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Posted: 5/19/2008 2:03:20 PM | | That's pretty insecure to think masturbating counts as cheating. Pretty sure a man wouldn't care if both his arms fell off if he couldn't masturbate. | |
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Posted: 5/19/2008 3:28:01 PM |
I cheated on my Ex all the time! LOL....Not really, I mean I masturbated all the time......Urr......wait.......ummm.......I just said that out loud......umm, I.....well..I just...
lol, my stb ex did the same thing....he must have cheated on me all of the time then.
As long as you aren't masturbating to replace having sex
my stb ex did do that to replace sex with me. i don't know what i did that was so wrong to him. he had a problem and was hit with a double whammy.....he couldn't get it up and when he was able to get it up, bang! it was done. he went faster than the silver bullet that superman was racing against.
i'm like others.....i wouldn't say that masturbation is cheating...it's just a way of having self satisfaction. | |
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Posted: 5/19/2008 3:37:04 PM | | LOL! And this time I am really laughing out loud. "Does not let" him masturbate. I bet he just follows that rule of hers right down to the letter. ****ing LOL! | |
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| Masturbation=cheating
Posted: 5/19/2008 4:15:19 PM | My ex-wife was very much like this. Sad thing was, I wanted her so very much. After making love to her, I would feel so connected.....and the long periods she would make me wait (often, months) were physically and emotionally painful.
She believed, among other things, that ejaculation would take away the man's "life force"....in essence, decrease this aura that surrounds each person. There was a stage where she would make love to me as long as I promised to never ejaculate. Of course, first moment she left the room...........
One time she brought the bible out and showed me a passage about how man shall not "spill his seed." Or some such nonsense.
All I wanted to do was make love to my (then) wife!!!
A couple of years ago, we were talking and she said that she sex drive was now through the roof, she hit her late forties and attained this incredible sex drive. She actually apoligized for pushing me away for all those years, acknowledging the pain it must have caused me.
I have have a couple of wonderful multi-year relationships since our divorce that involved all the sex I could want, so I feel lucky for that. | |
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Posted: 5/19/2008 5:45:38 PM | "One time she brought the bible out and showed me a passage about how man shall not "spill his seed." Or some such nonsense."
Was she serious? Oh my, that is always a clear sign/red flag for a "Run, Forrest, Run" exit! | |
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Posted: 5/19/2008 6:13:49 PM | "Every sperm is sacred..."
Seriously OP your sister sounds messed up. If I hadn't been able to masturbate while I was married I surely would have exploded. | |
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Posted: 5/19/2008 6:17:17 PM | | no what is the matter with your sister..she has issues. There is nothing wrong with doing that and if she is so controlling that she forces her man not to well....he has no mind of his own and he is owned. | |
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Posted: 5/19/2008 8:26:12 PM | | hahaha wow i think shes dellisional and controling and needs to get thrown in the bush!!!! | |
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Posted: 5/19/2008 8:41:05 PM | I wouldn't exactly say it's cheating, but it shows that the difference in their sex drive, is a serious
problem. I wouldn't put up with it either, but then again, there's nothing wrong with my sex drive
Your sister is a bit uptight, but it's a pretty common hang-up for women. | |
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Posted: 5/19/2008 8:56:03 PM | | It can be cheating, if the left hand doesn't know what the right hand is doing. It will be found out as one hand washes the other. It's a sad situation; a real tear jerker. | |
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Posted: 5/19/2008 8:59:25 PM | | Sweetheart all men masturbate it's just some don't admit it. Alot of women do too. There is nothing wrong with it. If your sister doesn't want him to masturbate or have sex with him then he will find someone who will | |
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Posted: 5/19/2008 11:00:53 PM |  Your sister seriously needs to get to "know" her two capable hands herself. I'm with you and find it a real turn on to see my man "take care of himself" which is as discrete as I can be. It's even better when the both of you can watch each other play and join in if desired....either way I know if a guy is out of the starting gate before I've even heard the bell ring, I let him know very clearly that before he comes over the next time, make damn sure he takes care of himself at least an hour before hand as it simply helps slow things wayyyyy down.....hell, men have paid for my produce ya know...lol. Cheers | |
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Posted: 5/19/2008 11:18:11 PM | I'm seriously hoping he is either..
1. Doing the "yes dear" thing to keep the peace and whacking off like mad in the shower every morning
or, a much happier alternative...
2. Is submissive and all of this control and humiliation she is doling out is making him ecstatic. If that was his 'thing' this would be a match made in heaven. Ohhh, especially if he knew she was telling other people about his humiliation... truly a blissful union. | |
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Posted: 5/19/2008 11:27:07 PM | | All men masturbate. This guy is obviously just lying to her. | |
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Posted: 5/20/2008 12:02:51 AM | | Hell no masterbating is not cheating unless your masterbating over someone on the net or over the telephone. Or of course with someone other than your partner/boyfriend/husbad. If your masterbating then you aint getting enough sex. Unless your a guy they can never get enough LOL | |
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| Masturbation=cheating
Posted: 5/20/2008 3:29:07 AM |
she told me she "does not let" her man masturbate
Well it does make you go blind. Maybe they don't have optical on their health insurance. Glasses are expensive. Could be she's simply trying to prevent financial ruin.
Agree with all previous posters who made reference to this being more about being controlling than genuine cause for jealousy. Personally I can't understand why anyone would want to repress their partner's natural sexuality in that way. Wouldn't dream of requiring that, wouldn't dream of allowing it to be required of me. | |
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Posted: 5/20/2008 4:23:39 AM | | It is not cheating how does she know if he does or not is she with him 24/7 hell he takes a shower doesn't he. Fun I have a friend that was married (still is to the same women } and she was shocked that he still does lol. | |
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Posted: 5/20/2008 4:30:59 AM | | LOL masturbation is not cheating. i too enjoy watching a guy take care of his needs sooo hot :P | |
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Posted: 5/20/2008 3:25:16 PM | I dated a guy a few years back who seriously felt that his wife was having an affair with her BOB. In fact, it got to the point where she couldn't come with him, only with BOB. Which effectively ended their marriage.
If my fella was masturbating rather than bringing it home to me, I think I'd feel a bit cheated -- but not cheated on. On the other hand, if I wasn't interested. . . . Nope, can't even *imagine* that.
I think Margo's right: two very sick peeps getting off on each other's hang ups. Or he's gonna be out the door soon. . . .
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