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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/18/2008 12:05:36 PM |
Someone tell me what that means, how do you *thread* an eyebrow...?
simon, welcome to metrosexual 101:
threading is a hair removal practice originating in india and the middle-east and now becoming more popular in the west. it involves twisting a piece of cotton thread into a double strand, which is then used to pick up a line of hair and then remove it. it's faster than plucking, but with the same result. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/18/2008 3:29:14 PM | why do we have to label people? Does it make us feel more comfortable because we can put people in a certain box put them on the shelf and there now we feel safe, and if someone doesn't fit into the box then, "oh no" we are uncomfortable?
Sexuality is fluid, we are attracted to something about a certain person, sometimes that person is always of the same sex, sometimes the person is of another sex. Doesn't make it wrong or right it just is. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/18/2008 4:35:12 PM | | I don't see there being a problem with people having a fluid sexuality. That's what the Kinsey Scale was made for. Six degrees of sexuality, with 1 being completely straight and 6 being completely homosexual, and 3 being perfectly balanced between the two. I'm about a 2.5 on there myself; slightly more inclined towards men, but dayumn if Trinity from the Matrix were offering there'd be no way I could refuse. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/18/2008 9:27:48 PM | I really dont care what sexuality a person is, it just seems that the guys I am dating right now are all bi-sexual. For me personaly I dont want to be with someone who is bi, maybe its a security thing, I would always be thinking do they want something else, is there something a man could do for them I cant. Its fine with me if you are bi but its just like other things I like or dont like, its like my 10 year age rule.
As for the threading that is evil, I had that done once and it was the worst pain, it felt like they were cutting my face with razor blades, I had to stop with1 eyebrow half done. The people who do that are evil. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/18/2008 10:00:33 PM | | i dunno bout all the eyebrow business...a beard trimmer works fine to keep em in check......as for the bisexual thing....i think there is a tremendous amount of attention seeking behavior in the "bisexual" community..... i doubt there are as many truly omnisexual people as you see at the singles clubs....alot of young women these days seem to use it as a way to get male attention.....to each their own....lol whatever | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/18/2008 10:35:28 PM | The things I learn about myself in POF forums.
Why didn't someone tell me I was bi-sexual before.
I could have doubled the number of available dates.
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/19/2008 12:27:29 AM | | i'm bi purely for sexual reasons.. sex is amazing with a girl just as much as a guy.. hmm that doesn't sound quite right.. its all about the sex.. although i am starting to think that a relationship wtih a girl could be better than the one i just cam e out if | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/19/2008 12:27:48 AM | | I guess kinda lost on this one... I've seen plenty of Gay men but Bi ??? I've seen my share of Bi women but not men.. I had a female friend who's boyfriend who I thought was kinda "Sweet" and another friend who's husband I would have been willing to bet my car (which I love so dearly) that he was gay... But hey whatever makes you happy ! If it makes ya happy and nobody is get'n hurt.. I'm have nuff'n against it.. If two ladies wanna pin me down and rock my world. .. Do me like Lebron James and DOUBLE TEAM ME !! | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/19/2008 1:11:23 AM | I'm turned off by bisexuality in women, don't really know why. Having sex with 2 women is a fantasy of mine, for sure, but I guess it's just the thought of them having more fun with each other than me that bothers me a bit. Insecurity, thy name is Noobity. Now, this isn't a deal breaker by any stretch of the imagination. I'm usually willing to give a bisexual woman a chance in a relationship (there's been a couple, not many), it's not a be all end all by any stretch of the imagination. I'm sure everyone's had relationships where they were turned off a bit by something their partner did either sexually or nonsexually. There's give and take everywhere.
Now, as far as bisexuality being "80%" of the population, I've gotta ask what you're talking about precisely. Are bisexuals people who've ever fantasized about members of both sexes? People who can tell the difference between attractive members of both sexes? I mean, depending on how you look at sure, 80% of the population is bisexual. If by bisexual you're counting men who've had dreams (nightmares) about sex with another man and woken up with a boner. Or women who've found themselves lightheaded and horny dancing with other women at the club. But this isn't bisexuality. The human body reacts the way it reacts without rational thought, and sexual labeling relies upon rational thought to be anything of value. I'll be the first to admit that I've had sex dreams about attractive men, I've been turned on by the sexuality of gay sex scenes on television and in movies. I don't, however, have any desire to kiss another man, to stick my penis in his mouth or booty, or to have my mouth or booty penetrated by a man. Bisexuality relies on a desire, not willingness, to be sexually intimate with members of both sexes.
