| So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on Posted: 6/3/2008 10:32:32 PM | Ok guys I again have a question that I'm curious to hear the answer to. So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on? Do the girls have to be hot? Or can they be unattractive girls too? My female friends tell me that men just love seeing women rubbing up on each other. Not sure I'd feel comfortable doing that with my friends. I'd much rather rub up against a guy. I'm just wondering how some of you guys feel about it. | |
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| does this turn you on? Posted: 6/3/2008 10:36:06 PM | | Does not really 'turn me on', but sounds like fun to watch. I see the appeal. All women know this already and most men are attracted. Some will violenty deny it... starting any moment now! | |
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| does this turn you on? Posted: 6/3/2008 11:16:31 PM | | The whole girl on girl thing does nothing for me...but then there are plenty of guys for whom its the total bomb. Each to their own. | |
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| does this turn you on? Posted: 6/3/2008 11:17:49 PM | I am going to catch flack for this one but here it goes anyway...
As a simple act between two attractive objects, sure. Just as a porn turns us on. But would I want to talk to them, hell no. It is a show, period. If I were looking for a "piece of @ss" for the night and didn't care to respect them, then that would be another story. I would go for it.
But when a woman uses her sexuality as a way to gain attention it shows me they think that is all they have to offer so I just agree with that and move on, after the show of course!
Let's see how much I get beat up on that one.  | |
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| does this turn you on? Posted: 6/3/2008 11:29:02 PM | | Looks totally mismatched when i see something like that. Looks also like a complete waste of what could be. Looks clownish, so no, it does not turn me on | |
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| does this turn you on? Posted: 6/3/2008 11:33:47 PM | 776877, yes i think you're right there. Each individual has their own thing that turns them on and things that turn them off as well.
UniqueMan, thanks for stating your opinion. I agree that this type of women aren't relationship material. I hope you don't get too much flack.
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| does this turn you on? Posted: 6/3/2008 11:35:24 PM |
Do the girls have to be hot? Or can they be unattractive girls too?
It's definitely not hot if I don't find the two girls attractive. I guess you can say rubbing is like the PG version of girls gone wild. | |
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| does this turn you on? Posted: 6/3/2008 11:43:39 PM | Definitely not a turn on. Because unless you're in some posh V.I.P. Club..you ain't seeing two hotties grinding on one another. In my town its always the butterfaces with busted bodies grinding. *shudders* God...and theses women pro-create? | |
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| does this turn you on? Posted: 6/4/2008 12:01:56 AM |
My female friends tell me that men just love seeing women rubbing up on each other. You friend is right. Men like to see two HOT women rubbing up on each other. Two average women, they don't care about.
But why not ask your real question: Will this attract men to me? Short answer: NO. I'll say it again, NO.
If you go to the club just to hang out with friends, get noticed and flirt, you can do a lot of things that men will watch. And basically, that's ALL they will do. Men like a free show. When your show is over, they will watch someone else.
Play-acting like that is considered "desperate", or MEN THINK it indicates a woman who can never get enough attention, i.e. high-maintenance or flakey.
OK, there will be a few men who will approach you. Not nice guys. The men who approach you will want SEX. They will want it NOW-- in the bathroom of the club, in shadows outside, or in their car. They don't want your phone number or your name. They don't care where you live or what kind of dog you have. You acted like you couldn't restrain yourself, so they assume that, and if you don't comply, they will be gone.
Again, grinding will get you attention, but not in the way you probably want. It's easier to just dance when a guy when he asks you instead of doing "stunts". | |
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| does this turn you on? Posted: 6/4/2008 12:07:28 AM | I must admit it would turn me on. But my sensei, who is always 2 feet behind me, would promptly smack me upside the head. And he uses a cane to do it too.  | |
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| does this turn you on? Posted: 6/4/2008 12:18:48 AM |
My female friends tell me that men just love seeing women rubbing up on each other.
Uh.... no.
Some people might but I know it doesn't do anything for me in the slightest. | |
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| does this turn you on? Posted: 6/4/2008 12:22:12 AM | I'll look always, unless their futt bucking ugly, then I probably ignore it...
I've seen it so many times in my life, nudity, PDA, girls kissing, etc...I'm somewhat desensitized to it...so it doesn't turn me on in the sense that I spring wood, but I still watch or glance at least.
