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 hollymackeral

Joined: 3/15/2007
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How to Approach Nervous Women
Posted: 5/14/2008 5:07:21 PM
If you'd take off the stocking mask and drop the gun, they might be less nervous.
 Plastic Sturgeon

Joined: 12/5/2007
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How to Approach Nervous Women
Posted: 5/14/2008 5:19:33 PM
People in different socioeconomic classes live in different worlds.
They have different goals, priorities and aspirations. Different values!

As far as class, I'm attracted to a Mini-Mart employee as much as to
a CEO. The inferior or superior thing isn't an issue. In fact, I tend to
prefer, down to earth people.

I had close friends who were quite wealthy. It gets a little depressing
when their world revolves around buying another seventy thousand dollar
SUV or booking a cabin (with balcony) on a cruise ship. I'm not the
jealous type, but it's just not a good match! Same with the Romantic
side of it.
 witching_weather

Joined: 7/4/2007
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Posted: 5/14/2008 7:18:57 PM
Oh yes, I know this feeling well. One assumes that an attractive man would be accustomed to being accosted and approached by attractive women and would therefore not be interested in a less attractive woman. Also, he might even look down on them for daring to consider him as a partner. Alternatively, he might just be interested in another notch on his bed-post and whilst you would be OK for that, not for long term. One wouldn't want to become just a notch. These are the thought processes anyway, however irrational.

In this situation, it's particulary important for the attractive man to show his interest and reassure that it's genuine. Yes, ask the nervous woman out and don't give up too easily because she might say no at first, in embarassment and disbelief. She may also worry that the attractive man is just going to be tempted away by all the blonde bombshells too, so would think why even start anything that is bound to end in pain. Obviously, one should not persist to the point of harassment, but bear the above in mind.

Yes, I know it sounds self-effacing and so on, but I'm being honest here.
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