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Posted: 5/16/2008 8:43:43 AM | | I prefer with out it .....but make sure he is clean....no disease....but Im safe | |
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Posted: 5/16/2008 9:06:30 AM | I would be seriously careful about having sex with that guy if I was a woman. It sounds like he's been going around having unprotecte sex with various women. You could get pregnant or perhaps even worse get some kind of disease or diseases. It might give you an incredible hour of cumful bliss but it could also be a death sentence. So, it's up to you on rather it's worth the risk or not.
Personally, I used a condom and usually pull out also with anyone I start dating. The only times I don't is after we've been bf/gf for awhile, esp. if she can't have children.
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Posted: 5/16/2008 9:07:45 AM | By the way, without a comdom feels the best for a guy or at least with me and probably other men. It feels so much better without having that barrier there.
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Posted: 5/16/2008 9:16:38 AM | In todays age, pregnancy is the least of our worries, how about an incurable STD?
Are we under the impression that AIDS is something that happens to other people, or perhaps in a differnt demographic?
There is no reason to not wear protection, there are so many different types out there latex, silicone, real sheeps guts ( used for centuries) and plenty of different sizes, even the female condom.
Protecting yourself as well as your partner is a sign of respect for yourself and your partner, if there is no rain coat, then there should be no getting wet. | |
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Posted: 5/16/2008 9:58:52 AM |
there are so many different types out there latex, silicone, real sheeps guts ( used for centuries)
I hate to burst your bubble... but sheep gut condoms, DO NOT protect against STD's... | |
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Posted: 5/16/2008 10:27:15 AM | hate to burst your bubble... but sheep gut condoms, DO NOT protect against STD's...
Good to know thank you | |
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Posted: 5/16/2008 10:50:30 AM | | sweety don't even consider doing it..any guy after that with a relative stranger is either stupid or a complete wxxxer | |
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Posted: 5/16/2008 11:15:23 AM | lol. Unless you're in a committed, monogamous relationship, condoms are the way to go.
Lots of men will try to get it without a condom or "just the tip", because there are girls who will let them in 'the heat of the moment'. Can't blame them for trying, even though it's icky when you're not serious with each other. | |
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Posted: 5/17/2008 9:49:05 AM | I had this conversation last night with a woman.
She's recently out of her second marriage. She has never used condoms before and has no clue as to what to do with them, other than she (and her girlfriends) have bought them just in case.
I pointed out to her about things like storage and expiry dates. She told me she had been hanging onto them for 3 years already! If she had used them, they likely would have failed her.
She also did not know that condoms do not protect you 100% either.
Basically, she's know realised that a lot of the information out there about STI's is incomplete and that she has to do her research and find out the facts.
I'm going to say the same to a lot of you in this forum as well. Find out the facts about condoms and STI's (and not by asking in a forum on a dating site).
Sure condoms do make for safer sex, but they don't protect you against everything and can give you a false sense of security that can make you vulnerable to a lot more diseases than caution and common sense would. | |
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Posted: 5/17/2008 11:13:18 AM | I have been "clipped" so I do not use condoms.
I do NOT need to use them because I am not a WHORE!
I don't **** everything and everyone!
I am careful where I PUT my****and therefore do not have to wrap it.
If you cannot trust someone then you should not get naked with tem in the first place!
There are doctors and tests and time periods. . .
once you know your partner is clean and your partner knows you are clean and no one can get pregnant then there is no need for condoms.
(I HAVE heard of men who cum too soon and use condoms for THAT purpose but -hey-I am not wearing or preaching the wearing of a condom just so THOSE guys can hide. . .not MY problem!) | |
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Posted: 5/17/2008 3:53:01 PM | | Some people for medical reasons (myself included) can't use the pill or can't use other birth control methods like the needle. So condoms are the choice for me. It sucks sometimes sure, but beats the alternative. | |
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Posted: 5/17/2008 4:00:10 PM | | It really frustrates me when I hear people say "I don't use them because I don't sleep around". Unless you truly do get tested together, wait 6 months, then get tested again, it doesn't matter how many people you have sex with, you are still at risk. It doesn't take sleeping around to get an STI. It only takes one encounter with someone who has something and many times, people don't have symptoms so they don't know they are carriers. | |
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Posted: 5/17/2008 4:47:36 PM | What's with this always putting the responsibility on to the man?
