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Posted: 5/15/2008 4:28:18 PM | OP ~ when I first read this I was going to blast you for making stupid generalizations. I'm sure you'd so the same if I made a stupid generalization about women. But you apologized and re-posted the question correctly.
Now on to your situation. Just get the man whore out of your life. He just wants what most women complain about and that is sex, sex, sex. Thus an easy target of generalizations. So honest mistake.
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| Why do guys do this???
Posted: 5/15/2008 7:26:51 PM | | He's a smart guy, he's just trying to have a back up plan..why are you doing this..? | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 8:33:23 PM | | He's just wanting to have sex with you betting on her not finding out about it! | |
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Posted: 5/16/2008 1:27:08 AM | Oh GWAD....another guy who tells every woman "I love you" to get what he wants.
Tell him to put an L on his forehead. | |
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Posted: 5/16/2008 1:35:35 AM | I'm can't be friends with an ex. I find it too painful to talk to my ex because we are truly over and no matter what we do we have no future.
Makes me sort of wonder if you're pining for him a little? | |
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Posted: 5/17/2008 10:46:37 PM | hiya, im currently in the similar situation and also know of friends going through it too and i dont understand it all. why if a guy is so happy with their gf are they messing with us? we try and be mates coz once upon a time we got on well and would like their friendship and then constantly hint that they wanna sleep with us!
ALSO doesnt it make u think were they doing this when they were with us? and part of u might secretly like to sleep with them agen coz the sex was good but not when they are still with their gf but dont actually want them back because uv seen their true colours?
guys are stupid!!!
Lilly I'm not really sorry to say this, you are pretty, but do not seem able to follow a simple line of logic. Based on what you just said you are the idiot. YOU stay friends with them because the sex was once good. YOU put up with his lack of morals with the thought that you might one day get him in the sack again. YOU talk to him about his sex life with his gf...WTF! YOU, the OP and your friends in the same situation facilitate these immoral guys actions by not drawing the line. Now if you have been able to follow what I've just said, look in the mirror and say, "I am stupid".
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Posted: 5/18/2008 12:43:12 AM | | because you keep talking to him..if your not interested, stop talking to him or just tell his"other"woman what is going on | |
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Posted: 5/18/2008 6:42:31 AM | yes i am stupid your right but uv completly misunderstood me!!
im not friends with my ex with the hope of going back there, were friends because we mutually respect and care about eachother.
are u one of those guys then that insist that men and women cant be friends coz someone always wants more? | |
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Posted: 5/18/2008 7:37:42 AM |
no, I'm not still stuck on him... maybe guys should get over their damn ego trips. MEN ARE NOT god's gift to women. She why do they all think that? As far as I am concerned all men act the same, as long as they have a place to stick their****(real or fake) they're happy. Now go back to playing with your toys.
I know I'm in the wrong forum but your response to the man's reasonable question was uncalled for. I'm not a guy and I also wondered why you are even talking to your EX unless you share children or are still stuck on him. Did you come here to get opinions or just to vent? | |
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Posted: 5/18/2008 7:56:54 AM | | i will you the straight facts no bs on this subject of why your ex says he loves you. and wants to sleep with you, he knows his current relationship is what it is. but he is looking for a back up just in case most men always have a back up in mind somewhere in the just in case file and men who say diferent are full of shit. and since he knows how u are in bed and what kind of relationship he can get from you from the past experiences he just wants to keep you inb the rotation just in case. Now as far as i go i fully admit i used to be one of those guys always having a back up just in case but i recently found the woman i want to spend the rest of my life with so as far as back ups go i dont need one. just tell him straight out the buffet is closed and the only service he will get is a freindship if he cant handle that then goodbye. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2008 9:56:55 AM | | I think they do that because he isn't really sure about the one he is with So he is hanging onto his back up plan, And you are making it easy for him .Not fair to the new one either, You both deserve each other. So you both need to get out of HER PICTURE and move on. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2008 9:58:17 AM | Ahh...this topic reminds me of that old TV show I used to watch as a kid. Does anybody else remember that show, Hee-Hoe? Good old Corn Cob County with all of it's pickin' and grinnin' residents like Roy Clark, Buck Owens, The Hager Twins, Missy, Granpa Jones, and cousin Minnie Pearl...memories. Life was simpler in Corn Cob County.
But back to the post, it's simple too. It's called self respect and self worth. Getcha some and this won't be a puzzler at all. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2008 9:58:23 AM | | sounds to me he is confused, and is not sure what he wants. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2008 3:21:11 PM |
yes i am stupid your right but uv completly misunderstood me!!
im not friends with my ex with the hope of going back there, were friends because we mutually respect and care about eachother.
are u one of those guys then that insist that men and women cant be friends coz someone always wants more?
No absolutely not, I'm not saying thats its a bad thing in fact I see it all the time.. My main point is that you can hardly complain about what you allow to happen. You obviously dont mind that your ex drops the hints because you put up with it. If it was really something that concerned you, you would say to him, "This has got to stop now, it is disrespectful to your girlfriend and myself". If he continues and you allow it then you are just as bad. Life is made of choices, whether or not you make the moral ones is your initiative. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2008 7:15:57 PM | | He's not after sex with you.. He's already getting plenty. He's just being freindsly with you and , like most of the worlds women, you are mistaking it for sexual advances. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2008 8:22:07 PM | | I agree whole-heartedly with Just an average guy............ | |
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Posted: 5/19/2008 1:08:30 AM | This thread is awesome, it's got angry women, angry men, women angry at men, women angry at women, men angry at women, that cheeto's cheetah, the people's elbow, those little umbrellas you put in fancy tropical drinks...
Oh and seriously, men and women always seem to have strained friendships at best. The topic of sex or a relationship is always gonna float there, but it's never quite as bad as ex's that you remain friends with. You have history with these folks, history tends to repeat itself.
Anyway I'm of the mind that if I have history with somebody, I have trouble remaining friends. I'm gonna assume we broke up for a reason, if it's because of something hurtful I can't trust them. If I can't trust them I don't need that kind of friendship, if we "grew apart" then we have disimilar interests, or more than likely just don't care about each other.
People always tell me life is about moving forward, not standing still or moving back. | |
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Posted: 5/19/2008 1:51:09 AM | | He's a douche. Tell his current girlfriend about it and get rid of anything that involves him in your life. If you still have any desire to be with a man who'd do this to one girl than you deserve whatever you get. Hope it works out for you, but you're asking for trouble as far as I'm concerned. | |
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Posted: 5/19/2008 9:10:25 AM | I see someone already touched on what was going to be my first response, because he's a douche bag, so I'll throw in the following instead:
The"why" question to ask, is why are you hangin with him instead of kicking him to the curb..... | |
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