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Posted: 8/11/2008 4:23:32 PM | | Well the next time this happens you can start growing your beard. When she asks you to shave it, make clearing her her Brazilian rain forest your condition..lol. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 5:31:09 PM | | WHAT IS A '70'S MUFF? Is that a muff wearing bellbottoms and platform shoes? | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 5:49:38 PM |
Does it freak any women out to some degree that so many men these days want us to look like a pre-pubescent girl? Always makes me wonder.
If any man doesn't know the difference between an adult woman and a pre-pubescent girl, his problem is much deeper than a woman shaving or not shaving.
WHAT IS A '70'S MUFF? Is that a muff wearing bellbottoms and platform shoes?
 LMAO ~ I have a vision of something being tie-dyed. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 6:03:56 PM | | If she agreed to it from the beginning knowing about it I see your point, I just hope you were hairless from AT LEAST the waist down yourself making demands like that. I assume if hair disgusts you, you don't let any grow on yourself either. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 6:09:36 PM |  TxSippiGal RLOF too funny actually that was a conversation some men were having in downtown at the French cafe where most were illegal aliens from France
LOLL. But I Also Personally know Brits, Belgium, Germans, Russia, Italy and Russia.  | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 6:33:12 PM | This guy is talking about (one) of his ex (s)... how many does he have? and I wonder why? I can see keeping your legs shaved, smooth is nicer anyway, in my opinion, and then the other trimmed, but c'mon... does he shave down there? If he did, it would be a different story I'm sure... I can think of more important things to **** about like never brushing teeth, bathing etc.  | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 6:42:24 PM | | Yeah, it sounds like you are a bit controlling and may not be approaching it in the right way. I find everyone is different. I shave my legs every day and I get a full Brazilian bikini wax every four weeks. I like the way it feels but there was one guy in my life who I think was really put off by it. He had a 5 year old daughter and wasn't very 'wordly' so I'm guessing it was a big turnoff for him. He never said anything, but actions speak louder than words. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 6:48:48 PM | | Hilarious!! I'm sorry, but I have to agree, you do sound a bit controlling and angry. Hair is natural, can be uncontrolled, and is found on most living things so maybe you should seek some inner guidance as to why you find it so repulsive. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 7:28:20 PM | well Rosalinda.....in the words of my doctor, we have pubic hair for a reason, to protect the area and and your opinion is just that an opinion and because a woman decides not to shave her certain areas does not mean they have poor hygiene or makes them less feminine. As for the op's ex beeing insecure? Its actually the opposite, if she was insecure she would have obeyed his request, not stuck to her own desires, she actually seems very secure since she stood up for herself. As for me I feel its all a personal decision, I always shave my legs, but because I like the feel of smooth skin not because someone tells me I should. I hate it when a
man shaves his pubic or his chest,its so unatural and not sexy at all. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 7:37:14 PM | On "repulsion"
Legs: We like smooth sexy legs on our ladies. Should be self explanatory. Definitely not an abnormal repulsion, so why are so many seeing something off kilter?
Down there: For the orally inclined (both sexes), hair is not considered a tasty treat. We don't like getting it in our mouths. In addition, men are visual creatures and landing strips and the like seem to be very visually appealing to many of us. When men trim or shave, it has the added potential of making things seem larger so to speak.
Why do I feel like the only one who finds these ideas so very obvious? Is there something wrong with wanting sexual compatibility? Has nothing to do with prepubescent girls. Has everything to do with how society changes the definition of what is attractive. And yes if asked, I would and have. Methinks there is a lot of sexual repression about. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 7:43:37 PM | Hmph. theskinny-*I* am orally inclined, and I like some mulch around the oak tree stump. In fact, if it is an overgrown climbing ivy, I'm fine with that as well.
We all have a preference(duh!!) as to how we like our SO and how we like ourselves. I like my carpeting, altho it is fine and really hasn't much mat. My ex used to prefer hardwood on me. So we compromised-the entry way was paved and the surrounding hedges were neatly trimmed low to the ground. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 7:52:43 PM | If I may be so bold as to chime in here.....
I can see a preference to a "clean slate" but as for you calling her "Lazy" I would say you are
even more so lazy.
If that's what I wanted(and it wasn't against her wishes) I would be more than happy to
take care of it myself.
A thorough clearing of the area and then a prompt taste test to be sure the area was
"secured" - a "win-win" stupid! | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 9:27:54 PM | the important thing here
we have a self centered......... immature.......... unloving fool sharing how he has abused another person........
the unimportant thing here
the human body has hair.........best thing to do is forget about it | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 9:30:12 PM | Has anyone here noticed that this guy sounds like a borderline PD? I understand it turns him off and obviously she just stopped taking care of herself as much, but going nuts on her and everyone in this forum that anywhere remotely does not agree with every single thing you say, shows some big problems here. If her not shaving her legs in a timely manner seems like a cause for alarm and anger, then imagine what real issues are like.
