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 dustyangel1
Joined: 3/13/2007
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I have a theory & want various opinions on it whether they be agreeing or disagreeing.

The theory is thus;

#1) Women (in general), apart from porn starlets and literal professionals, wouldn't know how to give a good & decent blowjob to save their lives.

#2) Men (in general), can't tell the difference between a good blowjob & a bad one because they usually have never had a truly good one.

Re: #2) This happens because guys in general mostly get so worked up about the idea of having a chick sticking their****in her mouth that they shoot in all of a minute or less. Which i believe in turn leads and/or contributes to the above point #1 regarding women.

Agree or Disagree?
 ickle_kimie
Joined: 5/22/2008
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Posted: 5/30/2008 8:33:49 AM
Errrr excuse me.
i disagree completely!
lol.
 plumb5150
Joined: 2/27/2007
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Posted: 5/30/2008 8:49:40 AM
It is better to be silent and thought of as a fool, then to speak and remove all doubt.
 dustyangel1
Joined: 3/13/2007
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Posted: 5/30/2008 8:51:53 AM
>> ickle kimie

You disagree with point number 1? Or you disagree with the reasoning that guys get too worked up over a chick sucking them off?...... lol
 Wordz4u
Joined: 5/24/2008
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Posted: 5/30/2008 8:52:09 AM
I concur...great quote.
 Gangster Kitten
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Posted: 5/30/2008 8:54:00 AM
"The Wise Man speaks, because he has something to say. The Fool speaks, because he has to say something."
 cktoronto
Joined: 5/8/2007
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Posted: 5/30/2008 8:54:35 AM
Disagree on all 3 points.

I've had great blowjobs before, I currently have a gf that doesnt give great ones. As a result I last 'indefinitely' while shes giving me head.
 laughinglibra
Joined: 11/6/2007
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Posted: 5/30/2008 9:09:26 AM

#1) Women (in general), apart from porn starlets and literal professionals, wouldn't know how to give a good & decent blowjob to save their lives.


Generalizations are generally wrong.......


I disagree with you on this point.


#2) Men (in general), can't tell the difference between a good blowjob & a bad one because they usually have never had a truly good one.


I'm not qualified to answer this as I'm not a man. The only thing I can go by is the fact that I think men do know the difference as my partners have always told me how good I am at it.



Having disagreed with both your points, I have to say that it has everything to do with how much both partners are into it..... if I'm giving oral to my man and he's just laying there not responding to my talents, then my enthusiasm is definitely affected.

Oral is one of the most erotic things one can do you your partner.... and both parties must be completely into it to be enjoyed to the fullest.

 adelica
Joined: 8/17/2007
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Posted: 5/30/2008 9:32:29 AM
quick question...how can u answer for all the men/ women about this. i've never had any complains so i don't see what concern it is of yours my skill at this particular talent... ur not the recipiant..
 iwantaniceguy
Joined: 5/21/2008
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Posted: 5/30/2008 9:35:30 AM
You're right...You probably give the best blowjobs of anyone on this forum!
 dustyangel1
Joined: 3/13/2007
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Posted: 5/30/2008 9:47:29 AM

quick question...how can u answer for all the men/ women about this. i've never had any complains so i don't see what concern it is of yours my skill at this particular talent... ur not the recipiant..


Re-read the the wording of the post...

I was under the impression that i wrote "I have a THEORY" & "I want other people's opinions" not "I know it all and i speak for everyone"...... I wouldn't do it even if i DID know it all!!
 Puddleripple
Joined: 10/10/2007
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Posted: 5/30/2008 9:57:16 AM

quick question...how can u answer for all the men/ women about this. i've never had any complains so i don't see what concern it is of yours my skill at this particular talent... ur not the recipiant..


Of course you don't get any complaints, you might be brilliant at them or you might be awful but you're not going to be told if the latter is the case! No man in his right mind will risk loosing his supply of blowjobs, even if they are awful.
 kmb74
Joined: 9/2/2007
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Posted: 5/30/2008 10:07:35 AM
I definately disagree with number 1. While most women aren't porn stars, nor to we want to be, it's not exactly hard to give a decent BJ. While I am sure there are some bad ones, if you concentrate on pleasing your partner, you'll follow his cues about what he likes and what he doesn't. Not all men like the same thing when it comes to oral so what's good to one may be not so good to another.

As far as men not knowing...I can't answer that, I am not a man, but if he's had a BJ from at least a few women in his life, I would think he was capable of judging a good one from a bad one.

I disagree with number 3 also. Some men love them and can't last long, some can. Some aren't as into oral as others and may never orgasm thru oral. It all depends on the guy. Again, if the woman is truly concerned with pleasing her partner (as both should be in a relationship), she can learn how to slow him down (if he wats to slow it down!)
 missmelly180
Joined: 2/5/2008
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Posted: 5/30/2008 10:10:58 AM

#1) Women (in general), apart from porn starlets and literal professionals, wouldn't know how to give a good & decent blowjob to save their lives.


Ummm... haha-it depends on how many times she's given. The first time I ever tried it I had no effing clue and it was pretty horrendous.
Granted some women learn from watching porn and reading erotica and discussing with other women what has satisfied their lovers in the past. Women truely want to know.
I can never stress enough about communication between partners, that's how you learn to truely pleasure one another.

I have asked mid mouthfull if I am doing okay, especially if I hear absolutely nothing, but I see he has his eyes shut and head back. I usually hear "don't stop", and keep on going. Non verbally I can usually tell... I've even gotten a thumbs up because he was literally speechless.

