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| Which is the worst form of cheating?
Posted: 5/17/2008 8:01:06 PM | | This is just philosophical bs. Cheating is cheating. Period. If your SO cheats, get the hell out of there now. Do not pass Go, do not collect $200. Just get out and chalk it up to experience. It hurts, and you will be tempted to analyze the shi1 out of it and even pester the person who cheated on you. No! Don't do it. Just get gone. | |
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| Which is the worst form of cheating?
Posted: 5/17/2008 8:08:40 PM | | I personally think that to sexually cheat, you must be emotionally cheating. I have been in a marriage where this was going on and the emotional cheating was so much worse in my opinion. I feel that I could have forgiven the sexual part, but it was the emotional abuse, emotional betrayal and the mind games that ripped me apart. Some things are more visable and easily recognized, it is the slow suttle things that do the most harm and can effect you for the rest of your life. That is my opinion. | |
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| Which is the worst form of cheating?
Posted: 5/18/2008 10:31:20 AM |
personally think that to sexually cheat, you must be emotionally cheating. I have been in a marriage where this was going on and the emotional cheating was so much worse in my opinion. I feel that I could have forgiven the sexual part, but it was the emotional abuse, emotional betrayal and the mind games that ripped me apart. Some things are more visable and easily recognized, it is the slow suttle things that do the most harm and can effect you for the rest of your life. That is my opinion.
Sorry, but I do disagree. When my first husband cheated, it was solely sexual. He did not have any emotional ties to them. It had to do with his upbringing, and to him it was just sex. Not to me though. The second one was emotional, as well as sexual, even though he denies that, "sure", and that was the hardest thing for me to deal with. Some of the so called special things he had done for me, he was doing for her. But I do know that there was certain things he did for me, that he will never do for her, but that didn't really make me feel any better, except knowing that he did truly love me for many years, but then along came mid-life crisis. Cheating is cheating, and usually ends up with the same results. | |
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| Which is the worst form of cheating?
Posted: 5/18/2008 11:02:42 AM | I agree with lady kay
cheating is cheating is cheating. the only difference is physical you can see the emotional you don't how long it has been going on. | |
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| Which is the worst form of cheating?
Posted: 5/18/2008 11:32:44 AM |
I know both of them are bad but i think that emtional cheating is worst because that means you are making a connection that you should only have with the person you are in a relationship with.
I agree. A relationship should be based on trust, honesty, and loyalty. Emotional cheating breaks all 3 elements just as much as physical cheating. | |
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| Which is the worst form of cheating?
Posted: 5/20/2008 2:17:26 PM | | Both are equally bad. I been cheated on phyically, not so sure about the emotional part.. even got her pregant, which just stuck the knife in the heart more. | |
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