| Bi-curious....what are the implications?
Posted: 6/2/2008 1:53:14 PM | I've had a few approaches on this site from women and couples where the term "bi-curious" is used, and I just wondered what I should read into this? I'm not daft, I know what it means...but what are the REAL implications?
Is the woman not getting good enough sex from her man, therefore is curious to find out if I can do it better? (Hint: I can)
Or is the man just interested in seeing his wife/gf/partner with another woman so he can get his rocks off without too much effort?
Or is it just some greedy b*gger who wants to expand on his/her opportunities for getting laid or who doesn't want to come out as gay?
Sex should be between two willing participants, in any combination of male/female! It's about having fun, satisfaction and a great time....so if you're "bi-curious" then should you try to satisfy your curiosity?? | |
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| Bi-curious....what are the implications?
Posted: 6/2/2008 2:00:52 PM | | i'm willing to admit that lately i have found myself a bit bi-curious (i think its probably just a phase) ...but i don't think it means anything about the way i live my life or the way i think - though i think alot of gay/bi people just tend to be more sex orientated. | |
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| Bi-curious....what are the implications?
Posted: 6/2/2008 2:27:13 PM |
so if you're "bi-curious" then should you try to satisfy your curiosity??
Yep , why not or the curiosity will always be there !!
Thank god i've never been curious enough to want some hairy gorilla up my ass but I can understand a gal wanting a bit of part time harmless rug munching !!
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| Bi-curious....what are the implications?
Posted: 6/2/2008 2:33:30 PM |
Thank god i've never been curious enough to want some hairy gorilla up my ass
I'm not surprised by that statement after your piles thread
I have to admit that I have been curious, nay have even fantasized about being with another woman, but never actually tried it, have found that most fantasies are best kept as just that, a fantasy, as acting them out rarely lives up to expectations. | |
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| Bi-curious....what are the implications?
Posted: 6/3/2008 12:56:35 AM | I think you have to go with it and satisfy your curiosity.
There are alot more bi people about now because its accepted more than it used to be,and i think the couples who are after threesomes mainly do it as its a big thing for a guy to either want to join in with 2 girls or watch 2 girls,but to be honest i wouldnt want a threesome with my bloke and i think they cause problems and i reckon some guy ragging off in the corner could spoil the moment for 2 girls,i'm gonna guess as much as its a turn on for you guys....it aint gonna be for us girls!
You dont know if you like something till you try it,and if you dont like it you dont have to do it again. | |
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| Bi-curious....what are the implications?
Posted: 6/3/2008 2:54:37 AM | I think you're being a bit over precious about it all. This is all down to the individual, the implications could vary from none at all to severe, depending on how hung up the person is. It's only sex, some people like sex more than others and are more experimental, good on them.
One thing I really dislike is this labelling, and the assumption that to be Bi is to be a suppressed gay. Not the case, some people simply don't have those boundaries and are not tied to how YOU think their sexuality should be.
It's only a big deal if you make it one. | |
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| Bi-curious....what are the implications?
Posted: 6/3/2008 4:51:39 AM |
I've had a few approaches on this site from women and couples where the term "bi-curious" is used, and I just wondered what I should read into this? I'm not daft, I know what it means...but what are the REAL implications?
Is the woman not getting good enough sex from her man, therefore is curious to find out if I can do it better? (Hint: I can)
Or is the man just interested in seeing his wife/gf/partner with another woman so he can get his rocks off without too much effort?
Or is it just some greedy b*gger who wants to expand on his/her opportunities for getting laid or who doesn't want to come out as gay?
Sex should be between two willing participants, in any combination of male/female! It's about having fun, satisfaction and a great time....so if you're "bi-curious" then should you try to satisfy your curiosity??
I believe.. (and ill prob get SLATED for saying this).. all women have Bi-sexual tendancies at some time in there life.. its nothing to do with being Gay.. its just something i think women fancy trying out.. I agree there is absolutely NO harm in it myself!! yes i have and yes i enjoyed..  | |
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| Bi-curious....what are the implications?
Posted: 6/3/2008 6:51:04 AM |  Trish agreed most women have and will try it out at some point and ive never met a woman yet who hasnt at some point in thier life looked at another woman and thought ,phwaoooooooooooorrrrrrrr"i would",I have and am so not gay! | |
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| Bi-curious....what are the implications?
