| What would you do?
Posted: 5/16/2008 7:38:41 PM | | "I just need to know. ... should I ask? " Ask then move one, thats what I would do... | |
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| What would you do?
Posted: 5/16/2008 8:22:18 PM | If you suspect it, than its probably the truth. What good is it going to do? Get revenge by living well! | |
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| What would you do?
Posted: 5/17/2008 5:53:05 AM | No, just move on. She is an ex and if you suspect she is dating someone else she probably is. What good is confirmation going to do? Its not going to change anything.
Go on enjoy life there are "Plenty of Fish" in the proverbial sea. | |
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| What would you do?
Posted: 5/17/2008 8:57:20 AM |
I guess I don't want her thinking that she got away with it. I would want her to know that I know... even if I didn't find out until we had broken up.
What would you gain with that? Do you think she cares about? If she cheated on you and broke up with you is clear to me she didn't care and much less loved you...
Better focus in move on; start to think in yourself... | |
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| What would you do?
Posted: 5/17/2008 9:37:17 AM | NO!!!!!!!!! Move on...far, far, far away..., get away from her...run away...delete her email...say "Ba-BYE!!!"
I really can relate, unfortunately..., I found out that my ex had cheated on me while I had been with him, after I broke up with him and we had been togethr for a long long time...it definitely made it hurt a little worse. It also definitely made me hesitant to trust for a little while too. But not all people are like that and if you ended it, then you had your reasons...people cheat for different reasons...people are together for different reasons...I'm not condoning it in any way, but even if she gave you a reason there may have been oher reasons and you 'll still have nothing that you want, except maybe more heartache...move on. | |
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| What would you do?
Posted: 5/17/2008 9:53:32 AM | You already have your answer...dude, girls like her are a dime a dozen...find yourself a good one...just next time be more careful. You never know what the future holds, but staying obsessed with knowing something that is already the obvious isn't going to get you anywhere. Its not that she "got away with it" or didn't get away with it. This kind of thing definitely stings but you know what...coming from a girl....act like you don't care...and if she calls avoid all calls (even though it might kill you), but when you don't answer and YOU make the final cut will definitely make her second guess herself. If she doesn't call then maybe she found what makes her truly happy. You should do the same. You can't depend on someone else to make you happy and you shouldn't have to change yourself to get what you want. Who you end up with should love you for who YOU are and nothing more nothing less. If its not good enough for that person...then simply its not meant to be, and thats ok...Its life...it may suck for now, but if you just keep in mind that you can find a girl like that ANYWHERE and look for a genuine girl that has everything that YOU want then you'll be much happier in the end...trust me...you wouldn't want her anyway...no matter what the trust with a relationship like that would never be the same...
Good Luck, hold your head up...its not the end of the world...the good stuff has just begun!!! | |
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| What would you do?
Posted: 5/21/2008 5:47:19 PM | | Nope, Trust your gut, You already know the answer. Even if you don't want to believe it.... No point in getting confirmation, if she was untruthful in the relationship, what makes you think she'll be honest about her reply ? You may never get the answer you want to hear.. Just wash your hands of it.. | |
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| What would you do?
Posted: 5/21/2008 5:52:33 PM | Let it go and pretend it doesn't bother you. Why? Because once he dumps her, she'll come back, because she will think you don't know (don't let her know you know like one poster said), when she comes back... slam the door or the phone on her! That will give you the final say in the matter.
There is someone really nice and wonderful out there who would love only you, give yourself that chance, will you?
Peace be with you,
Chela | |
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