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Posted: 5/14/2008 7:27:15 PM | | ok i feel compelled to make mention ........THERE WAS A DUDE WEARING A HELMET IN THIS THREAD!......LOL! | |
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Posted: 5/14/2008 7:40:38 PM | hell, I wouldnt want to date, let alone make love with a woman who has had unprotected sex previously with a man who never uses a condom. If I was in the position of starting a new relationship with someone and she didnt ask me if I was gonna wear protection I would ask myself do I need to stop and think about the risks. I'm a regular blood donor and I take seriously my responsibilities knowing that no test for HIV is 100 % effective or can detect the virus in the first few weeks. HIV is spreading fast amongst the hetrosexual populations of europe, australisia and america because of this head in the sand attitude that it cant happen to me. The trouble is HIV is mutating as it spreads, making it even more difficult to treat and less likely to cure or immunise against. Condoms are the most effective method of safe sex for men. So wear/insist on them been worn. | |
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Posted: 5/14/2008 8:07:38 PM | Some guys are a**holes and they are ONLY after one thing; so they do what they can to accomplish that goal, regardless of the results. Like you Sunny19762008, I am not on any form of birthcontrol, so condoms are a MUST; they are also non-negoitable. If we don't use a condom, we don't have sex. Very cut and dry as far as I am concerned. I would love to have another baby, but, I would rather it be on my time table verses an 'uh oh' time table.
Their are sooooooooooo many condom choices out there, people who complain about them and that they don't feel as 'good' as without them, need to mature and look at other brands; last time I checked, their are dozens and dozens of brands and types; I am sure one will do the job. | |
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Posted: 5/14/2008 8:11:43 PM | THE GENTLEMAN POSED A QUESTION.... WAT ABOUT DURING ORAL SEX??? AM SURE 100% COUPLES OR PEOPLE HAVING SEX ALWAYS HAVE SOME FORM OF ORAL SEX! ESPECIALLY THAT WOMEN LOVE IT ALOT!
MY SOLUTION IS SIMPLE; BEFORE WE EVEN KISS, WE HAVE TO GO FOR hiv/sti TESTS- A MUST! ( YES EVEN KISSING CAN GIVE YOU stdS, ESPECIALLY THE FACT THAT WE ALL WANT TO BRUSH OUR TEETH WELL BEFORE GOING TO MAKEOUT, WHCIH SOMETIMES LEADS TO BLEEDING GUMS!)
SO ALWAYS GO FOR A TEST! | |
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Posted: 5/14/2008 8:14:13 PM | ooooo ~~charmed~~!! awesome RED GREEN reference.....(the pride of hamilton PO)
lol
ps.....the knights got smoked..=).....
anyway i think im gonna get a pic of me with my hockey helmet on from the other side of a window im licking..........check my profile for updates!.......
o and ...in regard to the thread....no condom no cooch.....gots to have your rules yO! | |
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Posted: 5/14/2008 8:14:28 PM | | DO YOU HAVE ORAL SEX? DOES HE KISS YOU DOWN? DO YOU LIK HIM? WHERE IS THE PROTECTION?? GO FOR STI TEST, THEN ENJOY NATURE, AS LONG AS YOU TRUST EACH OTHER!! GOOD LUCK | |
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Posted: 5/14/2008 9:52:39 PM | Great post m_Church. I will say that all the ladies that do use condoms, good for you, don't back down on that, but again, they aren't 100% either. The problem is that you never truly know for sure who has what. The only thing that is 100% is abstinence, but if that doesn't work for you, then a condom would probably be the best way to go.
Here is what I cannot figure out though, why the hell would a guy want to have sex with a strange woman without any sort of protection? I mean, every g/f that I have ever had, we had used protection. The thought of not using protection in a relationship is absurd, but eventually, as you become more serious with that person, I can see not using them, but it still always haunts in the back of your mind that you "could" get this woman pregnant. Even the pullout method has some reservations for myself. LOL
Don't guys worry about knocking up a woman? I mean, the only time I actually came in my g/f, I was a little nervous about it, even though she assured me it was alright. It ended up okay, but still, I was a nervous wreck until she got her period a few days later. I don't know how guys not in a monogamous relationship can do that!! | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 1:01:44 AM |
Here is what I cannot figure out though, why the hell would a guy want to have sex with a strange woman without any sort of protection? I mean, every g/f that I have ever had, we had used protection. The thought of not using protection in a relationship is absurd, but eventually, as you become more serious with that person, I can see not using them, but it still always haunts in the back of your mind that you "could" get this woman pregnant. Even the pullout method has some reservations for myself.
At what point do you stop using condoms....?
Seriously, as you get older, the options for birth control do change....
Many women at my age, have either passed their fertile period and are not likely to have children... or as in my case, she's had her tubes tied...
In my age group, we almost always had sex without condoms when we were growing up... And to be truthful, I've never gotten any STI's....
Ironically, the only woman who got preggers unintentionally, we used a condom.... | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 1:11:59 AM | Strikes me as rude and irresponsible. Condom use is frighteningly low given the recent rise in syphilis and other lovelies, but this is partially due to the fact that the participants are young and feel that BC makes them invincible, or that people are in long-term relationships. It's just plain old ignorance to want a random, unprotected hookup - especially if you're not planning on getting full tested first, lol.
