| Who works harder in bed, men or women?
Posted: 5/20/2008 4:46:01 PM | smartassblond: no I've never ginven a blowjob, but I have been fortunate enough to have been on the feceiving end of a few really fantastic ones and to be blatantly honest, although it was terrific there is not all that musch effort to bobbing your head back and forth, stroking it with your hands and using as little teeth as possible.
Really, blowjobs are over rated when it comes to "work" in bed. I hand gorlfriend once who gave an awesome blowjob and she could bob, suck and stroke for hours with a break, when she finished she wasn't even sweating but then she was in her late 20's.
I whole haertedly agree that if both want to be satisfied they both have to be equally involved, but again most women aren't which leads to the subject and question at hand.
I think it's great that your active in tha sack. | |
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| Who works harder in bed, men or women?
Posted: 5/21/2008 8:24:47 AM | re post 97:
"...I have one question for 'THE BOYS', have you ever given a fabulous' blow job' ???? do you have any idea how much effort and work a women puts into THAT?..."]
And I have a question for the "GIRLS": Have you ever had a penis? No! So, there is no way a woman can appreciate the "work" we men put into it, not that we mind, btw, we love our "work".
But seriously, there is no question as to who usuaully puts in the "job" more energy (calories), sweat (some people judge hard/real work by the amount of swear), creativity and above all, zest! On average, the male. Not complaining, love the work, merely stating a fact. And why we do not feel like getting up after sex and going shopping with her! Because we have just put our energies into love making, most of us at least, do! | |
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| Who works harder in bed, men or women?
Posted: 6/25/2008 7:38:53 PM | | EVOLUTION in all probability is WHY it is much harder for females to have an orgasm than men. Evolution KNOWS what it is doing. Because of that, men in general are at least going to have to be more "attentive" if nothing else with the majority of women. That is, IF they are looking to "please" their partner. Personally, I rather enjoy looking for those [perhaps] "secret places or triggers"... | |
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| Who works harder in bed, men or women?
Posted: 6/26/2008 3:16:18 PM | ok, so for the sake of argument (;) ) .. let's call it work
How many weeks do I need to collect EI and can you still lay a claim if you're your own boss? And what would I put down as my reason for being .. laid off?
A.S.is
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| Who works harder in bed, men or women?
Posted: 6/27/2008 8:40:33 AM | The highlight of the day (or night ) doesn't equate with "job to be done" - for me. It is about taking off together ... cruising together ... reaching stars and hmmm ... soft landing including   | |
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| Who works harder in bed, men or women?
Posted: 6/27/2008 4:17:16 PM |
1. I don't believe that whether you can go again should be the litmus test of whether you're working at it or not.
3. Women tend to be able to go again more often, because we don't have to wait for something to get hard. We're just...there and rarin'.
Yes and when 'in the mood' is when sex is the best. To please and be please is what sex was meant and enjoyed for.
op, I'm no Dr. Ruth or what but if your a wam bam thank you madame kind of guy, or is your experience and satisfaction is judged at the 'Best Little Whore house in Texas' or have pre-mature ejaculations that might be a problem for you or just maybe thats all you know in getting it off and now you are wondering why its like work after your done but not for your squeeze,aka g/f!
Any if you can't please her when she give ya 'the look' or smile, you might try in the morn when your hopefully batteries recharge!
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| Who works harder in bed, men or women?
Posted: 6/27/2008 4:32:49 PM | I don't know how to answer this question. I personally enjoy pleasing my partner. so I will do anything and everything in order to make that happen. So in one sense you could say I work very hard at it. However since I enjoy nothing more than pleasing my lady then I can't really call it work. I will say. I would hope that I give it my all becasue when any man gives his all to his lady then 99% of the time the lady will give her all in return. And when two people both give there all fireworks go off and there is nothing better.
I didn't really even answer the question but I tried too | |
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| Who works harder in bed, men or women?
Posted: 6/27/2008 4:40:42 PM | I know what you mean, I've been with ladies that seem as though it's the mans job to satisfy her while she just lies there . If that happens I actually stop trying and work enough to get mine, I think that when both people are working towards the common goal there is no problem achieving said goal. and yea, those willing to work for it are those I remember as my greatest sex partners, the others ....... well after 2 times trying and she's not willing to do her share ....i'm looking for someone else !! all I can say is that sex is like voting, If your not willing to participate, don't complain about the result.  | |
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| Who works harder in bed, men or women?