I read most of the pages and every time anyone even makes a suggestion, the guy goes ape. I thought this was a joke post at first but then I saw it was real.
You expressed your thoughts and that's all you can do. You can't force your will on her. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 9:47:50 PM | | Just one question... Have you offered to do the landscaping for her? | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 10:10:00 PM | Trailgirl, yes it does "freak me out...."....especially when adult men want shaved females with very small breasts....who are more "boylike" than womanly.....
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Posted: 8/11/2008 10:26:17 PM | | ^^ I have to agree. It sometimes does seem alittle creepy. It seems like some men are afraid of hair. Like touching it is such a horrible thing. Humans have hair. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 10:40:09 PM | | Just shave your legs and pubic hair in protest.... She'll get the point well maybe not but it's a funny thought anyways if you actually do....... | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 10:55:05 PM | | Op, not every woman shaves the same way. Some do it every day and others once a week. It depends on the woman and how she feels about the way she looks. For me, I feel way sexier when I am shaved. So I do it regularly. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 11:00:23 PM | I agree and think she just got ticked off, especially you being her EX! Why are you both even having a discussion about this anymore? PLus, I am not hearing much about how hairy a guy can be. Personall hygene should come into play but nothing more. If that is being handled, I don't see a problem, let alone getting pissy at....an EX!! Time to simply....move on. Doesn't that make perfect sense? Rapunzel, Rapunzel, let down your hair.
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Posted: 8/12/2008 2:22:19 AM |
So i guess where i'm going with this is, what is normal to you ladies and what do you guys think is acceptable?
Before I continue, I would have to first point out that you have some serious growing up to do. Really. You don't tell people how to run their $hit. That's THEIR business.
Now, as for what's "acceptable", I'd change that word to "preferential".
My preference has always been to have some fur in the field. "70's muff" as you put it, does nothing for me. However, "hardwood floors" don't impress me either. On the latter, it's actually kinda revolting to me. Almost (almost) stomach churning.
I'm actually kinda repulsed by this whole "hardwood" craze anyways, in general. I miss the days when you really, honestly, didn't have to inquire as to whether your prospective mate had "carpet or lino". Nowadays, it's as common a question as any.
Yes I ask. I have to. If I am interested in someone and she has hardwood and loves it, then so be it, and she can love it with someone who also loves it that ISN'T me. I wouldn't ask her to grow it in just for me. Too selfish IMO. People like what they like, and dislike what they dislike. Why should *I* change for her or she change for me? It's just easier to like them as-is, where-is from jump.
Because mine is just a "preference" and not really what I would term "acceptable", this is why I would choose to be with them or not, knowing full well that they have "carpet or lino". I've only ever (thankfully) been with one that had hardwood, and man, that was the worst. I tried my best to get over it, but just couldn't do it. I know what I like and what I don't. It's just that simple. I won't waste her time, and wouldn't want her wasting mine with ridiculous changes to self.
If you don't like their particular style or choices, move on. Changing is for diapers and oil, not people. | |
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Posted: 8/12/2008 2:48:46 AM | Also, imho, men who want their women shaved, are usually men who gravitate towards young women. YOUNG women, as in teenage women. One guy I knew and was with who preferred women to be shaved is actually attracted to prepubescent girls. He didn't even deny it....said he wouldn't mind a 15 yr old (and used 'tribes in Africa' as an example how these young girls are often married off, and lose their virginity quite young) I reminded him that this is NOT a tribal society....AND I dated another guy who was into the shaved look and while I was dating him I found out he had another girlfriend on the side who he was ENGAGED to...he was 35, she was 19!!!
I am sorry this is bull crap most guys just like the clean look and feel. It has nothing to do with liking younger girls. You need to check your data before you post stuff like this. | |
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Posted: 8/12/2008 3:05:27 AM |
I am sorry this is bull crap most guys just like the clean look and feel. It has nothing to do with liking younger girls. You need to check your data before you post stuff like this.
I dunno what thread YOU were looking at pal, but "most men" that replied to this one have agreed that having some hair (properly manicured) is a GOOD thing, and shaven is a turn off. Most of the women here who have posted, have also said that they don't like being ripped just to please a man. They keep themselves neat and trim, and that's good enough for them.
You need to check YOUR data methinks. | |
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Posted: 8/12/2008 4:14:22 AM | | I refuse to shave all my pubic hair(have maybe 3x total) because I feel like a kid or something. And any guy who LIKES it, is just creepy in my opinion. Neat, trimmed, tidy etc. but not BALD. I shave my legs once a week usually, too often I get really dry itchy skin on my legs which generally isn't attractive anyways. I think some people worry way too much about stupid, small things such as body hair.....I mean if that's a dealbreaker for you, why even get in a relationship? Sounds like you're too immature to handle one. | |
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