| Whats is Flirting
Posted: 5/22/2008 5:43:15 AM | I am 27 and i must admit i have no idea what flirting is. Women tell me i do it all the time but i dont see what i am doing that is considered flirting.
Another thing i dont know is what do women do to flirt with a guy cause i have also been told i dont pick up on girls advances towards me.
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| Whats is Flirting
Posted: 5/22/2008 6:13:34 AM | Well, without being able to see what these women are talking about, I have no idea what it is you might be doing to be considered flirting.
As far as when women flirt..... here are just a few ideas..... and not all women do these things:
- eye contact/coy glances
- smiling
- playing with her hair
- laughing at everything you say
- leaning in towards you
- licking her lips
- pupils dilating
- nipples hardening
- touching you on your arm/shoulder/hand
Like I said, these are just a few and I'm sure more women will chime in... personally, I hate guessing games.... if I like someone, I tell them.  | |
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| Whats is Flirting
Posted: 5/22/2008 6:32:03 AM | A flirt can just be you being friendly, nothing overt necessarily, just smiling and engaging another in conversation. It's not like you're using cheesy pickup lines but if you see any of the outlined behavior that Libra listed, you're flirting and it's working.
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| Whats is Flirting
Posted: 5/22/2008 6:43:22 AM | | libra has a few good ones. I found that tone of voice is a good way to tell. | |
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| Whats is Flirting
Posted: 5/22/2008 9:22:36 AM | | flirting is when she enters the room walks straight to you grabs you throws a double lip lock on you..kisses you till your toes curl up through your shoes ...then turns without a word and walks out | |
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| Whats is Flirting
Posted: 5/22/2008 11:36:52 AM |
- leaning in towards you
- licking her lips
- pupils dilating
- nipples hardening
God damn i just thought she was drunk thirsty cold and stoned | |
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| Whats is Flirting
Posted: 5/22/2008 11:47:12 AM | I had a drunk woman come up to me, grab my hand, and curl her fingers betwixt mine, all the while trying to convince me not to close my tab and go home just yet..
Was she flirting with me guys?
HALP!
Sorry, I guess that was rude and mean. Just trying to be a little funny. I'm not very good at it. :\ | |
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| Whats is Flirting
Posted: 5/22/2008 12:16:52 PM | Everyone has their own style of flirting. Personally I find the more discreet, the sexier the flirting, and the less language actually spoken, the better you are at it! A man that can really flirt with his eyes is totally HOT. 
Also, since we are on the subject, sexual innuendos and cheesy sex talk is not the same as flirting guys... | |
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| Whats is Flirting
Posted: 5/22/2008 12:25:58 PM | | IMO anyone that does something to get someones attention is flirting, whether thats smiling at someone, making eye contact, laughing at their jokes, teasing a person in a jokingly way, touching their arm, brushing up against someone. Sometimes people are obvious in the way they try to get someones attention and some are very discreet. | |
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| Whats is Flirting
Posted: 5/22/2008 12:39:33 PM | find a gemini wimmin,
then you'll know what flirting is... | |
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| Whats is Flirting
Posted: 5/22/2008 3:41:36 PM | after revealing I am a Gemini woman,
*says in a voice that resonates and purrs, lips curved in a half smile, eye lashes lowered demurely*
Hmmmm...yes. Thank you so much, yarimelma, for such a gracious compliment. May I have another, please?
*licks lips*
You mean like that?  | |
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| Whats is Flirting
Posted: 5/22/2008 5:59:13 PM | What about the intellectual flirting? You know....the words spoken between 2 people....hidden meanings kind of thing...
...would you consider that a kind of flirting?
I just thought of that....and frankly find that kind of flirting could be quite the turn on. | |
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| Whats is Flirting
Posted: 5/22/2008 6:29:41 PM | | Flirting must be what I did with my friend Nancy at work today. She came to my work station to write down the numbers on my production report and add them up. As she was writing I thought she looked a bit tense, so I came up behind her and gently began to massage the back of her neck and the tops of her shoulders. She sighed heavily and almost melted to the floor. As she turned to walk away, she paused a moment and looked into my eyes with a brilliant glint in hers and a smile. However, it may not be a good idea to massage a stranger. | |
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| Whats is Flirting
Posted: 5/23/2008 12:03:42 AM | Well thanks for the suggestions Libra they helped. i have gone back through memory and damn did i miss alot.
As for what i do im what whoissue said im an intelecutual flirt i guess. i can start convos with just about anyone but half the time the run off with my friends. | |
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| Whats is Flirting
Posted: 5/23/2008 12:04:58 AM | | I could only dream of that happening deerdog. that would be a dream come true. im like libra i just tell them what i feel itsa alot simpler and i wish more women did that. | |
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| Whats is Flirting
Posted: 5/23/2008 12:06:27 AM | | Dont worry John, that actually happened to a friend of mine one night at the bar it cost him 500 to get outta the bar. made for many laughs later on down the road cause he couldnt figure out where his paycheck went. | |
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| Whats is Flirting
Posted: 5/23/2008 7:59:47 AM | | Flirting is the overt expression of ones inner desires - propeled towards another you find interesting or desirable. Not nesessarily to make a connection - but to show your playful and spontanious side of your personality! | |
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| Whats is Flirting
Posted: 5/23/2008 11:47:10 AM |
- eye contact/coy glances
- smiling
- playing with her hair
- laughing at everything you say
- leaning in towards you
- licking her lips
- pupils dilating
- nipples hardening
- touching you on your arm/shoulder/hand
Honey, you forgot flashing your fangs and nibbling on his neck... 
What about the intellectual flirting? You know....the words spoken between 2 people....hidden meanings kind of thing...
Hey Sue!!
If a train with a sleeping car were traveling from point A to point B at 60 MPH... how many poems could you inspire before reaching our destination?
...... Ya mean like that???
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| Whats is Flirting
Posted: 6/26/2008 6:34:33 AM | Now with all of these in mind:
- eye contact/coy glances
- smiling
- playing with her hair
- laughing at everything you say
- leaning in towards you
- licking her lips
- pupils dilating
- nipples hardening
- touching you on your arm/shoulder/hand
My general concern is the women that tend to touch my bicepts constantly, I tend to brush this off since this seems to be normal. And mainly since these women are married. Now there is one more I would like to ask in the way of flirting, When a woman seems to try to make sure that she is constantly, Well This is a painted image; I don't have much communication with this girl. She always seems to tend to watching what I am doing, Looking out at the corner of my eye. She seems to bounce a little bit more in her walking after making eye contact, or when I do get a chance to make eye contact , she always has a silly smile or does something silly with her eyes, not rolling them either. Could be that I am reading to much into this? Since she is married, And very beautiful. Just for futher gain of input, a lot of men tend to try to hang around her as often as they can, like dogs in heat, which is so obvious. Or could it just be she is wanting to gain my attention as well? Ladies please your input on this would be a greater insite. Yes I know what flirting is, I tend to use mine in hidden words. | |
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