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I was resently talking to my sister and she told me she "does not let" her man masturbate, she also tells me how she is really never in the mood for sex. Even when I am a relationship and the sex is great I still feel the need to take care of things for myself from time to time, I even find it a turn on to watch a guy "take care" of his needs. I just want to know are there other people out there who think like my sister, do you agree that masturbation is cheating?
My ex tried that attitude on me once. Geez. Thats the ultimate in jealousy and control if you ask me. | |
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Posted: 3/18/2009 4:26:42 AM |
do you agree that masturbation is cheating?
only if he uses someone else's hand!!!!!!
what average male would be able to keep his hand off it for too long anyway.... everytime they have a spare minute u can catch them adjusting themselves or just checking to make sure all is well with the little guy
Thats the ultimate in jealousy
how sad... to be jealous of a hairy mans hand!!!
she also tells me how she is really never in the mood for sex
maybe if shes so against it she should step up to the mark and start tugging for him then....that way it cant be regarded as sex in her mind as its just a "job" kinda like washing the dishes | |
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Posted: 3/18/2009 5:18:05 AM | I find that mindset pretty ridiculous. My body is my own, and I don't remotely understand how touching myself is supposed to interfere with a relationship. That sort of control over another's sexuality is not healthy, IMO.
OP, I'll bet her man masturbates to porn when she's not around anyway. | |
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Posted: 3/18/2009 8:09:48 AM | | lmfao @ whoever thought up this thread!! Wow, to think that masturbation is cheating? maybe me and my hand should have a trail separation, and see if it brings the relationship to a whole new level? ridiculous if u ask me, i think that some women just pull at strings looking for things to be jealous for, (maybe it's my own experience, i don't know.) get over your own insecurities and play with yourself already, geesh. | |
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Posted: 3/18/2009 8:16:55 AM | | lol ... if masterbation = cheating ,,, i cheetah every night ,,,,,,,, if i use both hands is that considered group cheating ? | |
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Posted: 3/18/2009 8:46:29 AM | Masturbation is not cheating, and this person should not be in a relationship if she doesn’t like sex, it's very inconsiderate, but...
I think a lot of busy people in a relationship get into a routine of masturbating regularly and then going about their day, which leads to people ignoring their partner sexually, or having bad sex, and internet porn has only made things 1000x worse.
So while I think her situation is way off base, asking a partner to stop masturbating for a while because you want them to want you more often or to have a more aggressive experience in bed is totally acceptable, it can even be fun, as long as you both look at it with a positive attitude. | |
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Posted: 3/18/2009 9:16:07 AM | If I were you I would show her this forum and what people had to say to her. She is not living in reality here. Who gave her the right to order him and who said he should obey her stupid demands. I see a guy fu@king around on the side if he's not getting any. Who the hell in their right mind would blame him. | |
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Posted: 3/18/2009 9:21:21 AM |
I find that mindset pretty ridiculous. My body is my own, and I don't remotely understand how touching myself is supposed to interfere with a relationship. That sort of control over another's sexuality is not healthy, IMO.
OP, I'll bet her man masturbates to porn when she's not around anyway.
I agree with this poster. The only time masturbation becomes an issue is if that is what a partner wants to do exclusively. Why should he have to stop pleasuring himself just because she has a low sex drive? This is completely ridiculous. | |
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Posted: 3/18/2009 9:53:15 AM | How is masturbating cheating? Seriously.
And she 'won't let him' masturbate? How does she prevent this? Is she with him every where he goes, ever second of the day. Me thinks the lady doth protest too much. If she's not in the mood for sex, she should understand that he needs/wants some release. He can either get it with his hand or with his neighbor. | |
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Posted: 3/18/2009 10:26:22 AM | | Its not cheating if you are in a different zip code than your hand is in. | |
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Posted: 3/22/2009 10:05:21 PM | | This relationship is destined for a lot of 'cheating' i would assume. | |
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Posted: 3/22/2009 10:08:36 PM | | So long as it's not INSTEAD of sex with me, I couldn't care less! | |
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Posted: 3/22/2009 10:16:32 PM |
FaintingGoats:I was resently talking to my sister and she told me she "does not let" her man masturbate, she also tells me how she is really never in the mood for sex. Even when I am a relationship and the sex is great I still feel the need to take care of things for myself from time to time, I even find it a turn on to watch a guy "take care" of his needs. I just want to know are there other people out there who think like my sister, do you agree that masturbation is cheating?
My question is what kind of masochist is a man who allows a woman to tell him that doing what he needs to do alone is wrong? | |
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Posted: 3/23/2009 4:59:06 AM | | I think it's entirely necessary, and I don't believe there are many people in a relationship or out of one that don't. It's definitely not cheating unless someone else is watching you, though my husband does get peeved if he catches me and has not been invited! | |
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Posted: 3/23/2009 5:50:52 AM | hi, i have been married 6 times and i can tell you right now your sister is screwing somebody else.
she wants the security her wussy husband gives her but she is more than likely getting it on the side. has all the marking's of a cheater. she is more than likely very submissive to the man she is cheating with and to counter act that she is a control freak at home. i have seen it happen personally. they become very possessive and controling. they accuse you of cheating to make themselves feel justified.
just my thoughts but start watching your sister and you will catch her. | |
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Posted: 3/23/2009 10:53:35 AM | i certainly don't think masterbating is cheating
i will say this, however......
when/if your partner turns you down for sex because they are not "in the mood," then later that day/evening you happen to walk in on them taking care of themselves, well, that's pretty depressing
i know this because it happened to many, many years ago when i was first married to my ex
certainly, everyone is entitled not to be "in the mood" on occasion, and certainly one is entitled to "take care of oneself" if necessary. but when the two happen together, well, its hard not to take that personally
in hindsight, only the first hint of (much) worse things to come
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Posted: 3/23/2009 4:38:47 PM | | I masturbate but I do not feel it's cheating.I have no problem with my lady masturbating either. | |
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Posted: 3/25/2009 3:47:22 AM | My view is that it is completely normal for people to masturbate occasionally if their partner is not available. If your sister is telling you that she is "never in the mood for sex" then she obviously has discomfort with sexuality in general. It follows that she would also feel uncomfortable with the idea of someone masturbating, because that is a sign that someone is in touch with his/her sexuality.
Judith | |
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Posted: 3/25/2009 3:54:09 AM | I am with Concertina...
however if he/she is masturbating to an online contact (like the man who was caught masturbating whilst connected to someone via Second Life), then it takes a different turn. Is this what the original poster meant?
But if you are masturbating on your own it is only for you to decide what you fantasising about; being a partner to someone does not equal owning their freedom of thoughts - thought policing is only done by people who have reasons not to trust their partners, and then it is not their self-loving one ought to worry about.
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Posted: 4/14/2009 7:26:24 PM | Masturbation is not cheating at all, its healthy and normal.
I cant believe some people could even think of it as a form of cheating | |
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Posted: 4/14/2009 7:39:23 PM | 'i beat mine like it owes me money' THANX FREE INTERNET PORN!! | |
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Posted: 11/15/2009 9:27:02 AM |
do you agree that masturbation is cheating Not at all.
she told me she "does not let" her man masturbate
Yeah right. Not if
she also tells me how she is really never in the mood for sex | |
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