| i must be missing somthing here ?
Posted: 6/3/2008 1:20:30 PM | after having been divorced 8yrs i finally fell in love again and gave my heart away , after having been together for almost 2 yrs my then finacee announced she wasnt happy and told me to get out .
that was 4 mos ago , i cried and begged while she played her game and saw other guys ....then one day i woke up and realized i dont need this crap from a wanna be diva .
as a decent looking guy with a good job and a good work ethic i realized how happy i am with her out of my life .
i no longer have tolerate a high maintnance prissy chick from a well off but totaly dysfunctional family who looked down their nose at me .
i can do what ever i want now but dont miss her almost daily beratings of my shortcomings while she sat on her lazy ass .
i moved back to the poor side of town and am hangin out with much better class of losers ...keep your chin up guys ! | |
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| i must be missing somthing here ?
Posted: 6/3/2008 1:29:03 PM | | Good for you! I found I am much happier with the poorer side of town myself. People with lesser means are usually much happier and know what the meaning of respect and what a relationship is supposed to be. Good luck! | |
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Posted: 6/3/2008 1:31:07 PM | Hey Bensdad
Well I obviously don't know what the feminine view of your post will be, but from my POV, all I can say is
good for you. And I don't think that by saying so I am anti-women, I am now working poor and blue collar although
I wasn't always. But you know what, Pompous people can . . well you know. People who think they are
better because they have a Rolex of some such status symbol.
take care good luck | |
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| i must be missing somthing here ?
Posted: 6/3/2008 1:40:29 PM | | Welcome to the real world! Sounds like you found it. I wish you much better luck in your search for the right one to share your new outlook with! | |
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Posted: 6/3/2008 1:48:48 PM | thanks guys and gals ...ill probably get my heart broke again but the next time i do it wont be over her !. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2008 1:51:21 PM | Congrats!
Just because you live in the poor side of town that doesn't make you a looser, you know?
It sounds like you ex is a loser with money, a loser in denial. Money doesn't make anybody a winner or a better, nicer person.
Money can make for very unhappy, bitter individuals who feel the need to continuosly put down poeple who doesn't have as much money as them.
Never mind the money they have, they got by making other people miserable or is a trustfund, so didn't work for it. etc.
The end doesn't justify the means, in most cases are MEAN.
She was to you. Putting you down by looking down at you etc.
So you are better off.
Enjoy your freedom. because,
You are good enough!
Smart enough!
and gosh darn it.......people on the poor side of town like you! | |
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| i must be missing somthing here ?
Posted: 6/3/2008 2:02:17 PM | | i've lived on both sides of "town", and can honestly say that the most loyalty i've experienced was from people that weren't so well off. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2008 2:09:03 PM | | Did your ex acquire her wealth herself or was she born into it ? I don't think anyone has the right to look down their nose at anyone just because they have more wealth - ESPECIALLY if daddy/someone else is the one who accumulated it as opposed to them ! | |
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Posted: 6/3/2008 2:15:09 PM | OH GOD DONT REPORT ME FOR SPINNING SORT OF OFF THIS THREAD.
But it just came to mind - cos his lady had lots of money.
Why is it rich women are beautiful, fit and have just about everything (including the little doggie in the handbag).
Why is it rich men are such utter failures in looks and everything that goes with looks bringing to mind Hugh Heffner?
Ever wondered?
Expecting the ban from the forums as I press send - sorry! | |
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Posted: 6/3/2008 2:47:48 PM | Congratulations man!
Good to hear of someone realising there own worth and feeling good about being themselves.. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2008 3:04:23 PM | It is much better to be alone and doing your own thing and enjoying your life, than to be miserable with someone you know isn't right for you.
Because we all know deep down in our hearts when someone isn't right for us, yet we hang on to the relationship expecting it to magically get better.
It is so liberating when we get out of a bad relationship and realize how much better off we are without that person - it feels GREAT to be single sometimes!
After the pain of parting comes the joy of re-discovering yourself, your life, and what makes you happy.
It sounds like this is where you're at and I say good for you and enjoy yourself!
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Posted: 6/3/2008 3:18:11 PM | I don't care what side of town your from..
If your heart is in the right place you are a beautiful person , no matter what you look like or how much money you have.
I know good and bad from both sides of town.. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2008 3:21:41 PM | basically she was a selfish individual.. realises the "buck stop here"..(sorta)
and like what every woman does, went looking for the next best thing..
she'll soon realise her mistake after "they" abuse the heck out of her...
so dont lose sleep over it..
she'll came crawling.. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2008 3:29:31 PM | It's always true. First you have to be Happy on your own. Then you can Share that happiness with someone that is ALSO happy on their own.
Cheers!!!
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| i must be missing somthing here ?
Posted: 6/3/2008 3:35:20 PM | | have to admit i miss her somtimes but miss the drama , games and BS alot less ....and i know alot of women want what she threw away . | |
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Posted: 6/3/2008 4:54:55 PM | | I say good for you!!!! Life is too short to waste it on people who dont appreciate and value you for the person you are. Like the saying goes " There are plenty of fish in the sea" I dont care how much money you have, it doesn't buy you happiness!!!! | |
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Posted: 6/3/2008 5:16:12 PM | First of all I think its absolutely crazy to live with someone; almost all of these relationships end and they dont end well.
I'm with you; the same thing happened to me years ago; Its hard and humbling but you move on. And when and if they want to come back you say C ya!. Life is too short and I too had a high maintenance diva. Things will be fine; we just need to move on and be ourselves and enjoy life. | |
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| i must be missing somthing here ?
Posted: 6/3/2008 5:42:57 PM | | she had a good man that worshiped the ground she walked on ....but he finally gave up and walked away after hed been slaped so many times . | |
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| i must be missing somthing here ?
Posted: 6/3/2008 9:31:34 PM |
then finacee announced she wasnt happy and told me to get out .
Uhm, am I missing something? You were dumped and now you're here saying you walked away? Dude, come on now. Bitter much? | |
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Posted: 6/3/2008 9:51:08 PM | Sounds like some of my relationships and behavior!
One doesn't have to get jaded or negative. Just learn and grow! | |
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