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 DeeV1n3

Joined: 5/27/2008
Msg: 101
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Posted: 6/3/2008 11:56:25 AM

wtf......i never heard that b4! is she gonna beat the crap out of me bcuz i cheated on me,lol.

how about this 4thought: being in court through a dforce cuz i cheated on my wife with myself,huh!?

an yes i masturbate - i beat that thang like it owes me money sometimes


OMG Baconaneggs, I cracked right up when I read that... you keep on beating yourself!!

Girl your sister is asking for him to cheat... no one should have to go without sex at all. It's a natural part of life, and it should never be denied. I would not survive without masturbations, even with a man around!! WOW
 teeajay

Joined: 1/29/2008
Msg: 102
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Posted: 6/3/2008 1:44:50 PM
Yes, I do believe autoerotic activity may be construed as "cheating" if the hand or hands belong a body other than the.... ahem "subject" individual.

Emotional cheating can also occur even if the person is alone. For example, if the behavior goes beyond the usual garden variety self-abuse or "flogging" and entails "setting the stage" for romance with mood music, a favorite meal, dim lights, and a couple of chilled wine glasses on the nightstand (one glass for each hand) and accompanying conversation with oneself ("You look particularly lovely tonight, Dearest"...or coyly murmuring "C'mon, Honey, for me?"), then I guess this behavior could invoke a modicum of resentment or insecurity in the other person, especially if she should happen to "walk in on" or "catch" the guilty party "red-handed."

TJ
 DazzyB

Joined: 10/9/2006
Msg: 103
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Posted: 6/3/2008 2:00:06 PM
Just out of curiosity, if she feels he is cheating on her by choking his' chicken when she's not there (and I am not taking her side here - I feel she is totally out of order) then why doesn't she perform the act for him? Masterbating each other can also be a form of love-making! That way, she would be happy knowing that she is looking after his' needs without having to have full-on sex with him plus the fact that she would feel better knowing that he is not 'cheating' on her just because she is not in the mood. Does this woman love this guy or what? More to the point though, what's wrong with this guy???? I would've dropped her like a hot potatoe! Confused...

Dazzy.
 Willsniffurundies

Joined: 4/7/2008
Msg: 104
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Posted: 6/3/2008 2:27:08 PM
No!
Of course it isn't cheating!
Damn! I cannot believe some of the questions on this site!
Cheating requires another human being--IN PERSON--LIVE--not on the internet, not on a wlakie-talkie, not on a cellphone, not on a landline phone, not on a fax machine, NOT on a webcam!
The internet is not real!
Certainly ****ing YOURSELF is not cheating!
Come on, people!
 JrsyGrl

Joined: 8/12/2007
Msg: 105
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Posted: 6/3/2008 2:41:00 PM

OP I for one would never even think about it. but for someone who is with someone who doesnt want sex but she finds him taking care of himself I could see how she would maybe get upset..He doesn't have sex with her but he still has the urge..So thats a problem there..But is that cheating ..NO WAY..how can you tell someone what they can do to themselves...I do have a friend that is in that situtation and she would be annoyed if she found out he did that but it is not cheating by all means!.......
 majickpnut

Joined: 4/25/2008
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Posted: 6/3/2008 2:53:02 PM


Owe's me money ....LOL
 Zentimes

Joined: 12/31/2006
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Posted: 6/3/2008 6:19:07 PM
Your sister really does need to read more & seek out the advice of sex therapists. She sounds horribly prude and disconnected from reality of 2008. I bet she probably masturbates like a wild one & is ashamed of admitting it! How sad!
 MelissaMelissa

Joined: 4/2/2006
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Posted: 6/3/2008 6:26:41 PM
Wow... that is scary. She actually suckered some guy into playing along with her weird insecurities? Ha ha, or at least she thinks she did. You know he's taking care of business, alone or with someone else!

Masturbation is totally normal. What planet is she from?
 ScruffyDude

Joined: 1/14/2007
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Posted: 6/3/2008 6:33:44 PM

Masturbation=cheating



I've been cheating since I was 15...................
 crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007
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Posted: 6/3/2008 9:14:37 PM
Masturbation isn't cheating.

