| Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 5/20/2008 3:56:33 PM | Alot of people are saying this now.... especially with a broader acceptance of different types of sexual relationships, the enlightenment and freedom brought to us by the sexual revolution and improved techniques.
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| Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 5/20/2008 4:14:10 PM | Abso-friggin-lutely!!
At this age, we are past the whole "omg-I-don't-think-this-position-is-flattering-to-my-a$$" thing and we just wanna have fun! No more concerns about body flaws or worrying what the other one thinks... when I want to know if he likes what I'm doing, I ask! If I like what he's doing I tell him! No more BS with the guessing games.
Well, the only concern I can see is wanting to be on the bottom when we do it in the daylight so that gravity smooths out the wrinkles in our faces!! (can't remember what comedienne said that but even years ago I thought it was hillarious!)
40 and lovin' it!!! Can't wait to get better with age!!  | |
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| Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 5/20/2008 4:23:16 PM | | Sex was best for me when I was 16-25. Then it was still pretty good 25-40. Then after 40 it degraded sharply, becoming barely enjoyable. At 48 I am too old to swing this much pipe without throwing my back out. Sure, the woman would love it. But I would be soaking in ice afterwards. Those days are over. Ahead is a well deserved rest. I pass the torch to younger men. May their crone pleasing chores bring them happiness and good cheer. | |
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| Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 5/20/2008 4:38:57 PM | I recently turned 41 and have been involved with someone for two years....
But when I was single and dating alot in my 30's I found that woman in their 30's were much more sexually experienced and open about sexuality.... Also more in touch with their bodies... They had figured out that sexuality is much more than putting part A into part B.
I see it alot on here as well in th sex and dating section.... the younger woman are generally more closed mind (not all .... I know I"m making a generalization) than woman in their 30's and 40's
Getting old has is perks
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| Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 5/20/2008 5:06:51 PM | I have a lot more sex now than when I was younger (in my 20s). That is better.
I know what I like more. That is better, too.
Men of about my age appreciate women more than younger men, too, I think. And THAT is better.
So, yep. | |
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| Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 5/20/2008 5:07:35 PM | When I was about to turn 30 a friend told women hit their peak sexually during this decade. Sure I had fun, but once I turned 40...  There are no words to describe it! I guess I am talking about the libido factor, but this going hand in hand with sex... I have to say, yes, sex after 40 is way better... Way way way better. | |
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| Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 5/20/2008 5:56:29 PM | 40 years and you have not had 40 shags?! Which equates to less than once a week...aaah...poor soul! LOL (Unless you referring to number of partners!?)
I think sex definitely improves with age...and being nearly 42, I would have to say I have had the most pleasureable sex since being 40. I wonder if that has something to do with memory, too?? LOL
Actually, I think it is more about being more comfy in our own skin...having a greater sense of self assurance and self esteem...and then of course, the experience and learning, too! And being wiser in choosing a more compatible partner!! ;O) | |
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| Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 5/20/2008 6:10:52 PM | Trust me, yes...
Although it's always been very good for me, I have a deeper appreciation for the wider spectrum of expression at my disposal. And at the same time, I can connect all the dots in that spectrum to form a constellation of celestial passion. I understand now how to paint with all those colors to create an amazingly sensual and sultry conversational experience for myself and my partner. | |
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| Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 5/20/2008 6:22:16 PM | YES!!!!
I think it's because you learn to love and accept yourself a lot more - you relax and just go for it - more than ever before! I know for me that's true! I say bring it on!!  | |
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| Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 5/20/2008 7:25:10 PM | It is if you can get it. You damn near have to whip out a profit & loss statement.
I now carry a bottle of Tequila everywhere I go, just in case.  | |
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| Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 5/20/2008 8:41:40 PM |
Posted By: ~myth~ on 5/20/2008 10:04:47 PM
Subject: Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Message:
I now carry a bottle of Tequila everywhere I go, just in case.
IMO . . . ya have better luck if ya holding BOB in ya right hand and FRESH batteries in ya left had . . . with a HUGE grin . . . [*verrrrrry deep sigh*] . . . now are ready . . .
I graduated to rechargeble batteries for this very reason. Hey, mama didn't raise no dummy. | |
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| Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 5/20/2008 9:28:54 PM | | Much less inhibited, more confident than in my 20's. More in touch with myself and what I like.. and more attuned to exploring what SHE likes than in my 30's. So yeah, over 40 is better. | |
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| Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 5/20/2008 9:52:50 PM | my opinion, is sex does get better, we become more experienced, and tend to slow down, to enjoy ,/ even with technology, "some-of-us" r still, ....is old-fashioned,, still a word? lol.
guess i'm a minority??
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| Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 5/20/2008 10:41:02 PM | OH so much better, especially if your partner knows what they are doing to get you to that place, should I say the big "O", I have also found out that in your 40's you seem to want to please your partner more which in turn should make them want to please you!!
So the answer is yessssssssssss!!! | |
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| Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 5/21/2008 7:40:50 AM | | oh yes, i am having better sex know at 40 then when i was younger, such as lasting longer, going through more positions, i think your better pleasing your partner to because over the years you pick up on things that women like, so if you do a good job on your partner they will do a good job on you,and i think when you hit a certain age you get into the pleasure side of it for you and your partner and not just the quick score or the wham bam thank you mam | |
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| Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 5/21/2008 8:05:19 AM | Wow... what a response...
I almost forgot I put this thread here.
Well... now that we've established that certainly A LOT of people over 40 have found sex to be more enjoyable after than before... Let's get deeper (no pun intended)
What do you do now that you didn't do then?
Or is it just the intensity of feeling when the same things happen?
Do we enjoy pleasurable sensations more after we hit a certain age? ...or is it more of a contrast because we're relaxed more than we were when we were younger when we do other things and this makes the intensity more enjoyable *I'm just "fishin'" for reasons here... U tell US what you think!* | |
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| Does sex get better after you hit 40?
Posted: 5/21/2008 8:12:46 AM | Without a doubt. Now it's all about quality as opposed to quantity. By this age one discovers what one desires after being though all shapes, sizes as well as ages. It's simply much more intense a well as satisfying. By this age most have their oral skills precisely honed | |
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