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Posted: 5/20/2008 12:41:00 PM | hi everyone ok here we go me and my friend tryed to date but we thought it was just like hanging out and now i am going crazy bc i fell for her hard and how it ended now i don't know what to do because everytime we hang out its so hard because my feels get more and more
so i am guessing my option is try and not to think about it or try to spend not as much time with her
what do you people think i should do ?????
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Posted: 5/20/2008 12:46:50 PM | | Talk to her and explain your feelings. Then go from there | |
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Posted: 5/20/2008 1:18:30 PM | ^^^^^^^ Yep. Tell her how you feel and see if she would like to try dating again. If not, then you may have to move on to other friends or you'll just be miserable because she doesn't share the same feelings for you.
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Posted: 5/20/2008 1:36:58 PM |
me and my friend tryed to date but we thought it was just like hanging out
I don't understand this. What do you mean you tried to date? and if you weren't dating, how did you manage to fall for her?
Do you mean you had sex, but were just friends and she didn't want to have sex anymore but you do? (my guess) | |
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Posted: 5/20/2008 1:38:21 PM | move on - and don't ever try to be "friends first" if you do have a good friend, it will break the friendship every time.... been there, done that, broke heart, lost a good friend (more than once) and it will sneak up on ya too......  | |
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Posted: 5/20/2008 1:46:17 PM | | ok well we said we were dateing but didn't really go out on a date date and i fell for her because shes very open with me and we tell eachother like everything and no we didn't have sex | |
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Posted: 5/21/2008 6:43:00 AM | | If you are that open with her then what you need to do is talk about the situation. If the relationship is that open you should be able to express to each other how you both feel and then take it from there. don't stop seeing her though, because that is rude to do without explaining everything. Plus, if you care about her you would talk to her about your feelings. Good luck mate. | |
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Posted: 5/21/2008 6:56:04 AM |
what do you people think i should do ?????
Learn how to spell and punctuate...it will do wonders for you. | |
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Posted: 5/21/2008 8:54:07 AM | hi everyone ok here we go me and my friend tryed to date but we thought it was just like hanging out and now i am going crazy bc i fell for her hard and how it ended
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Your profile says "student" and you are 22. Did you miss a few years inside? Please, before you think you need a woman hostage, STAY IN SCHOOL, it is the most important thing in modern society. Can you think of anything more important than a basic education, including reading writing and rithmatic.
Then women will be attracted to you, thats why she dumped you. If you are a "student" now, take more challenging, stimulating classes, PERHAPS PSYCHOLOGY? | |
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Posted: 5/21/2008 8:57:23 AM | | Talk to her not us. Tell her no matter what happens you don't want to lose her as a friend but theres just stuff you need to get off your chest. Hopefully simply talking about it helps some. | |
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Posted: 5/21/2008 11:20:00 AM | Its called the "friend zone"...
once you fall into a womans friend zone...you will never get out...
move on.... | |
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Posted: 5/21/2008 11:26:51 AM | I personally dont agree, alot of relationships start off as friendships and a woman can fall for a friend that they didnt look at in that light before. I agree with the majority of people on here sain talk to her, u never know she may feel the same and if she doesnt at least u know where u stand and then u can decide as to whether u want to still be friends or not.
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Posted: 5/21/2008 11:34:42 AM | disagee all you want.....fact...
woman have friends that are males they consider "friends" and know they will NEVER be anything but friends....
only exception is when alcohol is involved, and you get drunk and boink eachother...and you might stay together after that...but even then its a long shot.... | |
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Posted: 5/21/2008 2:07:05 PM | | Tell her. If you don't it will eat you up and end up destroying the friendship anyway. And dating should be more than just 'hanging out', did you try doing anything vaguely romantic or did you just do what you would have done if you were not on a date, as before? There has to be something to take it past friendship, I think. Be confident and tell her you want more than just friendship. Good luck. | |
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