Now everyone's going to have different views on definitions of bisexuality, but this is the predominant reason you have people confused as to what many of these percentages mean. I'm all down for you loving who you want to love, and as many people as you'd like to love at once, so keep on keepin' on as far as I'm concerned.
I'd also like to point out that since I've started checking out dating sites, I've found an interestingly high amount of bisexual females. This is just an observation, but a very high minority of people who've matched me or I've been interested in have been bisexual. It's interesting to say the least. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/19/2008 6:08:40 AM | Lemme, you should hide your soapbox from yourself...
First, let me begin by quoting Mark Twain: "There are lies, there are d@mn lies, then there are statistics." Of which yours are totally misapplied in your scenario... I've never seen nor heard of such characteristics being interchangable with another in the way you attempted to do... IQ & sexuality are not comparable traits, as you can have one without the other as we so often see in life & here in the forums.
As for experimenting with homosexuality or bisexuality in high school, just because YOU did OP, doesn't mean the rest of us did so. Perhaps my upbringing (society) did force my preferences toward heterosexuality but I'm happy this way & have no confusion as to who I want or who I am - I can only imagine that a state of confusion is not a good place to live & those who do have my empathy.
Regarding the beauty or attractiveness in others (same sex in this instance), of course I can see it, I'm heterosexual, not blind...lol... but that doesn't mean I have the inclination nor desire to act on that attraction. I'm a "live & let live" type person & OP, what your asking d@mn near smacks of labeling & that's never a good thing. If you are in doubt about the sexual preference of those you find attractive, why not ask them if its reciprocated & be done with it?
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/19/2008 8:09:05 AM |
Can we all please just be gay or straight?
it would make things simple and require less thought if the human race was as clear cut in everything not just sexuallity, however 10,000 years of human evolution has proven time & time again nothing is ever that simple. welcome to the wonderful world of life .. anit it just duckie | |
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Posted: 5/19/2008 12:19:12 PM | | Well, I am bisexual and thoroughly enjoy both men and women!! There is a difference from what I did in high school as to what I do now, lol. That was just experimenting. Now I enjoy the touch of a sexy woman....and love her to touch me! But in the end...I still want the man!!! Mmmmm!! | |
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Posted: 5/30/2008 4:55:36 PM | hi honey....
your post is rubbish and needs to be scrapped. everybodys bisexual. the messages about eyebrows waxing etc. whats that all about???
honey ....
eyebrows waxing ????
im gay, whoopee doo. eyebrows waxing????? bisexual??? [can someone ... oh i cant be bothered any more] MOVING ON >>>> | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/30/2008 7:28:10 PM | OP, I think bi-sexuality is a more of a womans problem. Yes I said problem. But seeing how beautiful some women are, who can blame you. javascript:smilie(' ') | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/30/2008 7:54:52 PM |
Statistically there is a bell-curve distribution that occurs over any population for genetic features (such as intelligence for instance). So for IQ, on the left side of the bell, 10% of the entire population is "developmentally disabled" with an IQ under 65, 80% in the middle have "average" IQs of about 66 to 134, and the right side, the other 10% have "genius" IQs of about 135 and up. 100 is considered the "norm"
Guess how sexuality fits the curve..... 10% homosexual, 80% BISEXUAL, 10% heterosexual. Bisexualtiy is considered the "norm" according to this science.
I suspect your post proves the adage "90% of statistics are made up on the spot. You cite absolutely no source for your statistics and you have completely and totally botched the statistics on IQ. On a Stanford-Binet IQ test 100 is the average and 15 is the standard deviation. 85% of IQs are between 85 and 115. Two standard deviations takes you out to 70 and 130. Two standard deviations account for about 98% of the population, with 1% of the population falling into the "intellectually disabled" category. Developmentally disabled usually refers to autism spectrum disorders-a whole different kettle of fish.
While there is a wide range of human traits that do fall along a bell curve, not all do. The research I have read on human sexuality does not support your argument. That is not to even start on the flaws of the Kinsey report (often used to back these kinds of statistics) or the complexities of sexual dimorphism and its implications for differing rates of homosexuality and bi-sexuality among males and females. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/30/2008 8:08:01 PM | The whole dating scene can be confusing.....
she's with him
She's with her
He's with her
He's with him
Nik, LOVE the cat ears! My daughter wears a blue pair. | |
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