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Posted: 6/3/2008 8:00:22 AM | Well I have to say that's a bold move on his behalf and to me he seems a bit inmature. If it was me telling a lady that I want to have sex with out a condom then I will also have a test to back me up saying that I am clean and don't have no disease. On the other hand it does not help that ur not on any type of birthcontrol so its best to say for u to use a condom. If he refuses then send him packing, it takes 2 to tango and if he don't agree to ur terms them he's not worth it. Me personally I use condoms and there alot of variety out there, some even feel like the real deal.... | |
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Posted: 6/3/2008 8:14:39 AM | | Where birth control is concerned, I like to say I practiced safe sex before AIDS had a name. Went through the "I'm too big, they don't make condoms to fit me" stories from guys in high school. Didn't buy it then, don't buy it now. I keep various condoms on hand just in case the "Oh I forgot" excuse rears it's ugly head. For extra protection, I use the sponge, which recently came back on the U.S. market. I've found it to be very reliable, plus there's no "killing the moment" as u can insert it up to 24 hours prior. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2008 8:26:18 AM | You are putting your health and your life at risk and then maybe that of anyone else you ****, if you **** without a condom someone who has not been up to date tested for stds... you can do without this sort of dude.
condoms are very boring but essential in some situations...
it is entirely possible to do without a condom in so far as it is entirely possible to go without ****ing...
do you respect yourself enough to insist on being respected or managing without taking silly risks??? | |
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Posted: 6/3/2008 6:23:50 PM | | Honey - Condoms or no Condoms is like LIFE or DEATH ! Are you living under a rock? Have you not heard of the AIDS epidemic? | |
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Posted: 6/4/2008 9:45:44 PM | | I don't wanna be a daddy...I keep it wrapped...the only exception would be if the girl was on the pill and I was comfortable enough with her to the point where getting her pregnant wouldn't be a bad thing for me. | |
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Posted: 6/4/2008 10:04:03 PM | A condom doesn't reduce my pleasure - if I wasn't on birth control it would be foolish to not use one
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Posted: 6/5/2008 12:01:01 AM | | I do not like using condoms and would be happy never get to know a man, if I had any doubts. I have been using barrier creams for years and am firmly convinced that a barrier cream is far, far saver than a condom. I don't have casual sex (one night stands) In any case I am very slow at being physically involved. | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 12:14:32 AM |
But why would someone talk to you if they only want to get SOME ACTION and not use any protection?
pure unadulterated ignorance and stupidity is the first thing that comes to mind. | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 12:15:35 AM | My response (which is somewhat harsh):
I always get tested every three months, even if I haven't had any. I just like the fact knowing that there isn't any nasty diseases sitting in my balls.
I prefer using condoms I buy myself, especially seeing that I require "DAAYYUM"-sized condoms. Besides, I just don't trust women with their own condoms. But if we're on a monogamous thing, the condom can come off as soon as the tests results come back negative. | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 2:51:45 AM |
some men dont like condoms on them as it may be too tight for them to handle or maybe there skin dont take to the condoms im not sure, i knew a guy who didnt like them as strangles his manhood no matter how big he brought the condoms, he made sure the women had contraception as he was cautious but yeah thats weird he dont want any maybe he has these problems
Lil princess I also have a big orange bridge that I own that goes from San Francisco to Oakland and I'll sell it to you real cheap. You seem to believe anything out of a guys mouth.
I've heard guy friends laugh about it;
saying they are allergic to condoms (OMG; lol),
that they can't keep an erection (for a healthy man this wont happen),
that its too tight; (LOL; unless their penis is 25 inches long these things will stretch comfortably;)
It doesnt feel as good; (TOUGH; the woman's and your health is more important than you getting the ultimate pleasure).
Any woman dumb enough to believe the crap that guys say deserves the diseases you get. The STD rate in teens in the U.S. is now 25% and among African Americans its 40%. Go to the National Institute of Healths latest study; In older adults in their 20's and 30's its higher because of the increased amount of partners.
My female friends say it always; no condom, no sex. End of story. And dont check your brain at the door because he's hot. | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 2:53:27 AM | | P.S. Virus; including STD's cannot; CAN'T be cured. Medications will only help with the symptoms. If your that immature and naive to have sex without protection, you deserve what you get. | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 10:04:10 AM |
P.S. Virus; including STD's cannot; CAN'T be cured. Medications will only help with the symptoms. If your that immature and naive to have sex without protection, you deserve what you get.
