| What would you do?
Posted: 5/15/2008 2:57:19 AM | Bob, it's old - let it go. The truth will not set you free in this case. Confirmation will not change the outcome or your feelings about it. Time to stop looking in the rear view mirror and focus on the road.
best wishes ~ | |
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| What would you do?
Posted: 5/15/2008 3:44:07 AM | it's not gonna change the fact that you aren't together anymore and usuall our gut feelings about these sort of things are spot on , let that be enough.
Tough as it is , we always want answers and closure but in this case, that particular answer isn't going to help with the closure bit - If anything it will open the wounds up even more *you'll spend time wondering how long , what they were doing, what he's like , why she did it etc*
don't look back , keep pressing forward.... | |
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| What would you do?
Posted: 5/15/2008 4:28:29 AM | | Why bother? She is with the guy who u suspected...She gone. Move on! 2 much drama | |
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| What would you do?
Posted: 5/15/2008 4:50:24 AM | | I would let her and it go; you deserve better; I know your ticked and you want to get back at her but the best way to do that is to be succesful and have a great person by your side. Now you know better what to look for in a person. | |
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| What would you do?
Posted: 5/15/2008 6:16:04 AM | Remember that old saying: "Birds of a feather, flock together".
I couldn't help w/the bird jokes...Your profile is "funny".
On a serious note: Let go, let god. | |
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| What would you do?
Posted: 5/15/2008 6:22:46 AM | Thing of it is.. if it was me I couldn't trust them to tell me the truth.. if they said "no" were they sparing my feelings.. if they said "yes" then I would want to know why them and not me..
At least from a woman's perspective that is how I would feel.. a man might be different.
But a clean break I think would be the best..
Bottom line I wouldn't give her the satisfaction of knowing that I gave a "rip" about her sorry ass. | |
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| What would you do?
Posted: 5/15/2008 6:33:20 AM | OP What you are really asking for is CLOSURE and until you find it you will find it difficult to move on. Put your mind to rest and send that email. | |
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| What would you do?
Posted: 5/15/2008 7:19:10 AM | OP - Emotional loss is something I've also had to face in my recent life. Someone suggested that a book on healing the grief after emotional loss could be helpful. It has been. Grief is not (I've learned) only experienced after death and divorce but also after other emotional losses, disappointments, life changes, and more .. I did find a book that makes sense for me. Perhaps exploring grief recovery might also be helpful for you as you navigate this transitional time in your life. Getting back to being happy isn't always as easy as 'move on' - 'let go' - 'be free' - 'forget about her' - 'walk away' - 'cut your losses' - 'let things go' .. and other advice that sounds like the right thing to do but the specifics on 'how' to do them isn't clear.
Take care of yourself. | |
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| What would you do?
Posted: 5/15/2008 10:02:42 AM | Her actions are more than enough confirmation. Why chase her down acting desperate. You cant make someone want to be with you nor can you change the outcome. There are millions of single women out there go find one that truly appreciates you for who you are.
Good luck in your search | |
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