| A girl, a plane ticket, and a coward.
Posted: 5/13/2008 10:29:47 PM | Fly there, live in his house, eat his food, make him take you out places and fvck him like a passion driven demon.
Then go on with your life leaving him to wonder how he could have been so stupid as to have passed you by.
Or you could wimp out and be a victem like so many others here giving you advice.
Your choice.  | |
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| A girl, a plane ticket, and a coward.
Posted: 5/17/2008 9:57:01 PM | | Hey, go to the agency or airline and get them to change you ticket for somewhere else, and then GO...alone and have a blast, the more interesting the place, the better. I did that once and ended up instead of the mid-west USA in Guadalajara Mexico. !!!! Andale!! | |
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| A girl, a plane ticket, and a coward.
Posted: 5/18/2008 10:04:09 AM | | Maybe you can get him to pay for your ticket directly AFTER he buys himself a set of balls on the organ 'black market.' | |
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| A girl, a plane ticket, and a coward.
Posted: 5/18/2008 5:36:55 PM | | op what a jerk. my ex 'borrowed ' £40 off me before breaking up with me...nice huh? i think sometime it's a case of cutting our loses and being glad we got off cheaply...relatively speaking. although also a student...so ouch lol | |
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| A girl, a plane ticket, and a coward.
Posted: 5/18/2008 5:45:04 PM | i'd speak with The Airline Personnel to get the flight changed to another destination  speak with a Supervisor if you must.... it will be a lesson hard-learned but worth a Lifetime (or it should  )
*SO*, what did you do, Op? good luck to you.. | |
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Katoom
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| A girl, a plane ticket, and a coward.
Posted: 5/18/2008 5:51:53 PM | | Tell him you understand, then tell him the fair thing to do is pay for the ticket, since he didnt know how to tell you he could at least pay for his mistake, it gets you your money back and lets him feel he has bought his his innocence. You are already out the money so what will it hurt!! | |
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| A girl, a plane ticket, and a coward.
Posted: 5/18/2008 5:57:34 PM | Tell him not to feel guilty, because you met a really nice guy and that you traded in your ticket and you're both going away for a few days.
Make up some romantic getaway you know that he knows you always wanted to visit. | |
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| A girl, a plane ticket, and a coward.
Posted: 5/18/2008 6:03:12 PM |
Expensive lesson to learn, but I would not go, and do everything in my power to move on. He should have split the ticket with you to begin with if he really wanted to see you. Long distance relationships are just hard, and when they become open, the risks are so great. You were okay with the open relationship status, so you hold some responsibility in what happened, and maybe somewhere deep down you knew this and wanted it to end. He obviously is not the right man for you. Looking at your profile and pictures, you will have no problem meeting other guys. Maybe look more locally.
This lady nailed it. At your age, local is the way to go. At 19, you need to be going out, and seeing what there is to offer.
You'll be fine, promise | |
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| A girl, a plane ticket, and a coward.
Posted: 5/18/2008 6:19:12 PM | | Wow, this is what a lot of guys are looking for! a woman to show that she wants him. if it was me i would have drove to you to be with you. 330 bucks to find out what he is, money well spent. though the pain is not worth it. | |
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| A girl, a plane ticket, and a coward.
Posted: 5/18/2008 6:28:28 PM | I am so sorry for your pain...we have all been there at one time. Learn to never buy a plane ticket again...if he really wanted to see you, he should have bought the ticket...
Read the book, Why men love ****es....the best thing you will ever read in your life. You will take care of yourself more.
Rebook the ticket somewhere fun, like Vegas!! | |
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| A girl, a plane ticket, and a coward.
Posted: 5/18/2008 6:35:54 PM | | Your ticket is probably not refundable or transferable either. If that's the case just suck up the money you're out and move on. Now if you have other friends there why not go and visit them? Long distance does not work if one party gets lonely enough to start going out. I think that was the case with him, he may have been hitting the clubs all along, dating all along. But didn't meet someone until now. It's his loss | |
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| A girl, a plane ticket, and a coward.
Posted: 6/3/2008 8:37:56 PM | I had a guy do this to me once. Only he wanted me to move to the city he was in and I got their with all my worldly posessions and my dog and found out he wanted me to live with him and to also be able to date other girls. Well not my style, it hurt like hell, but cut my losses packed up and went home and didn't look back.
If you go and visit think how you'll feel possibly meeting his "current" girlfriend. Don't do it. You'll just be twisting the knife in your own gut. People can be real cowards and I'm sure this guy feels bad for hurting you, but he didn't care enough not to do it so write is off as a learning experience and move on. | |
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| A girl, a plane ticket, and a coward.
Posted: 6/3/2008 8:46:59 PM | | You may be able to trade that ticket in towards a new ticket anywhere that airline flys! Go visit a real friend or go somewhere fun! | |
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