| Have you every enjoyed a man with a "velvet tongue"? Posted: 5/21/2008 10:24:13 PM | | Has anyone experienced a guy with a "velvet tongue" or is this just a myth? Are there really men out there with that elusive "velvet tongue" that can totally drive you wild? Why is it that guys claim they know what to do south of the border, but most are just lost without a road map?? Just curious to know if anyone else has experienced this. | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue? Posted: 5/21/2008 10:35:55 PM | | I don't know about a velvet tongue but I definitely know my way around down there. Of course, it's not something I brag about, I just don't think it's very hard to drive a girl wild that way. | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue? Posted: 5/21/2008 11:09:07 PM | **OP** Never heard of the expression. But!! Since I work with a great deal of women, I shall ask, and then come back and post the results of my investigation into this "Myth".
Should be fun!!
Wish me luck!!
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue? Posted: 5/21/2008 11:26:56 PM | | It's been my experience that the men that like oral have little to do at excelling at it. It doesn't mean they aren't good, it is...and it's enjoyable - but I think that sexual personality types are different and it's more rare to find a mate where both people soar to their limits and boundries. | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue? Posted: 5/22/2008 12:13:22 AM | I read velvet tongue and I immediately though this topic was about STD's or something like Cholera.
I want a woman with a nice smooth tongue, not white, not velvet, not bumpy, just normal, thank you very muchly. | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue? Posted: 5/22/2008 12:52:26 AM | | an x gf of mine told me that i should have been a woman because of what i use to do to her with mine altho it did take a while for me to click on to what she meant me being a guy a woman knows what a woman wants.but as i see it its not rocket science as to what you do its like anything you learn thro time thats if you get the practise in doing it lol ps she was bi incase you hadnt worked it out | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue? Posted: 5/22/2008 6:21:23 AM | For the most part, the guys who go on and on at how good they are at oral, are the WORST! I have yet to find a guy that can get me off with his tongue.
So no! I have not found the fabled velvet tongue! | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue? Posted: 5/22/2008 6:28:44 AM | | Yes oh god yes! I had to wait until I was 34 years old. In my 42 years I have only ever come across two. When a man enjoys oral, both you and he know it. Took 20 minutes to recover the use of my legs. GOOD TIMES | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue? Posted: 5/22/2008 6:47:11 AM | Oh come on, when every girl who you've gone down on tells you that you're amazing at it, you've got to eventually come to the conclusion that you are doing something right down there.
But it does no good to brag about it guys because as we can see, they won't believe it. | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue? Posted: 5/22/2008 7:37:49 AM | Yes I found one man who was really good at oral but its been many years Still hoping to find another one.
I have met some guys who say that they are great with their tongues but weren't with me. Each woman is different so what works for one is not always going to work for another. | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue? Posted: 5/22/2008 7:43:40 AM | There are Very few things that I'll *BRAG* about, ..but I've only Rarely gotten a Lady off, Orally . . as much as I Like to, it always seems that she'll get Really close, then grab my head and pull me up to finish her off via penetration..!! I think that they knew that they were 'Squirters' {before I knew what a Squirter was..} and didn't want to Drown me..!! Women have always liked my *Flitter-Flicking* technique... and I just L o v e making a Lady M o a n with ecstacy . . I just need a refresher course to hone my skills a bit..!! Velvet . . ?? You be the judge..!! . .
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue? Posted: 5/22/2008 8:59:26 AM | Just as it is with a woman giving oral to her man - you have to really enjoy it to be good at it!! The man who enjoys pleasing his woman - usually has the elusive 'velvet tongue'! | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue? Posted: 5/22/2008 9:13:25 AM | I agree...if you don't enjoy giving it and only do it because she nagged you its gonna suck and she will learn the hard way to keep her mouth shut the next time.
I have met a few men who actually loved to do it and were amazing at it.
I am sure the same can be said for women who go south of the border....if she really really loves to do it shes gonna knock your socks off. | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue? Posted: 5/22/2008 9:31:54 AM | | I have been fortunate in that many of my lovers have been very skilled in giving oral sex. However, I do agree with the posters that a lot of it has to do with loving giving it. If they are going down just because it's 'expected' of them that it's not going to be as good as if they are genuinely enthusiastic about. Same goes for women going down on men. I have had men tell me that they love how enthusiastic I am about doing it and that they can tell when a girl truly likes doing it versus doing it out of obligation. | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue? Posted: 5/22/2008 10:24:02 AM | I just found an article in Time from Monday, Aug. 22, 1949 describing "velvet tongue". I don't think anyone would want something like that anywhere near them.
Many a patient who takes penicillin in lozenges or sprays shows a marked discoloration of the tongue; most U.S. doctors have blamed the disease rather than the cure. Following up the work of doctors in Britain and India, Dr. Samuel A. Wolfson of Los Angeles came to a different conclusion: he showed that penicillin itself causes blackening of the tongue, may even cause the growth of black "hairs" up to half an inch long. Fortunately, the disorder clears up automatically after penicillin treatment is ended. In the current Journal of the American Medical Association, Dr. Wolfson describes a woman's tongue which had turned brownish-black; the tips of the taste buds had grown long and hairlike, and "bent like the nap of wet, heavy velvet when stroked with a tongue blade."
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue? Posted: 5/22/2008 11:30:54 AM | not much better than a man who knows what to do with his tongue. mmmmmmmmm yummmmmmy and yes my guy has the skill, passion, and endurance to make life wonderful when he's there!!
mmmmmmm, where is he now!!  | |
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| Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue? Posted: 5/22/2008 12:43:19 PM | Thanks, DietCoke(registered trademark)Guy for the clinical reference and vivid mental image that has nothing to do with the spirit of the question...eww...
Yes, I have experienced such a man and my thighs were still quivering six hours later. No fingers, no toys, no accessories, just his gloriously warm and knowledgeable tongue. I about lost consciousness.
I agree with the ladies here who have said that the guys who brag about having oral skills are usually the ones who are talentless. They are almost without exception an inch from where the need to be! | |
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