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Posted: 5/13/2008 11:14:39 PM | I would say the OP is a drama queen because her profile says she's 28, wait, no....she's really 24...or it that her "friend's" age? So is the whole profile fake?
As for the topic: What kind of man dates a woman for 2 months and doesn't try to put the moves on? Makes me believe that no one is actually "dating". More like the OP's friend sees the guy when hanging out with friends and just wants him to date her but doesn't know how to get his attention. | |
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Posted: 5/13/2008 11:14:45 PM | I am ready and willing to take the abuse the men will hand out for revealing this to you.
Why are you asking men out to begin with? They are supposed to ask you. It's very important to make the men believe they are in control of the situation of all times, even if they are not.
Only another female will tell you this. The men do not want you to know this... If you chase him, you will only serve to drive him away. He might think he likes it in the beginning, but later will get tired of it.
If he has not asked you out in two months of seeing you, he is not that into you! If he is too shy to ask you out, he lacks self confidence and you might not want him in the long run. | |
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Posted: 5/13/2008 11:17:28 PM | | I say walk the other way. If a woman can't speak her mind then she never will. | |
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Posted: 5/13/2008 11:32:42 PM | Who was it who said the most beautiful flowers close up the tightest? Sun Tzu? Confucious?
Khalil Gibran? Mohatma Ghandi? Oh! Thats right, it was George M. Conner, from the fifth grade, I remember when we used to play checkers in the park on the sunny Sunday afternoons... | |
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Posted: 5/14/2008 6:35:32 AM | | Would do my best to ignore the incident – for all I know her friend might just be trying to screw with me or her or both, or just be plain wrong. Whether I was the type of guy to be put off by immaturity or encouraged by the “green light”, it would be foolish to react to a third party intervention into a private relationship. | |
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Posted: 5/14/2008 6:55:34 AM | thanks for all the input OTHER than the ones insulting me cause they have nothing better to do....
but i was hopeing to hear more than "do it herself" ...thats a no brainier...
by the sounds of this shes gonna have to wait on him then
thanks anyway  | |
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Posted: 5/14/2008 1:07:57 PM | | I would be happy to get the information....many of us as we age are stillvery shy and bashful in relationships...so any outside help can be useful.....as long as it isn't meddling and malicious... | |
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Posted: 5/14/2008 1:51:31 PM |
You are so full of sh!t..... Damn! You found me out.....yeah, I always say that too about myself. Of course, usually, ya never know when I'm flingin' "it". And you were gettin' pretty _deep_ there yourself. Just seeing if you were awake, apparently you were the only one that was. But it took ya nearly 4 hours to "catch" me, not too quick on the upswing there are ya'? But remember, in AskaChick when you are there, no holds barred. ~winks, kidding you~
OT: I hope you get this undercontrol OP. | |
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Posted: 5/14/2008 1:52:27 PM | | I think most guys would be elated, as this just doesnt happen often enough. | |
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Posted: 5/14/2008 7:48:04 PM | | You're welcome, OP, we're just here to help. Is she this shy about everything? Say she gets something at the store and she's not happy with the merchandise, does she take it back and complain, or just numbly accept that she got "stuck"?(for instance) | |
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Posted: 5/14/2008 8:45:04 PM |
But remember, in AskaChick when you are there, no holds barred
clasact, we are now in DoodZone... they might get upset that you just called them chicks. 
*shows her ManCard*
see... I can post here...
*backs out slowly... making sure she does not step on any doode's toe*
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Posted: 5/14/2008 10:50:39 PM | Huh...
Sure you just planted your spike heel in my instep, but you're also pushing your cushion into my belt buckle... I'm a little ambivalent about your exit strategy.
I think Clasact was talking about when guys visit the Ask a Girl forums... | |
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Posted: 5/14/2008 11:00:59 PM |
Sure you just planted your spike heel in my instep, but you're also pushing your cushion into my belt buckle...
*blushes*
Sorry... didn't mean to... *is clumsy*
I'm a little ambivalent about your exit strategy
Why? I thought you'd be open to that...
... especially given the belt buckle-cushion...
OT: If a dude was to tell me that his friend likes me, I'd find that rather amusing and a turn off... am too old for that stuff.
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Posted: 5/15/2008 6:38:24 AM | Come on, Red,
OK, if a guy did it , yeah, creepy, but I think it's kinda cute from a young lady.
BTW, English isn't your first language? I'm impressed! Stick around, you're not stepping on my toes, and there's room here. | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 9:50:50 AM | | Tell the friend of the chick to tell the chick to be HONEST. It works wonders. | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 11:55:43 AM | clasact, we are now in DoodZone... they might get upset that you just called them chicks. Yep, I know *Red*, I know we are in DoodZone. LOL, that's what I was saying......"Remember in AskaChick, when you are THERE, no holds barred".
Seeee? ~grins~ Aww. now, I would _never_ call them chicks.....
Red, you are sooo funny....
OT......Okay, I guess some of the guys think it cute and the girls think it not so cute. | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 11:57:57 AM | | Go talk to the girl. Her being shy doesn't make her a bad person or undateable, despite what appears to be popular opinion. It's not ideal, but it's not a deal-breaker either | |
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