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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/30/2008 11:15:09 PM |
have really... really, yet to see a "bisexual" girl past college age.
This leads me to believe one of two things... either, the bisexuals just started one day at the same time... and are slowly aging with me, OR bisexuality is just a "testing ground" to experiment, and you'll go one way or the other when you finally mature.
I find "bisexuality" a turn off, not because they tend to be promiscuous however, because they really come off as indecisive, immature and selfish.
Personally, I look for people who have their aspirations, who know what they want in life. If someone says to me they are bisexual, that really comes across as "I still don't know what I want out of life, so I'm just going to try everything as it comes". That really doesn't leave me feeling very secure in going into that relationship, seeing as the person hasn't figured out who THEY are as a person yet.
Sit here and defend your monogamist/non-monogamist relationships... I still don't see the potential for a long-term relationship with someone who is still discovering who they are.
I think that you haven't got much experience of the world, if you haven't met any real bisexuals. So. allow me introduce myself: age 34, great career, mature, honest, know exactly who I am and what I want, and BISEXUAL!
It's been a long time since I got out of college, where by the way, I only dated men. Since then, I've had relationships with both men and women.
In short: we exist, and you really just don't know what you are talking about, period. I wish people like you would just shut the hell up. It's annoying to say the least, to be told that you don't exist; to be judged before anyone gets to know you, and to generally be reviled for nothing more than your sexuality. That is called being a BIGOT. And that is NOT a good thing to be, so I suggest you work on that. Good luck with that! | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/31/2008 12:49:30 PM | Everyone is not. There is no such thing as Everyone doing something. I, think I am, but the urges come from somewhere, usually at an early age. Who knows? I had the strong urge to kiss my 14 year old girlfriend and it came out of nowhere. Then I was married a while, basically with no sex!! By now, I have had so many bad experiences with men that I hesitate to try another for fear of getting hurt. I know you can get hurt by women too, but I find it much more pleasurable and I am open minded.
OP..maybe you should be a little more open minded. As long as you are secure in your sexuality then why do you care if everyone else "seems" to be bi? It is not hurting you is it?
Good luck all, and please wish me luck too. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/31/2008 12:57:59 PM | | I would guess one of the reasons some people haven't seen a bisexual woman beyond college age is that, somewhere along the line, most of us grow out of showing off. It's not that the bisexual part went away. It's just that you no longer feel the need to make it part of every social scene. Let's face it, for many men and women in college, showing off is part of life regardless of if you are straight, gay or bi. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/31/2008 1:16:29 PM | | Because perhaps after dating men for so long and not finding what we're looking for; you might be closer to hitting pay dirt if you change teams. What do you think? That or its just curiosity and experimenting. Try anything once right? Don't knock it til you've tried it. TEEHEE. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/31/2008 2:38:36 PM |
and will you straight guys PLEASE stop getting your eyesbrows waxed
You wouldn't like me with unwaxed eyebrows (or should I say, eyebrow). Trust me, I'm doing you a favor.
Guess how sexuality fits the curve..... 10% homosexual, 80% BISEXUAL, 10% heterosexual. Bisexualtiy is considered the "norm" according to this science.
No offense, but what kind of crazy, liberal Michael Moore-esque theory is this? This is ridiculous. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/31/2008 2:50:37 PM | i see nothing wrong with people being bi-sexual..they are kinda lucky as it doubles the chance of then getting a date on a friday night. 
I dated a girl that was bi once, i didn't see or feel any differeces because of that. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/31/2008 4:07:04 PM | UUUUUUUUUh, I´m not gay or straight.........I´m BI
That means I´ve experianced and can appreciate the best of both worlds................ and nooooo that does not give me a cheating pass......... | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/31/2008 4:40:02 PM | | Okay so.. I don't agree with you much at all. me, being bi-sexual myself, cannot condone what you're saying. I'm not attracted to women and men, I'm attracted to some people and not attracted to others. Just like a straight woman isn't attracted to every man they see, I'm not attracted to every person I see. When i'm in a relationship, I'm commited to that person regardless. It's not about gender, It's about the feelings I have for the person I'm with and the connection we have. I can't choose who I'm attracted to.. but I can choose to ignore it but then I'm not being myself. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/31/2008 4:57:53 PM | ok,i've got to throw my two cents worth into this.first off i'm a bi-sexual transvestite and i have play/dated with both sexes.i find myself leaning towards being with guys more and more as times progresses,even though as a "normal"-what who is normal???-guy i have been married and even have some offspring.i've been a crossdresser/transvestite since my early teens and am far from new to this.but it seems when being in normal guy mode i only look and think about women,when in t-girl mode my thoughts can be with either sex,that depending on where i am or who is around me.my profile here is not designed to fool any unsuspecting people and when i'm in t-girl mode i am not trying to deceive anyone,although i have been hit on by both men and women that thought i am the "real thing" and these people are straight.makes one wonder.mind you at this point in time in my life i seem to only have sex in t-girl mode.and saying that,when i'm out on a date with a guy,i feel as straight as anyone out there and feel we are a male/female couple.
all i'll say is life is short so live life to the fullest you can and live it on yours and your partners terms.