Posted: 6/3/2008 8:39:06 AM | That kind of fantasies are best left where they belong as far as I am concerned. Randomly, whenever I see a gay image (never been turned on by a man in real life) I feel or feel not somewhat attracted but as I have my own pretty good idea of right and wrong, it's never been difficult to shelf the 3 seconds long fantasy.
Selfishly though, in bed I wouldn't mind two females getting away with their bit.
Yes, I know: male thinking.
Blame it on nature. | |
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Joined: 5/30/2008
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| Bi-curious....what are the implications?
Posted: 6/3/2008 9:45:06 AM | | Well being bi-curious doesnt mean you have to change your life or the way you live it in any way that find find uncomfortable. If you are bi-curious then you can try it out and if you dont like it then you know it's not for you. Being bi curious doesnt mean all of a sudden you have to do anything. Just be yourself and follow your heart and you head if it feels wrong to you then stop and if not then thats ok too. Just take your time and most of all be yourself. | |
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| Bi-curious....what are the implications?
Posted: 6/3/2008 9:52:18 AM | | If like minded people want to get it on then who are we to say its not right... Curiosity is no bad thing.....and for the record Im very much all woman and prefer to keep the company of men if you get my meaning lol | |
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| Bi-curious....what are the implications?
Posted: 6/3/2008 12:04:20 PM | Stupid term "bi-curious". Suggests the person is unsur which is no necessairly the casee. "predominantly hetrosexual" makes more sense.
Funny thing is one never hears of a "bi-curious" homosexual (i.e. a Gay person who is occasionally attracted to the opposite sex) they are either regarded as Gay or bisexual. | |
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l3sl3y
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Joined: 5/12/2008
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| Bi-curious....what are the implications?
Posted: 6/27/2008 8:27:23 AM | bi curious to me means just that - curious as to what it would be like to have sex with a woman.
Many women try it and decide it's not for them - but at least they won't die wondering
Others do it as a 3 some with their partner but would never do it on a 1-1 basis
and some just like muff diving......simple as that really | |
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| Bi-curious....what are the implications?
Posted: 6/27/2008 11:05:36 AM | no..no..no.. never been abit curious, what ever floats your boat and all that
muff-diving...or rug munching aint for me. cant stand fish | |
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l3sl3y
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Joined: 5/12/2008
Msg: 20 | |
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| Bi-curious....what are the implications?
Posted: 6/27/2008 5:23:34 PM | Apparently Bi-sexual people are allowed to be unfaithful & still run home to their partner......I don't know how they work that one out....?
Next.... | |
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| Bi-curious....what are the implications?
Posted: 6/27/2008 5:40:42 PM | op
i started reading your post , and I thought it was going to be really interesting, but I found it was just like all the other, blah blah, etc etc.
as your profile says, ......
Strict schoolteacher type, controlling and bossy
Scared? You should be.
I'll just whip you off again!
There are actually people on here who just , well, sort of just LIKE people, and dont go for the S/M stuff, no dom , no sub etc etc, so with this post you wrote, i'm kinda thinking that you are more aiming at someone following you, rather than someone agreeing with you.
Or maybe, you're just a MAN , lol
I may be wrong, and I apologize if I am. | |
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| Bi-curious....what are the implications?
Posted: 6/27/2008 5:44:35 PM |
Bi-curious....what are the implications? Update: no longer curious...
Ok, think we've got the picture. Except when you say (Hint: I can) to ....is a woman not getting good enough sex from her man in a previous post. It seems you've already been there....?
Now, we're all wondering is this anything to do with the deviant thread recently posted?
OT, as a number of other posters have said, I think - and in my experience - women are probably more bi curious than men. I dont know. But for me, whatever you might see anywhere may be more interesting, different, unusual, etc, etc, until you know it isnt. Maybe. | |
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| Bi-curious....what are the implications?
Posted: 6/28/2008 2:01:56 AM | ^^^^^
good point taralaraa; people make their own boundaries and try to restrict others within them. I prefer to think that nothing I do is offensive to anyone else, therefore it's surely up to me how far I push my boundaries?
I've had a good laugh at everyone making up their own minds about me...am I deviant, am I into BDSM, am I a dominatrix....I don't mind what others think, I know what I am and I have no problem with it.
I may be wrong, and I apologize if I am.
You are, and I accept, thank you. | |
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