14/2008 12:13:26 PM | He had suspisions that tells that all is not right in the marraige to start with. Whatever the reason behind the strapon....wether used or not or who it was used with on or by is beside the point.
Frankly being a freak has nothing to do with it. Everyone has their quirk and its no ones place to judge.
What it comes down to is honesty...that is the key. | |
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