Ok... sorry, i had to respond to this though. I am wondering if you meant to say viral std's such as herpes, hpv and hiv cannot be cured, but symptoms can be managed with medication. Reason i ask is because bacterial, parasitic and fungal std's can be cured with medication .... think chlamydia, gonorrhea, yeast infections etc.....
Sorry, i may have read your post wrong though, but i just wanted to clear that up..... | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 1:29:04 PM | | Ditto what everyone has already said. You will be unwise in this day and age not protecting yourself. Do the smart thing sweetheart. | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 1:45:25 PM | | Agreed, SOME std's CAN be cured. HIV, and HPV are life long diseases. As mentioned, other diseases can be cured. If you're not protecting yourself, you shouldn't be having sex. While you think you may be safe, you are putting others in danger. How is this thread still going on? | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 1:52:21 PM | | ABSOLUTELY CONDOM! And yes how is this thread still alive? No glove no love! Aids is so real! | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 2:05:52 PM | | Use the umbrella, wear the glove! Live long, dont die young or miserable. I agree with ladiluva, aids and a plethora of veneral diseases are soo real. It might "feel" better without the condom, but is your life not worth more than that? Use your head....use a CONDOM. | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 3:41:57 PM | P.S. Virus; including STD's cannot; CAN'T be cured. Medications will only help with the symptoms. If your that immature and naive to have sex without protection, you deserve what you get.
Ok... sorry, i had to respond to this though. I am wondering if you meant to say viral std's such as herpes, hpv and hiv cannot be cured, but symptoms can be managed with medication. Reason i ask is because bacterial, parasitic and fungal std's can be cured with medication .... think chlamydia, gonorrhea, yeast infections etc.....
Sorry, i may have read your post wrong though, but i just wanted to clear that up.....
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Yes bacterial can be cured but many times it can also cause permanent damage to the flora and other areas of your body. If the infection gets to bad, it can also cause a supra infection which happened to a friend of mine and she got into a hospital for a week of antibiotics.
Also, antibiotic therapy can also cause other types of infections to occur such as fungal infections. Over use of antibiotics can also cause them to be less effective in future uses.
The generation of today thinks that everything can be fixed with a pill so I can just do what I want. Its naive and dangerous. | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 4:05:25 PM | | deffinately a condom unless you've known him for a while and are open. Who wants an Std or a kid. | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 8:52:22 PM | | If you are seriously asking this question, you're an idiot... it's common sense... Obviously something you lack. | |
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Posted: 6/11/2008 4:51:39 PM |
Who wants an Std or a kid.
Friends of mine just discovered her 'flu' is being caused by a failed condom. | |
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Posted: 6/11/2008 5:50:24 PM |
Besides, I just don't trust women with their own condoms.
You don't trust a responsible woman who doesn't want to leave her health up to someone else? Weird, that.
OP - as has been stated already - it would be quite fool hardy to engage in sex with someone you don't know without a condom, regardless of whether you use another form of birth control or not. As to why he's asked you this - who knows? To see if you will say yes? | |
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Posted: 6/11/2008 5:58:12 PM | Don't do it girl! Also, before he touches your FABULOUSNESS he can take a trip to the Dr with you and get all checked out...as you will be willing to do the same.
Only switch to something like IUD f you are exclusive........NEVER BEFORE. NEVER. If he doesn't like it, he can BEAT IT. The man you want will do whatever you desire in this department.
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Posted: 6/11/2008 6:00:39 PM | He has asked you, and a million other women, because he knows one will say yes eventually.
He is a stupid person, careless with his health...to me that is a good enough reason to click 'next' and move on.
In this day and age, with all the info out there on why we should always use a condom, I am shocked anyone would even consider this. | |
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Posted: 6/11/2008 10:49:06 PM |
He has asked you, and a million other women, because he knows one will say yes eventually.
He is a stupid person, careless with his health...to me that is a good enough reason to click 'next' and move on.
In this day and age, with all the info out there on why we should always use a condom, I am shocked anyone would even consider this.
Amen brown eyed girl ;I think what amazes me is the lack of knowledge about sex to many teens and 20 somethings. They think a pill can fix everything and they are clueless. (not all of course) Any adult that doesnt' use a condom is dumb. End of story. There is a reason why dating sites are filled with young single moms who slept with a guy that hated condoms and now they are no where to be found. The STD rate is mind blowing. No condom, no sex. | |
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