Posted: 6/27/2008 9:01:50 PM |
have absolutely nothing to with confidence, it's about participation
Experience tells me that those without confidence are the least likely to participate though.
If two people are going to take the time to screw then why not get into it, weather you're married, dating or it's a one night stand.
I agree with this. Confident or not.
It's sorta give and take anyway. There've been times when I wasn't feeling too good, but still wanted to get busy. There've been times when my partner(S) have had back problems and I took up the cause... because even though they were somewhat incapacitated.. they still wanted to get busy.
For many people, I truly believe it does tend to come out even. All told.
Men, period. End of discussion. It's really hard work laying on your back and opening your leggs.
What a ridiculous comment. | |
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| Who works harder in bed, men or women?
Posted: 6/27/2008 9:12:20 PM |
So, who really does most of the work in bed?
It may depend on who's on top? I know I put lots of effort into it when on top. I mean, I do lots of thrusting when he is on top too, but will admit, I like to just take what he gives me too!!
I like when we both put that much effort into oral as well. I have no issues giving a long BJ if he's had a long day... or just because he asked for one 
I don't know... I kind of assumed if both parties don't collapse in orgasmic bliss after it all... neither worked hard enough? | |
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| Who works harder in bed, men or women?
Posted: 6/27/2008 9:46:52 PM | | i know some women that make it so exciting you break your neck not to ejaculate too early. both parties work hard. but with that special someone, we all work a bit harder than usual. | |
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| Who works harder in bed, men or women?
Posted: 6/28/2008 10:05:54 AM | Some men that I had, don't do most of the work in bed. I happen to do my share or all of it. I get all hot and sweaty when I go at it, so I know I'm really working in bed  | |
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| Who works harder in bed, men or women?
Posted: 6/28/2008 6:08:02 PM |
Men, period. End of discussion. It's really hard work laying on your back and opening your leggs.
What kind of boring women have you been sleeping with? | |
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| Who works harder in bed, men or women?
Posted: 6/30/2008 3:43:27 PM | I dont consider it hard work i consider it foreplay. I enjoy sex to much i just go with the flow if i know a man is tired then ill let him rest but for me im just beginning alot of men think they are in shape but when they go a few rounds with me then. Then they join a gym afterwards. Only thing a man may have on a women is the size and we can get exhausted from screaming but we can actually go for hours and hours and hours.  | |
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| Who works harder in bed, men or women?
Posted: 7/2/2008 12:56:57 PM | | i think its kinda open and closed case too, most men definetly do most of the work in bed, call the chick boring if u want but, most of the just lay on there back and keep there legs open... only time a chick is working is when shes on top or giving a blow j, and someone stated its hard work giving one, but, and though ive never giving one or would, it doesnt seem like its a difficult task at all, just bob and lick and dont use teeth, shyit ukno how fast a guy has to move that tongue to try and get a girl off sheesh, that ish can leave ur mouth numb. | |
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| Who works harder in bed, men or women?
Posted: 7/3/2008 7:16:36 AM | I always end up doing all the work.
It all starts nice for the first 20 minutes. It becomes a thing of the two, then I take over charge because I like to be in charge.
After 2 hours of sex they usually give up on me (except for one girl i met long time ago) but I keep on. Then they will suggest if I can cum, but I will keep on!
Ok not trying to be rude or anything but it just takes me a long time to cum.
By the 3rd hour Sweating like pigs drinking water and have tried as many positions there is... I finally tend to give up.
Go out eat some and if there is nothing else to do. Go back to bed and masturbate alone! | |
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| Who works harder in bed, men or women?
Posted: 7/3/2008 7:26:36 AM |
Whoever is on top does more work.
So very much not true. Cowgirl is my second favorite because I can actually have alot more choices in movement and how to pleasure her, Im a long time martial artist, and when it comes the body its all about the hips. Anyone who thinks that being on bottom means just laying there is lazy, right now, just tug on some of those muscles down there, that when your lover isnt expecting can make them all the more eager to show you what they can do too! | |
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