| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 5/28/2008 5:52:57 PM | Do you think a woman, if she REALLY wants a guy, not just sex but a relationship, will always lie about certain things and just tell the guy what he wants to hear even though she really doesn't feel that way? I've had many women lie to me,only to find out later that they were not being honest but just agreed with me to stay with me. What's your opinion?
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 5/28/2008 5:58:42 PM | Funny posting, you ask if a woman will lie about everything to be in a relationship I guess one could also ask do guys lie about anything just to get into your pants? Interesting to see where priorities lie amongst the sexes lol
*ready for the hate mail* | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 5/28/2008 5:59:41 PM | Not this little duck.....it's too much work to lie, because then you have to remember your lies.
I am a bit blunt at times, and I will tell you how I feel....
If a woman lies to keep you, then she is just playing games. I don't have time for games.
But what's to say you believe a word I say...since you think all women lie............meh | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 5/28/2008 6:01:36 PM | You nailed it NotUrAverageGurl. 
Now this is where I turn into the Hulk when people generalize about this type of behaviour.
*tries to turn green, but turns plaid instead* | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 5/28/2008 6:07:38 PM | OP, please elaborate. Were they lying about their feelings? Lying about stuff they like to do? Lying about their personal circumstances?
What are these "certain things" that many women lied about/agreed with you to stay with you?
I'm not being snide here. I really don't know how to give a sensible response without more specifics. Thanks. | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 5/28/2008 6:13:12 PM | Personally, I see no point in lying. And my memory aint all that anyway, so I wouldn't be able to keep them straight. I cannot tell you the number of times I've started to tell someone something and they say, "you already told me that"...
Most things one lies about will soon be discovered anyway, and a relationship based on a foundation of lies is pretty well crumbled already.
I am what I am and if a man wants to be with me, great. If not, that's ok too. I would not lower myself to try and conform to someone else's criteria or image or expectations in order to "keep him" as you say. That makes no sense to me at all.
Oh and by the way, OP, try not to use words like "never", and "always". Just a bad idea. | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 5/28/2008 6:21:09 PM |
Do you think a woman, if she REALLY wants a guy, not just sex but a relationship, will always lie about certain things and just tell the guy what he wants to hear even though she really doesn't feel that way? I've had many women lie to me,only to find out later that they were not being honest but just agreed with me to stay with me. What's your opinion?
Since I'm not a douche-bag, I don't assume things about 100% of the female population based on my experience with .00000000000001% of them. | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 5/28/2008 6:41:41 PM |
I for one am sick and tired of womerns lying just to get into my pants.
I only lie to guys who wear kilts to get under their skirts.
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 5/28/2008 6:47:57 PM | | I'm always honest, truthful and straightforward (how I was raised). There is nothing to gain from lying and those who choose to engage in such negativity will get bitten in the ass sooner or later (their lies will catch up with them). | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 5/28/2008 6:48:01 PM |
Do you think a woman, if she REALLY wants a guy, not just sex but a relationship, will always lie about certain things and just tell the guy what he wants to hear even though she really doesn't feel that way?
I am far more likely to lie in order to avoid a relationship. That's not to say that lying is one of my primary dating tools, but if absolutely necessary, I am not averse to using a little fib in order to extricate myself from a painful or uncomfortable situation. (That is, of course, after I have tried a few times with the truth.)
Lie to keep a relationship? 
Hell no. Why would I want to be with someone who thinks I'm someone other than who I am? That sounds like an awful lot of work for an inevitable let down when eventually reality rears its head. Plus, one of the biggest turn-ons for me is when a man knows who I am and what I'm all about and *still* thinks I'm sexy. If I'm lying about who I am, it's not really *me* he's attracted to, and that's just a total mood killer. | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 5/28/2008 7:00:41 PM | I'm with vro312
I've never met a guy yet that would make me want to lie to keep him.....and I doubt I could ever do anything other than tell the truth.
I do have friends that have lied though....and it got them a fast ticket to nowhere. | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 5/28/2008 7:08:27 PM | WHAT?? REALLY?
No, I wouldn't lie just to be in a relationship. That is ridiculous and I am offended that you said that.
I suppose there are some desperate women that would lie to be in a relationship. Where are you meeting these women? And do they need you to support them and their kids? | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 5/28/2008 7:12:58 PM |
I've had many women lie to me
Sounds like women are just lying I mean dying to be with you 
Must be tough--that is all I can say... | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 5/28/2008 7:39:49 PM |
I don't assume things about 100% of the female population based on my experience with .00000000000001% of them. Thank you.. my hope in men has been momentarily restored.... now I just need to avoid the newest threads so that I don't see the latest "nice guy" post and ruin it all, lol....
C'mon op! Are you serious?! From the outset your premise is that women lie.. but you expect honesty here? Hello, lol....
Then again, compatibility with you is not at stake
I'd be careful of a little thing called "self fulfilling prophecy" if I were you ;) | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 5/28/2008 8:07:57 PM | So they're lying...to stay with you? What are the "certain things" these women "always" lie about?
I'm guessing you might mean things like, "No, honey, I've never cheated on you!" when they have.
If that's the case, the poster who mentioned the one thing all these lying women have in common...is you. Might want to ask yourself why that is? | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 5/28/2008 8:08:07 PM | ALWAYS. Every single time. And All Women will Always lie to keep a guy. Because of course, the only thing that matters in life is having/keeping a guy. <-----sarcasm, for the literal-minded among us. <------I'm probably lying about that, though.
Now for my real answer: My opinion is that you need to find a different kind of women if they ALL lie to you, ALWAYS. | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 5/28/2008 8:09:36 PM | sassyaquarius, msg 17:
Thank you.. my hope in men has been momentarily restored.... now I just need to avoid the newest threads so that I don't see the latest "nice guy" post and ruin it all, lol....
Maybe you have more in common with the OP then you think. | |
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 5/28/2008 8:45:14 PM | No, women do not always lie just to keep a guy.
However, I have been witness to guys and gals 'embellishing' themselves to the other person.
I believe it merely comes from a place of self worth.
The horrible thing is that if the misrepresentation comes out (and it usually does sooner or later) how much worse will things be THEN?
I offer myself, warts and all. Utility belt sold separately.
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 5/28/2008 9:25:13 PM |
Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Of course!! The ONLY reason ANY woman is in a relationship is because she's lying. You've found us out!! Now the secret is out, and none of us single women will ever be able to hoodwink another man. I hope you're happy now!
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| Do women always lie just to keep a guy?
Posted: 5/28/2008 9:27:37 PM | Absolutely not -- what would be the point?
If he doesn't want me for who I am, he doesn't really want me at all and to me personally, that's absolutely worthless. I'd much rather be alone than be with someone who thought I was something I wasn't.
If the people you are getting involved with are desperate not to be alone, I don't think they are really a good choice -- you need to be with someone for whom you are not going to feel like a last resort -- as if they wanted more in a man but settled for you so that they wouldn't be alone.
Some men and some women are desperate to be "in a relationship" regardless of who with, others are not. You just have to make a conscious effort to look for the ones who are not. | |
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