| am I making a mistake?
Posted: 6/21/2008 8:10:56 AM | Some women are afraid to be alone and will take anyone that shows interest. I had the same kind of relationship where the guy didn't want a relationship but when he was in town he spent all his time with me. I thought I was getting mixed messages because he would say nice things. But he was clear at the beginning, after he reeled me in, that he didn't want a relationship. Even though I knew that, and would tell everyone we were just friends, I wanted more and thought I could get it. It didn't work and now we're not friends. We didn't have sex because both of us were the types not to go there unless we were in a committed relationship. But we almost had sex and it made him uncomfortable because he cared for me as a friend and didn't want to ruin it.
Long story short, stop seeing him altogether and start dating. Don't put all your eggs in the basket of the first guy who asks you out. Start dating and meeting different guys and see what you like.
The guy told you he doesn't want a relationship. It's not about you and you can't change his mind. So take care of yourself and don't give yourself to someone who won't honor and cherish you for the goddess you are. Work on your self esteem before you go into a relationship so you can not let others take advantage of you.
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