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Posted: 6/12/2008 12:58:28 AM | Are you thinking about giving into this man? Thats crazy and like so many people before me have said...Why are you even asking/considering this?
CRAZY
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Posted: 6/12/2008 5:54:45 AM | If I felt like being a cold jerk I would have replied with this,
If you are stupid enough to even question the idea of sex without a condom, then you shouldn't risk reproducing offspring in the first place. The world has enough retards.
But since you are so nice,
Don't have sex without protection. He is an idiot.
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Posted: 6/12/2008 7:53:59 AM |
I know a woman, who as a swinger, very, very carefully used condoms... She only got 3 STI's.... in 2 years....
wow, ONLY...at 98.6% efficiency, that would be a really good argument for the MYTH that "condoms don't work," if you factor in the number of sex acts, the number of sex partners who carried STIs/STDs (I=Infection, D=disease, infections can leave your body forever, but some diseases don't...ever), proper, yes PROPER USAGE (how many men and/or women know how to put on a condom so it actually has 98.6% efficiency...and whose responsibility is that, anyway?), and what exactly constitutes"very very carefully"?
i've been a HIV Test Counselor in the past. telling anyone they have HIV, Hep C, Gonorrhea, to name a few, isn't the same as telling anyone to use barrier protection. doesn't quite grab the same attention as telling you, instead, YOU are going to die before your time.
don't want to use a condom and want to have a sex life: get tested. show your test results to your prospective partner. see his/hers. may kill the "spontaneity", takes about as long as getting a Passport, but otherwise, don't cry when find you out what a huge mistake you made- not out of selfishness but pure laziness. | |
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Posted: 6/12/2008 10:14:12 AM | True story here Sunny. Came from another post on this board.
She had broken up with her BF in New York and went on a holiday to the Carribean to drown her sorrows.
While there she met a black stud who, after only one or two days had already proposed. She was quite stunned but he was honest with her. He wanted to leave the Carribean for better paying work in the US. A marriage of any sort was his passport. Sham marriage or full on, he was happy with either.
She thought about thsi and then informed him that she would accept only if it was a full on marriage, mahogonaus and faithfull. He quite happily agreed.
They spent the rest of her holiday together. Romantic dinners and making love in her motel room. He refused to show her his place informing her that it was just a tin shanty on the edge of a garbage dump and that he shared it, reluctantly, with a couple of known criminals.
On the day that she flew out he informed her that he still had to stay for a week to finalise his affairs and pack what little he had, but promised to join her in New York. She bought him a ticket and they kissed at the airport. He gave her a scented envelope telling her it was a love letter but she musn't open it till she touched down in New York or it would spoil the romance in the mesage.
As she touched down in New York she opend the envelope and read the lettter.
"Welcome to the world of AIDS beech! | |
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Posted: 6/12/2008 12:39:53 PM | ^^Scary story crayonzz. I am unable to become pregnant at this time in my life, but I will always insist upon a condom. The exception being if we get tested together. With the world being full of highly promiscuous people who only seek immediate gratification, one would have to be a downright moron not to.
Two weeks ago, and within 24 hours I had 2 friends tell me frightening stories. One has a friend who had been out of the work force and married for 20 years. Apparently, the husband's penis got around (obviously footloose and condom free) and he gave her an std. As an added bonus, he ran up $200, 000 in debt. She is close to retirement age and no retirement.  Then, my other friend has a very religious friend whose husband left her for another woman at church. My friend advised her to get tested, and guess what? Bingo baby! Neither one of these contemptible excuses for human beings considered the health of their wives when they cheated.
I rest my case.
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Posted: 6/12/2008 3:32:35 PM | To underline this - my dear, friend had a husband who ran around on her and never used a condom -he brought her home HIV - RIP Mary - This isn't made up -
sure condoms aren't 100% protection - and seatbelts and air bags aren't 100% either - but I wond't drive a car without seat belts/airbags/anti-lock brakes/etc - and I won't have sex with a non-bonded/tested woman. | |
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Posted: 6/12/2008 6:22:21 PM | | No condom always feels better... but unless I'm in a monogamous committed relationship -- I always practice safe sex. Better safe than sorry. | |
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Posted: 6/12/2008 10:54:18 PM | Condoms are alot more important then just as birth control. There is this EPIDEMIC called AIDS/HIV, plus the alarming rate of the other STD's out there that are constantly going up!!! Use a rubber and if he cannot respect you on that then he doesn't respect you at all! | |
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