| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 6/5/2008 9:08:30 AM | yea id have to say its mostly a trend... i for one dont like followers. i do consider bisexual ppl confused, with loose morals, i dont consider the addressing of sexual orientation a label, its a life, the whole thing sounds unstable, how can someone not care what gender they have sex with, sounds irresponsible, and reckless, when u know what u want, its not gonna be two different things. i for one wouldnt date one, sorry to offend, but i get enough trouble fighting off men who try get with my chick.... and if u are the type who can be faithful to there mate and ur bi, good for u, but call me insecure or whatever u want but if a women isnt completely content in my gender as a man, and my abilities to please her she can move on
and then u have the chicks who are bi but wouldnt date a bi guy(im not bi btw), sounds like selfishness and hipocracy | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 6/5/2008 4:41:06 PM | Didn't read the whole thread.
I like to think of my self a flexual. I like women, a lot. I like women a lot more than I like men. In the right situation I got no problems with a guy involved and even intimate. It just isn't my preference.
Of course there are a few fantasies that I want to have some day that require gals and guys.
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 6/7/2008 11:16:29 AM | | I understand that you dont want men waxing their brows, but did you seriously just flat out ask half the world to CHANGE their sexuality to suit you? I know it was not a serious request but its funny. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 6/7/2008 12:49:27 PM | | I have to admit, I was a little surprised when I did the research and reading for my previous post. I didn't think that more men than women had engaged in same sex activity since adolecence. I guess that's because men are keeping it much more in the closet. We see all these women makiing out on TV and kissing and grinding on each other in clubs. So we assume that more women have same sex encounters. It just goes to show you that a lot of these women are just doing that to tease men and draw attention to themselves, where as guys, who barely look at each other in public, are apparently going through with it and they are taking care of their business in private. I don't have any personal experience. I'm just going by the statistics. Men, with their hairy bodies and hanging, veiny, flesh tubes and their wrinkly, hairy, chicken skin, ball sacks are not very attractive to me. I honestly don't see how women can even find our bodies attractive at all. I guess that makes me straight. Ha ha! Thank God for the women who like our bodies. God bless you ladies. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 6/7/2008 2:58:38 PM | | that reminds of me of local singles ads of countless men anonymously asking to hook up with other men while on the same page only one or two would be women looking for other women but in public.. quite the opposite, isn't it? | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 6/7/2008 5:27:38 PM | | I think people who say they are bi-sexual are just greedy, LOL they enjoy any attention they can get. I have a friend who considers herself buy-sexual, if you by her something she gets sexual...I don't know which one is worse!? And as far as the waxing of eyebrows...it's good if you have a UNIbrow, men shouldn't be perfectly shaped...Did does make it harder for a lady to figure out what team you play for. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 6/7/2008 5:53:02 PM | Can we all please just be gay or straight?
It's hard to answer such a stupid question. And you know what, I can't be bothered trying. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 7/12/2008 11:35:46 PM | | No, we cannot all be straight or gay. Sorry. We are who we are and if you have a problem with it, I don't know what to tell you. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 7/12/2008 11:46:22 PM | <----is not bisexual
no it doesn't give a "pass" to cheat, nor do i think it makes someone more likely to cheat.
no we cant all be just gay or straight, some people are bi either deal with it and be with them or date straight people.
why does guys getting their eyebrows waxed "confuse" you? how does it effect you at all? i know im going to start asking girls to stop waxing their cooter, it "confuses" me. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 7/13/2008 2:25:37 PM | Are you seriously asking that?
I understand that it's kind of turned into this big fad to identify as bisexual when in actuality, you are not. I think we can thank Katy Perry for that..
But saying "Can we all please just be gay or straight" is totally ignorant and close minded.
Not all bisexuals are promiscious sluts. Bisexuals are just as capable as anyone else to be in a monogomaus relationship.
I think this thread was meant to give a laugh or something, but really it's kind of offending.
The world is a much more beautiful place when your head isn't stuck in a box, babe. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 9/7/2008 5:19:40 PM | I have to admit that I have had three long term relationships, all with bi women. Only one woman left me for a man, but is now living with a woman. The other two left me for another woman. However, one of the women that left me for a woman, left that woman after 7 years to marry a man. Does that confuse every one enough? I don't think being bi makes any one more likely to cheat. Heck, two lesbians can go through the same thing. It happens a lot.
We don't want people to treat us differently because we are lesbians, so it is only fair to treat bi women the same. We didn't ask to be born lesbian, nor did bi women ask for that either. If any thing, if I was bi, I would be more confused then ever.
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 9/7/2008 5:26:30 PM | Wow... everyone? Geesh... I guess I'm gonna have to start going out more because it sounds like my options are more wide open than ever before in the history of mankind...
Or perhaps I'm being over-dramatic...
Kinda like the OP and this "everyone" business. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 9/7/2008 5:27:20 PM | | I highly doubt the percentage of the population that is bi has really changed over time, its just that in a more permissive society they can be free to date anyone without fear. I the past they would have just been attracted to people of the smae sex but settled down in a traditional relationship. As for permission to cheat, its only not cheating if they have told the person they are with that they are planning to still have same sex affairs even though they are dating, thereby giving both parties a chance to walk away before it starts if they aren't comfortable with that. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 9/7/2008 6:05:30 PM | | exactly. you can't blame women for being bi. i think men would be extinct if we didn't have certain thing's to offer only a male can. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 9/7/2008 6:20:27 PM |
Does that give you a cheat pass free, well sorry honey but your a girl and he's a boy so really its not cheating?