Look on wikipedia (and elsewhere) for information about the female condom.
If you have got far enough along with this dating to be considering sex, and he won't use a condom, then use one yourself. In fact although it's not so good for birth control, it's even better than the male version against infection.
Take responsibilty for your own actions... | |
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Posted: 5/17/2008 8:01:39 PM | REAL MEN WEAR CONDOMS!!!! Plain and simple. It takes 2 to get pregnant and if he knows that you're not doing your part, for whatever reason, then he should be more than willing to do his. Not only is there pregnancy to worry about, but STDs as well.
Never fall for the "why? don't you trust me?" line because it's full of cr*p. If he cared about you or himself then he would be more than willing to wear a condom. Not that you have anything, but how in the world would he know whether you do or don't? He should realize that some girl he's trying to "hook-up with" has just as good a chance of giving him an STD as he does giving one to you.
If he stops talking to you please don't feel sad or offended because he was obviously not worth your time. | |
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Posted: 5/17/2008 8:17:47 PM | | go with condom, too many idiots out there don't know how to practice safe sex. | |
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Posted: 5/17/2008 8:34:43 PM | | Re: [get tested together, wait 6 months, then get tested again], if you're talking about HIV, you only need to get tested after the three month window period. But getting tested for HIV doesn't mean you don't have chlamydia (about 50% of men have no symptoms) HPV or herpes. Men, the test for chlamydia is a urine test, so it's an easy one. Remember, HIV isn't the only game in town. | |
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Posted: 5/17/2008 8:47:52 PM | Condom's are for strippers and prostitutes. If you have to be worried about V.D. then you shouldn't be having sex with them - period.
Have some self-respect. And stop being a slut.
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Posted: 5/17/2008 9:43:56 PM |
Take responsibilty for your own actions... female condom
I was wondering when someone was going to bring that up.... very good/valid point.
I don't use birth control, as some of the other posters said. For health reasons now, but i got pregnant on the shot, ectopic on the iud... boy, I am glad that is all over with .....
I had a tubal done so i don't need to worry about that anymore. I still use condoms... at least the first few months in a relationship, then nothing.
Am I the first one admitting to not using it during oral though? I have yet to come across a guy that pulls out dental dam when he goes down me........
I can't say i have tries it but am not sure i would like it all that much..... | |
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Posted: 5/17/2008 9:57:37 PM | The application of reason to the question of condom usage.
We know that sexually transmittable diseases exist which present a risk of infection in the commission of sex acts.
We know that condoms do not provide a certainty of protection against infection even when used properly.
We know that in a majority of sexual liaisons large quantities of alcohol have been consumed, which is known to impair judgment and dexterity; factors which affect proper condom usage.
It is therefore an inescapable conclusion that unless the sex actors are both already free of disease to start with, condom use cannot guarantee the prevention of infection. The rule following is that condoms are reliable only when they are not needed. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2008 5:12:08 AM | | Condoms are very protective against both bacterial and viral infections (chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis; HSV (herpes), HPV...) for the parts that are covered when used correctly from beginning to end. Safer sex is just that: safer than not protecting yourself and your partner. Condoms first, then testing, then sexual fidelity for the duration of the relationship. As for oral sex, you weigh the risk and make your decision. Gonorrhea and chlamydia in the throat tend to be transient and are curable. Herpes from HSV-1 (cold sores on the mouth) recur less frequently and is generally less painful than HSV-2 (genital herpes). The one word of caution is for people who have an untreated infection (like herpes or syphilis on the mouth. You are at increased risk of getting HIV from an infected partner. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2008 8:26:23 AM | Condoms first, then testing? Huh?!
How about: Test first, then you don't need condoms?
I am wearing one right now. Is this a test? | |
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Posted: 5/18/2008 9:55:58 AM | I hate condoms.
I'll often prefer to just go down there than use a condom.
I prefer to be both HIV-tested together or something than use condoms with a fixed partner. | |
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Posted: 5/18/2008 10:22:11 AM |
Condom always! i cant believe your even asking this question.
I was thinking the same thing | |
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