Krystall | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/31/2008 6:17:16 PM | I'm sure the hell not. And who are you hanging out with; eyebrows waxed? not one guy friend I know has ever done it.
Stop the mantra about trying to post things to shock people. Very boring. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 5/31/2008 11:08:06 PM | ^^^^^^^^
Stop the mantra about trying to post things to shock people. Very boring.
Mr. mthomasina,
I read your history of posts..obviously you are an expert on every subject and enjoy attacking lots of peoples' posts. If you are such an expert in love and dating, and of course every other subject on the planet, why are you still single and have so much time to post these many, many things?
I had to say something, because I am the receiver of one your attacks. Not helpful or appreciated. Also believe that you might have been called on this before. YOU give it a rest, how about it, it is very BORING...
Sorry OP, but I just had to say something!  | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 6/1/2008 4:27:43 AM | | Actually we didn't "all" mess around in high school with people of the same sex. I am very much hetero and always have been. And if "most" of us are bisexual, as stated by someone else, I guess I'm one of the few in the minority. I even had a friend once who told me I was the most "hopelessly heterosexual person she ever knew." LOL! I like men, and I see nothing sexually appealing about other women. | |
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Posted: 6/1/2008 5:43:45 PM |
I have really... really, yet to see a "bisexual" girl past college age.
Long past college... but my bisexuality is more just sex than say, relationships. I prefer men, but have met some women who I am attracted to. I decided not to over-analyse it.. it is what it is. I also have never cheated.
I have no problem with bi men... as long as they have had enough respect for themselves to practice safe sex. Actually I admire them... in an homophobic society it shows a lot of cajones to admit being bisexual, as a man.
Peace | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 6/1/2008 7:31:28 PM | I like women myself, but I love reading facts and reasearch results. Here are the results of one study on this subject.
A research team at the University of Chicago headed a project that conducted interviews in 1992 of a random probability sample of 3,432 men and women in the U.S. between the ages of 18-59 (National Health and Social Life Survey). Homosexuality was viewed as a complex of same-gender behavior, desire, and identity. 9% of men and 4% of women reported having engaged in at least one same-gender sexual activity since puberty. Given the identity category choices of heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, or something else, 2.8% of men and 1.4% of women surveyed reported "some level of homosexual identity."
So much for people who see all these women making out on reality TV and in movies and dance clubs and assume that it's mostly women who have Bi tendencies . There are many more studies taking many factors into consideration, all with varying results. Men always come out higher in terms of same sex contact. The numbers for women seem to be more consistat from study to study. Usually ranging for 2% to 3.5%. While men run anywhere from 5% to 10% in some studies. If you look at the numbers that include some form of sexual attraction and not just actual physical contact, then men start to push 20% and women get closer to 17%. Those are my observations
People need to learn to read more before they make some of the blanket statements you hear online. The internet is a giant library, loaded with real information based on scientific research methods. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 6/2/2008 11:28:15 AM |
The internet is a giant library, loaded with real information based on scientific research methods.
and Porn! And according to Porn, all women are bisexual and will have sex with anyone at the drop of a hat. Any hat. And it's on the internet so it must be true. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 6/3/2008 3:45:51 AM | that sam i am,
Umm, well.. no, not exactly. You see there are these things called bibliographies and links which link you to universities and medical sites which include copies of actual published research papers that you can read. When you find a fact on the internet, you have to locate the source document and read it. I don't go around randomly quoting something I read on someone's blog or on wikipedia, that I spent only ten seconds looking up. I get interested in a fact and then I try to find a valid document that backs it up. Otherwise I would have no idea what I'm talking about and I would end up spewing out a bunch of bad information. So, no, I'm not saying everything on the internet is true. I'm saying people should research facts before they go on a blog or a forum and act like they have some golden nugget of wisdom to share. I think your porn research is probably about as acurate as the so called facts that most people quote on internet blogs and forums. I'm sure you had more fun doing your porn research than some guy who looks things up on Yahoo answers and pretends to know something, so here's to your hard earned research.  | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 6/3/2008 8:37:02 AM | THER's a fine line between someone who's bi-sexual and someone who's desperate.
A lot of people just want sex, they become addicted to it. All they think about is sex, sex and more sex and they don't care when, how,where or from who they get it.
And of course it is a fad among young college girls who get drunk and want to impress the boys.
I know a girl that says she's not bisexual and would never have sex with a girl, yet she makes out with her best friend almost everytime they go out....to put on a show, to have that image. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 6/4/2008 7:44:19 PM | | i love women/femininity and even when i was a teen in the 80's(when it wasnt trendy at ALL) tried to encourage my g/f's to try the bi thing.i just always preferred that,for a lot of reasons ...morethan just the possible 3some.and always being fair ,i returned the favor to a cpl g/f's who had that fetish the opposite way.im not attracted to guys,and didnt do anything near unsafe,but it was kinda fun and i earned alot of points with those girls heh.i think if your really sexual youre willing to at least try many things out.i dunno if id do that again,but i never say never. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 6/4/2008 9:35:01 PM | | i guess there is someone out there for everyone's taste, i for one will only look for the straight ones, but remember, different strokes for different folks | |
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