When they indicate for me to come over and join them, I'll start pulling on my rod.  | |
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| does this turn you on? Posted: 6/4/2008 12:55:05 AM | I spent my life working in night clubs.......
You women have literally bored the CHIT out of me with that routine...... I swear... It's just so old..... I don't care how hot looking you two might be..... it's BORING...... seen one 'fashionably lesbian' woman....you've seen 'em all.........It's not like we don't know that the only reason you do it is simply because you need attention.... Don't you all do anything important with your lives except sit in the car on the way to the club talking about how you're going to 'kock tease' some guys with that bullchit routine on the dance floor?? | |
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| does this turn you on? Posted: 6/4/2008 4:21:08 AM | ^^ Yea right, so because you've seen it before it's boring? So you're bored of porn too? sex maybe?
- Honest answer - Yes its hot, seeing a girl dance is seductivel. Seeing 2 girls grinding together, especially if they make eye contact is very sexy. Dont listen to the guys that say it isnt. They are probably trying to protect their ego. | |
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| does this turn you on? Posted: 6/4/2008 8:22:29 AM | prairiechick2 said
I'm just wondering how some of you guys feel about it.
That does absolutely nothing for me. Some of my friends love it though. | |
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| does this turn you on? Posted: 6/4/2008 8:30:12 AM |
So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on? Do the girls have to be hot? Or can they be unattractive girls too? The fatter the better, I say. Especially if they have bits of chicken fingers stuck around their blowholes. "Can they be unattractive girls too," what a dumb question .
But in reality, girls grinding on each other on the dance floor doesn't turn me on - it just makes me laugh. | |
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| does this turn you on? Posted: 6/4/2008 9:57:08 AM | The girls I know who dance with each other do so because they don't want to dance with strange guys at the club. They would rather just dance with each other and have a good time. In fact, if a guy tries to push himself into the situation, they will just go sit down. Unless, of course, that guy is gay. Then its all good.
Thats just my experience, though. | |
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| does this turn you on? Posted: 6/4/2008 10:01:36 AM | No not really, if they're hot maybe a little but I'd much rather prefer one of them (or even both if it's a good day) rubbing up against me.
Not to offend any girls out there but watching Rosie O'Donnell and Barbara Walters rub against each other would just make me hurl. | |
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| does this turn you on? Posted: 6/4/2008 10:29:13 AM | I'll watch if there's nothing better on the dance floor. I'd rather rub up against a woman who only wants a guy too....she'll want at least a month's worth maybe more
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| does this turn you on? Posted: 6/4/2008 10:31:31 AM |
So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on?
I just saw this 2 weeks ago. Actually there was 3 of them, and it does nothing for me. Get a room. | |
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| does this turn you on? Posted: 6/4/2008 10:52:41 AM | I just have one thing to say.
BRING ON THE LESBIANS!
How ya like that for honesty?
In all reality, the ONLY reason it turns guys on, is because a guy in a night club is there for pie. Chicks in night clubs are there for wtf ever word they use instead of pie. But most of em kinda play hard to get. Typically when ya see 2 girls dancing like that it's a turn on because they are attention whores, and just plain whores in general.
Just wear a shirt that says "easy" Same effect. | |
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| does this turn you on? Posted: 6/4/2008 10:55:44 AM | Shallow young men in heat like that; thats why little girls go out on the dance floor and make out and do that sort of sleazy thing; Girls gone wild has thousands of young girls that will do it and even have sex with other girls for a t-shirt and attention from horny guys.
Your female friends are right and if they do its pretty dang sleazy.
And if you are so desperate for male attention that you are thinking of doing it then you need to get a life. Its sleazy and not a turn on to mature men looking for a real woman. | |
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| does this turn you on? Posted: 6/4/2008 11:44:56 AM | MSG#1Prairie wrote:So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on? Do the girls have to be hot? Or can they be unattractive girls too? Nope. Seeing a couple women rubbing on each other? No it doesn't turn me on a bit. I think if they want to get all physical they can do it in a privite place. An each to their own on their preference of Gender attraction.I'm straight myself. If a good looking woman is rubbing up against something, I think it would be more of a turn on if she was rubbing up against me,, not another woman.  | |
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