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Posted: 5/20/2008 5:22:38 AM | WOW, who is this Kenny fool ??
Creeps are everywhere !! OUCH! | |
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| Marital Affairs
Posted: 5/20/2008 5:54:22 AM | The question is what should I do ? !!!!!
With re to your spouse's "affair" and she stopped seeing him.
This the empowerment she feels that she has right now. To explain her behavior is NOT enough to return your trust and love to her. Knowing that she got away with this for a period of time will involke more of her empowerment in the future. In order for this marriage to go on in the future, each one of you must have individual therapy, not necessarily marriage therapy at first. You must decide why you would want to go on with the marriage. Is your self-esteem in a "needy" zone and at it very lowest. And, have you unknowingly made decisions based on low-self esteem issues. You need to clean up the past and stand on your own two feet, click your heels and say: I am important !
Her issues are of anger, not control as she perceives empowerment. And, the core of the anger must be dealt with. Individual therapy is absolutely necessary. And, further, to go to the ultament goal of trust, maybe she should take a lie detector test and let's just see what the unconsciousness really is telling to all.
Do not ever settle for anything less than what you deserve. This is the advice of my own parents. | |
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Posted: 5/20/2008 5:54:46 AM | The question is what should I do ? !!!!!
With re to your spouse's "affair" and she stopped seeing him.
This the empowerment she feels that she has right now. To explain her behavior is NOT enough to return your trust and love to her. Knowing that she got away with this for a period of time will involke more of her empowerment in the future. In order for this marriage to go on in the future, each one of you must have individual therapy, not necessarily marriage therapy at first. You must decide why you would want to go on with the marriage. Is your self-esteem in a "needy" zone and at it very lowest. And, have you unknowingly made decisions based on low-self esteem issues. You need to clean up the past and stand on your own two feet, click your heels and say: I am important !
Her issues are of anger, not control as she perceives empowerment. And, the core of the anger must be dealt with. Individual therapy is absolutely necessary. And, further, to go to the ultament goal of trust, maybe she should take a lie detector test and let's just see what the unconsciousness really is telling to all.
Do not ever settle for anything less than what you deserve. This is the advice of my own parents. | |
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| Marital Affairs
Posted: 5/20/2008 8:57:39 PM |
OP
You deserve WAY better then what you had Actually, I think his wife deserves better.
Just move on, that lady (if you can call her that) is a loser, pathetic if she would cheat on you and,
if he made a dating site profile, 3 years ago, claiming to be divorced, while still being married, doesn't that make him pathetic too????
find a lady you deserve and that deserves you. Don't settle for anything less Maybe his wife finally decided that she shouldn't settle for anything less than she deserves? | |
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Posted: 5/20/2008 9:14:22 PM | Who ever is closest to Kenny..........smack him, please.
  Never drink and post...........
I wonder how many women Kenny has lied too in these 3 years?
 And how many women believed him...................zero.
And this thread is under testimonials, because........
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| Marital Affairs
Posted: 5/23/2008 1:21:34 AM | Msg 1
My wife came to me about two weeks ago and said she was having an affair for the which caught me completly by suprise. Sure we all have our ups and downs in a marriage question is she says she has stopped seeing this person yet the trust I once had for her is now gone. What should i do???
Msg 10
It takes people like you who have nothing better to do but look on a dating site at other peoples problems in blogs and forums. Ive been divorced nowm for 6 years. Wish it was April Fools Day. And the Prize goesa to boisegoodbebadboy.
Is this a valid thread?... not to mention the OPs profile. I've been trying to find the appropriate help thread to report this to a moderator.
kenny38974... Either lying in the OP Marital Affairs msg 1, msg 10 post and/or in profile, but trash like this is why honest guys are looked upon here with such skepticism.
Bohemianjack
"Don't say things. What you are stands over you the while, and thunders so that I cannot hear what you say to the contrary." --Emerson, Social Aims | |
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| Marital Affairs
Posted: 5/23/2008 2:36:40 AM | Kenny is a no-fork-family-tree booger eating moron.
-Nomad- | |
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Posted: 5/23/2008 5:20:44 AM | | You came here to cheat and she beat you to it. Sorry about your luck. | |
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Posted: 5/23/2008 7:41:50 AM | freakin' swingers.......you're going to give us all scurvy! | |
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Posted: 5/23/2008 8:44:24 AM | | The guy should be reported to the pof gestapo...one of hundreds... | |
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Posted: 5/23/2008 9:44:04 AM | | Trust only comes out of love, if you still love her then there is a chance for forgiveness. If you don't love her, move on. You at the least have to give her credit for trusting herself enough to tell you, it has to start somewhere. | |
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