Not unless you have that specific agreement with your partner. I know some people who practice "gender monogamy", and other bisexuals who don't and who have no issue being monogamous with whomever they're with (and others who are polyamorous and so it isn't really an issue one way or the other), and some couples who will bring in a third for an occasional threesome where both parties are involved and so aware of what's going on. It depends on the person, and on how the individual couple wants to handle it as well. There are endless variations, but cheating is cheating; unless you've agreed to a specific arrangement, it's cheating if you aren't aware of and consenting to their extracurricular activities.
Can we all please just be gay or straight?
Right. Everyone should just simplify their sexuality to please you, is that it? I'm sorry you have such difficulty grasping the idea of bisexuality, but I'm pretty sure that's your problem. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 9/7/2008 7:01:11 PM |
and will you straight guys PLEASE stop getting your eyesbrows waxed, its getting really confusing
I do not think you will be successful in your request that people to be Gay or Straight to limit your confusion.
It seems the problem is worse than you even suspect as you are pointing out metro sexual characteristics as something you feel is a clear indicator that someone maybe and or is a bi-sexual or Gay.
I had a partner in the past that had a very GQ perspective and she was always campaigning to convert me into a metro-sexual despite my slovenly natural resistance. While I may look upon some fellow that does not end up with a mustard stain on his shirt within minutes of dressing with envy I just can't do it. If I want to look good I have to put my hands in my pockets and stand in the middle of an empty room to maintain a pristine appearance for any length of time. As a result of this natural tendency to undermine my appearance without any effort I have come to recognize that I am a victim of the chaos theory. I naively assumed that all normal heterosexual guys were so afflicted, so yeah, I suffered from the same skewed perspective you have... Metro-sexual males falsely set off my Gaydar much the way security systems and electric doors cause my radar detector to alarm when there is no speed trap in the vicinity.
If you want a real man..... look for signs of his orientation on his shirt.. the tail tell signs left by condiments is a clear indicator he is heterosexual as confirmed by the chaos theory.
Yeah, I know but, sometimes (wipes at my shirt) profiling works  | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 9/11/2008 8:24:55 PM | | I would have to say Im bi, i do not dress or act metosexual in any way shape or form, and am very attracted to women, once in a blue moon a good looking guy will peek my interest, but for the norm my eye follows the nice tight skirts. I have yet to have a man in me and don't know if i ever will. Why would it matter if a guy is bi or not if he is faithful? | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 9/11/2008 9:29:32 PM | I don't know why everyone thinks that Bi-bashing is any more acceptable than gay bashing, but it seems that these threads keep popping up.
And the common theme that seems to be prevalent with those who dislike bisexuals is that we are all immoral, confused, and degenerate people. And cheating sluts of course.
While you are entitled to your opinion, saying it outloud makes you just as predjudiced and bigoted as the people who beat up gay people, who lynch black people, who use words to refer to people of other cultures that are so derogatory i don't even want to type them here.
Bigotry is bigotry, and as a society we need to not tolerate it. racism, homophobia, and other forms of predjudice are becoming more and more socially unacceptable, and stereotyping bisexual people should be unacceptable as well.
now, slightly more on topic with the original post: why doesn't everyone just be straight or gay? Because it isn't a choice. The jury is still out as to whether its biological, social constructionism, or both, but either way, sexuality is not a conscious decision one makes, and therefore, you can't decide to be gay or straight. You are who you are. (You can choose not to act in a bisexual manner....but that's a whole other situation, and doesn't change being bisexual).
Apologies if i've offended anyone for calling them a bigot, but you've offended me by generalizing and calling me immoral, confused, incapable of making decisions, a cheater....and the list goes on. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 9/11/2008 9:36:11 PM | If bisexuality is used as an excuse to be unfaithful, then it's no different from the straight guy who uses horniness as an excuse to cheat on his girlfriend. In other words, it's pathetic.
Of course, there is nothing wrong with being bisexual. In fact, I believe that most men and women are bisexual in orientation. Where I draw the line is when people use it as an excuse to cheat or to be promiscuous. I'm also opposed to the women who use their so-called bisexuality as a marketing ploy. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 10/9/2008 3:23:59 PM | | yeah but you like****back then and then just realsied that you like **** more but some people realise that the prefer the 2 at the same time that all. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 10/9/2008 3:24:15 PM | | yeah but you like****back then and then just realsied that you like **** more but some people realise that the prefer the 2 at the same time that all. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 10/9/2008 3:49:22 PM | | What? Everyone is supposed to bisexual? I must have not gotten the memo, and glad for that! BTW personal grooming habits do noy determine a persons sexual orientation. Their sexual orientation does. | |
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| what is with everyone being bi-sexual?
Posted: 10/9/2008 3:56:24 PM | perhaps such a narrow minded statement shouldnt have been made? why cant ya just fall in love and gender not come into it? people are people aye, love has no gender | |
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