You sisters' using that, as an excuse, to hide the fact that she's a control freak.
 Scripto240

Joined: 5/11/2007
Msg: 111
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Posted: 6/4/2008 12:10:52 AM
I feel sorry for you're brother in law.
 DDay555

Joined: 12/27/2007
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Posted: 6/4/2008 4:18:29 AM
Control freak....
 dknickerbocker

Joined: 4/29/2006
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Posted: 6/4/2008 4:28:20 AM
OOPS.. posted on wrong thread

Half asleep

LOL
 mogrl42

Joined: 4/16/2007
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Posted: 6/4/2008 4:57:31 AM

I was resently talking to my sister and she told me she "does not let" her man masturbate

Whatever,unless she`s up his butt all the time how would she know and why would she even care???????? She has serious issues if it bothers her that much unless he rather does himself instead of her ;if thats the case she needs to take a very good look at herself and the so called relationship she is in.
And No it`s not cheating.
 69_dude

Joined: 10/30/2006
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Posted: 6/4/2008 5:26:47 AM
masterbating does not mean you are cheating...
controling over someone like that...well is stupid and a way of pushing someone to cheat...
we do have different levels of sex drive through out life and different partners will want different things at different times...
her need to control is a bit of an issue if you ask me... but that is just my 2 cents worth!!!
Keep on spanking the monkey and the monkey will take care of you!
 teeajay

Joined: 1/29/2008
Msg: 116
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Posted: 6/4/2008 6:30:27 AM
Yes, I do believe autoerotic activity may be construed as "cheating" if the hand or hands belong to a body OTHER than the.... ahem "subject" individual.

Emotional cheating can also occur even if the person is alone.

For example, if the behavior goes BEYOND the usual garden variety self-abuse or "flogging" and entails "setting the stage" for romance with mood music, a favorite meal, dim lights, and a couple of chilled wine glasses on the nightstand (one glass for each hand) and accompanying conversation with oneself ("You look particularly lovely tonight, Dearest"...or coyly murmuring "C'mon, Honey, for me?"), then I suppose this behavior could invoke a modicum of resentment or insecurity in the other person, especially if she should happen to "walk in on" or "catch" the guilty party "red-handed."

Cheekily submitted,

TJ
 Marius66

Joined: 12/28/2007
Msg: 117
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Posted: 6/4/2008 6:34:36 AM

Masturbation=cheating


Only if I forget to wash my hands....
 blonde chickie

Joined: 11/3/2005
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Posted: 6/4/2008 7:39:23 AM
Funny thread, masturbation is cheating, thats a good one
 enginecapt

Joined: 2/16/2008
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Posted: 6/4/2008 10:41:18 AM
Your sister is all farked up,she don't want it,but yet her man won't go out and get it and she don't "ALLOW" her man to yank it .SCREW HER !!!!If he had a back bone he'd jerk off all over her and then bring his girlfriend home to bang in front of her.Cooking is probably not in her vocabulary either.CHEATING??!!?? Oh,damn I closed my eyes and imagined Pam Anderson,sorry honey....
 enginecapt

Joined: 2/16/2008
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Posted: 6/4/2008 10:45:13 AM
Oh, one more thing...my hand NEVER GETS A HEADAHCE!!!!!But it did have a sore throat once........once.
 Kat0108

Joined: 4/21/2008
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Posted: 6/4/2008 10:58:39 AM
Masturbation = cheating.. only if he uses all the lube.. that's just cruel
 wholovesyouright

Joined: 4/26/2008
Msg: 122
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Posted: 6/4/2008 8:38:32 PM
damn your sister got some serious issues,,she is gonna end up like my ex all alone and wishin she had taken care of her man, if that is cheating i cheated on my ex every day until i found a real girlfriend to do it for me..and guess what ladies that means yessssss i F'in cheated on my ex wife get the F over it .. women that deny there spouse will all eventually get what they deserve and i'm probably the only guy on here willing to admit it...
 junglejeff88

Joined: 4/11/2007
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Posted: 6/4/2008 8:42:07 PM
wait ... I'm having a hard time seeing my monitor ... damn, I've just about gone BLIND!!!

oh, wait ... what?

jeffery:
 riderfan_82

Joined: 10/11/2006
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Posted: 6/5/2008 2:42:02 AM
i dont think it is. if thats the case id be in trouble
 SmellOfPoop

Joined: 6/8/2007
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Posted: 6/5/2008 3:26:50 AM
Wow, was my post deleted for being too harsh? I stand by my statement. It's not opinion - it's FACT. Masturbation is not cheating, despite how any woman might try to twist it.
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