| lack of communication can kill a relationship?
Posted: 5/18/2008 3:35:19 PM | | if you really want out and want to honour yourself...JUST GET RID OF HIM. He could care less about you...thats quite obvious in how he treats you. So tell me, what are you getting out of being treated like crap?? There must be some payoff...or are you one of those ladies that thinks you can change him?? | |
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| lack of communication can kill a relationship?
Posted: 5/19/2008 12:32:28 PM | Glad to hear he is out, and staying out. When he picks up his stuff, you might want to have a friend with you at the time. He will probably try to find your soft spot and get back into your home.
I am glad you remembered what you always knew, you deserve better than that.
You are right there is no way to know, until you know. It takes time to really see the true person, when you are meeting someone new. It would be nice if everyone is honest on first meet , and shows you all that makes up that person. But we are all guilty of that to a certain extent. We do not share all of ourselves with a new person, but when the parts that are not revealed are hurtful parts, you have to remove yourself from that.
And now that you know you are acting on the knowledge, that is good.
Good luck to you, in the future.
Getting out of this abusive relationship,
will open your life up to much better possibilities. | |
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| lack of communication can kill a relationship?
Posted: 5/19/2008 12:34:48 PM | | There's a lot more info that is not being conveyed, consequently this sounds more like a rant and an honest interest in any opinions. So simply, just leave him and get it over with. | |
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| lack of communication can kill a relationship?
Posted: 5/19/2008 5:56:43 PM | I haven't read all the posts here, but i did click on your profile OP. C'mon now...age 48 and still no backbone, esteem, or respect for yourself??
Time to boot him the he11 out and find a good counselor for yourself to see why you choose men like this and why you think its acceptable behavior.
You deserve better, however, if you are playing into it then well...we reap what we sow.
good luck and get him out!
as always, just my opinion... | |
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| lack of communication can kill a relationship?
Posted: 6/21/2008 7:48:18 PM | u obviously have a really bad relationship.i dont see anything really positive in it that u get from it.just break up with him u will be much more happier cause some guys will treat u way better than he does.lack of communication is not good.problems cant get solved when people dont want to talk to each others.your willing hes not so.
if he doesnt want to let u leave him then just go see the cops its that simple.this is a free country and u are free to be with who u want.and he treats u like shit from what u said here so he doesnt deserve for u to stay with him. | |
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