Oh and I can't stress to the guy enough to give us fair warning if you are ready to orgasm. It gives us time to prepare to either move out of the way or get ready to swallow.
 cheshire_grin
Joined: 1/11/2006
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Posted: 5/30/2008 10:18:19 AM
I disagree. But then again, I don't like my fellas to cum quickly. I like taking my time. Or waking them up with a surprise. I've never had a complaint about my blowjobs. But I guess they wouldn't complain.

However, just like men can be good or poor at going down on a gal, I'm pretty sure there can be good and poor blow jobs. Hopefully I'm okay at the ones I give. One can only hope....
 Leeanne
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Posted: 5/30/2008 10:25:17 AM
I completely disagree!!! Some of us are very talented!!
If a woman truly enjoys and desires giving oral sex to her partner - then you can be guaranteed she is really good at it! Believe me you will know it's a good BJ at that point!!!
 sxyvirgo
Joined: 7/26/2006
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Posted: 5/30/2008 10:29:40 AM


You disagree with point number 1? Or you disagree with the reasoning that guys get too worked up over a chick sucking them off?...... lol


Quite the connoisseur are you? So if you cum too fast it's because the guy isn't "sophisticated" enough to know better but I'll bet if he takes too long it's because the woman is no good at it....Either way, somebody seems to lose according to you.

How many professionals/prostitutes have you been with that allow you to make these judgments? Or maybe you've just been with a lot of porn stars/fluffers? That's much classier....

I smell a troll, anyway.
 dustyangel1
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Posted: 5/30/2008 10:37:56 AM

Quite the connoisseur are you? So if you cum too fast it's because the guy isn't "sophisticated" enough to know better but I'll bet if he takes too long it's because the woman is no good at it....Either way, somebody seems to lose according to you.


I never said anything about being a connoisseur my dear. Its a theory, not a university thesis, and i have asked others for their own opinions. (Who knows, maybe the taking too long part or the bad at it part was why Hugh Grant & Divine Brown got busted???? lol)


How many professionals/prostitutes have you been with that allow you to make these judgments? Or maybe you've just been with a lot of porn stars/fluffers? That's much classier....
None as a matter of fact, again its just a theory. If a porn star or fluffer does that sort of thing for a living, i would reasonably assume that a fair amount of practice in those 2 lines of work would perhaps make for good skills.
 nybratde
Joined: 5/22/2008
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Posted: 5/30/2008 10:48:41 AM
Ah dusty my dear,

When you find the woman who craves giving head like a junky craves a fix you have found the woman who has mastered the art of the blowjob. If the woman were truly that good at givng head in the first place, then that man getting all worked up would be no issue at all. Its about control taking it and relinquishing it. When a woman is giving head SHE is in control the sooner all of us realize that the better off we'll all be.
This may or not exactly answer the question, but it is my stance.


NY
 ***blue***
Joined: 4/21/2008
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Posted: 5/30/2008 10:49:46 AM
So your saying you don't really have the experience to base your theory on then?
How did you manage to come up with then?
 dustyangel1
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Posted: 5/30/2008 10:58:01 AM

So your saying you don't really have the experience to base your theory on then?
How did you manage to come up with then?


Experience i do have Blue, but as has been stated before, one point is that i can't speak for everybody. Not everyone would or could agree with the theory as i wrote it.

I don't have the ability, resources nor inclination for that matter to try and sleep with every chick on the planet or convince them to give me a blowie just to confirm or deny a theoretical statement based on whatever experiences ive had.

It's a topic that ive thought of yes, but for discussion, agreement or disagreement based on everybody's own experiences where they can relate to it.
 BlueSteeeel
Joined: 4/29/2008
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Posted: 5/30/2008 10:58:46 AM
I don't really see the issue here....good blowjobs are relative, no?

I mean, I'm sure a man can say one woman is better than another at giving him head, and so on. Why not just leave it at that? If both people are enjoying themselves, who cares? If he's never had a 'truly good one', as you say, how is he to know what he's missing?

Also, how are you gathering your data for the last point? Are you basing it on how you react to getting head, from talking to others, or something else? Because it hasn't been my experience that most men shoot in a minute or less at all, and I'd think I would ( as a woman) have a bit more empirical evidence than you would, unless you give head yourself. In which case, I won't judge.
 69shwing
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Posted: 5/30/2008 11:00:14 AM
I agree....that you don't know what the **** you're talking about!
 zakurtz
Joined: 5/26/2008
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Posted: 5/30/2008 11:00:45 AM
I dont know about #1 but as a guy i can say that i can tell the difference between a great, good ,poor, or just bad blowjob ive had both good ones and bad ones a i can tell with in sec. if its bad or good, i have talked to my GF about this problam and gave her tips or what i like and dont like, due too those talks the BJ have gottin alot better.
 dustyangel1
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Posted: 5/30/2008 11:09:47 AM
I mean, I'm sure a man can say one woman is better than another at giving him head, and so on. Why not just leave it at that? If both people are enjoying themselves, who cares? If he's never had a 'truly good one', as you say, how is he to know what he's missing?
Yes i'd agree, but


Also, how are you gathering your data for the last point? Are you basing it on how you react to getting head, from talking to others, or something else? Because it hasn't been my experience that most men shoot in a minute or less at all, and I'd think I would ( as a woman) have a bit more empirical evidence than you would, unless you give head yourself. In which case, I won't judge.


......Since when does one "gather data" for an open ended question that people can agree to or disagree to...?? lmao

& Yes i would EXPECT you to have more empirical evidence of men shooting in a minute or less.... or otherwise, as the case may be as you're female! Frankly, i'd be worried if you didn't because NO, i DON'T do the whole giving guys head bit!!

I'll say it again, simply agree or disagree as you choose, it's not a university thesis....
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