I can understand it from the feeling point of view... but "feels a little better" shouldn't be too high on the priority list in a situation like this. | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 1:36:49 AM | No birth control+no condom= high % baby
I'm not fond of condoms but they serve their purpose. I have to agree he's not thinking of you.... | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 2:13:36 AM | damn no wonder women get knocked up so easy 
start using 2 forms of birth control and maybe it won't happen
and don't tell me it don't work cause it does!!! it just an excuse to only use 1 form of control instead of 2
get of your a$$es and get something more than a condom or your asking to get knocked up 
i've been on 3 different BC pills now and they work fine for me so something works for every woman there just to lazy to take a step too!!!
this is only for women who only use condoms cause apparently BC doesn't work hahaha what a load of BS that is | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 4:43:44 AM | OP - Tell him you're delighted he's offering to marry you, because bareback sex is only acceptable in a long term, monogamous, committed relationship, but that it's way too early to be thinking that seriously.
Run girlfriend, he's engaging in very risky behavior and you do NOT need someone that stupid in your life. | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 4:49:16 AM |
damn no wonder women get knocked up so easy
start using 2 forms of birth control and maybe it won't happen
and don't tell me it don't work cause it does!!! it just an excuse to only use 1 form of control instead of 2
get of your a$$es and get something more than a condom or your asking to get knocked up
i've been on 3 different BC pills now and they work fine for me so something works for every woman there just to lazy to take a step too!!!
this is only for women who only use condoms cause apparently BC doesn't work hahaha what a load of BS that is
I can't use BC pills for medical reasons. Condoms are extremely effective if used properly. A lot of the oopses, come from people who are sloppy with them. | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 6:01:28 AM | ^^^
umm theres more than pills you can use no excuse not to be on BC in my mind....if your not willing to be on something yourself shouldn't be surprised or crying when you do get knocked up cause its your own fault for not using your own form of BC as well...yes its harsh but no one can tell me other wise!!!
its truth theres enough forms of BC out there!!!
i don't wanna hear excuses why any women is too lazy to look into what you can go on yourself | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 6:24:22 AM | You know what we call people who use the Rhythm Method?
Parents...
~Charmed~ | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 12:15:50 PM | | Simply stated, no, if this person you are about to lay down with is not a long term an a person you know is VD free, you will be gambleing with your life for the pleasure of a few hour of your life, is that good common sense, there are also thing out there that can cause cancer later if not detected that you could dye a slow death from, an as much as I loved to give oral, it is the least protected way an can lead to extemely bad situations to deal with, so for anyone to ask for unprotected sex is a death warrant gamble, or what some call russion rulete if you do not know your partner an even if you do sometimes if they have cheated on you! | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 1:54:04 PM | umm theres more than pills you can use no excuse not to be on BC in my mind
I never said I didn't use other forms of BC. When I was your age I used a diaphragm and still insisted my bf used a condom. And that was before we knew about HIV/AIDs.
I've been staying un-pregnant for longer than you've been alive. I think I've got the hang of it.
However, also when I was your age I used to routinely offer to buy bc for my friends who, for some bizarre reason, were more embarrassed to buy their own than they were worried about the consequences. | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 3:16:54 PM | However, also when I was your age I used to routinely offer to buy bc for my friends who, for some bizarre reason, were more embarrassed to buy their own than they were worried about the consequences.
Okay, this is another thing I don't quite understand. How is it that someone can be embarrassed to buy BC? I mean, is it the stigma of what the clerk will say? That is another excuse why some people don't use BC either is because they are too embarrassed to buy it. I have never been embarrassed, more proud than anything because it says for one, that I am in a monogamous relationship with a special woman and two, it says that I am getting lucky!! LOL
But seriously, I don't see the big issue with going up and buying condoms. All the women I ever dated would never do it. It is simple, you go up, grab a box of your kind, go up to the clerk, smile, pay for it, and out the door. What is so damn embarrassing about it, it is not like your buying tampons or something! LOL | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 3:32:06 PM | If anyone contacted me on a dating site and suggested we ride bareback, I would have two words for him, and the second one would be 'off'.
The guy's an idiot, and if you're still talking to him, you are slightly niave. (sp!)
If you're looking for no strings fun, then fair play to you, but make it safe!! If you're looking for a relationship, then even discussing unsafe sex is just foolish! | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 8:46:11 PM | | No touque, no nook. Sorry, but if the guy wants you bad enough, he'll respect your wishes and use a condom. How many other women has he slept with without using one? Eesh. Scary thought. | |
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Posted: 5/15/2008 9:09:19 PM | Do not **** about condoms. Oh, we hate them. Trust us. They hurt us more than they hurt you. But we don't want to be preggers, and you don't want to catch anything, right? Don't whine about condom sex. Do not explain that you can't cum with one on. LEARN to cum with one on, or if not, help us figure out what to do with you once we're satisfied and it's time for you to let loose your load.
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Posted: 5/15/2008 9:13:13 PM | | cuz atleast he tried to convince you otherwise. if it works...great for him, if not, he tried...i mean hey, you're still talking to him right =p | |
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Posted: 5/16/2008 3:12:12 AM | | There are so many things wrong with this! First off, I am not a major proponent of condoms. However, anyone that you refer to as "some dude" should not be considered for sex. While I personally feel that there is a level of intimacy lost with condom usage, I also believe that people should not have random sex. If you are going to participate in meaningless sex, then why is it a question? You are not only risking your health, but what about your child? What happens when you have health issues? If you are waiting 6 months and going through testing, then a condom can be a consideration. When you are getting with some dude you have been talking to a condom is a necessity. | |
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