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Posted: 6/5/2008 9:09:01 AM | I always thought I was a live and live kind of person, never made moralistic judgements about a person ....
Obviously I was wrong....
Why?
Well today I logged on, had a nosey through the forums and happened to notice a woman I recognise in the images at the top of the page (Why I got women I don't know but that's another Q lol) ....
Well I had to go have a peek ..... She's got a nice first image, then they get progressively naughtier ... One of her in a shortie nightie on her bed, bikini, underwear, knickers and hands over her boobs, naked but for a bit of sheet over the crack in her butt ......
So I read the profile... Blah de Blah de Blah .... Usual gumph ... Looking for an intimate encounter, discretion guaranteed and expected .....
None of my business you all say ......
Well she's one of my 14 year old son's teachers ..... What the Foookity ?????
I can't go to parents evening ever again... What do I do lol ...
My heart wants to tell this moralistic reprobate to keep away from my baby but in my head I know this really has no bearing on her teaching abilities... What would you do? Would you say anything or would you just sn1gger quietly to yourself everytime you saw her ??? | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 9:12:10 AM | I think i would smirk all the way through parents evening.. then just as its ending say .. 'oh btw nice pics on pof'.. wink and walk off before she can say anything... you'd have to turn around again laugh and see if she had turned pink too  | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 9:14:29 AM | I'd say something, rather loudly, at the next parent's evening and see how many heads turn.
But then I have one hell of a sadistic streak. | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 9:18:53 AM | | Good luck to her I say!! Doesn't make her bad at her job because she enjoys a bit of rumpy pumpy and advertises for it on PoF. Anyway, quite possibly it's not the teacher, just her doppleganger (apparently we all have one). Or maybe it's her twin sister. Live and let live! | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 9:23:20 AM | My daughter had a similar problem.
She noticed her 12 yr old daughter's teacher in a fetish shop in soho last summer.
and my grand daughter overheard her telling me.
Apparently my grand daughter blatantly asked if it was him, and he admitted it.
I guess just because people are Teachers, Judges, Doctors, Dentists, or whatever profession, they ARE human beings first and foremost.
Its her choice, she is allowed it.
This isn't a site linked to a school, courtroom, police station, hospital, or any other profession so i wouldn't let it bother you.
and professionals are actually allowed a private life
vvvv does that mean if you are a professional you shouldnt have leisure time? (maybe the words private life can be misconstrued)
does it matter whether shes dressed or naked? i get crap and im fully clothed.
still stand by my post in general, we're allowed to do whatever we please in our free time as long as it isnt illegal. | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 9:27:42 AM |
.....and professionals are actually allowed a private life The thing about private lives is posting personally identifiable images of oneself to a public internet site with the aim of furthering one's private life tends to make them slightly less private  | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 9:37:42 AM | I think it should be a live and let live moment .........
She is an adult who is on POF and doing what POF is designed for .......
Im sure there are lots of teachers, doctors, police officers, nurses in fact every profession registered on POF.
This lady unfortunately has had the misfortune to be recognised. Maybe the photographs werent the brightest idea but she hasnt done anything illegal. | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 9:48:26 AM | She is on pof, you are on pof, so am I and others and those I happen to recognise, I even recognise usernames from other forums that don't have pics (and aren't aboot dating), so what. What she does in her personal life is not your concern.
Personally I think there is too much prodding into people's lives by others for nothing but titilation/gossip mongering/sadistic pleasure/boredom, right now I am thinking of the F1 man who has a private life and is getting harassed by a paper over it. | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 10:22:13 AM | | You could of course just drop her a PM, using your real name, and ask her for the details of any men she gets. Saves doing the whole sloppy seconds bit... | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 10:27:22 AM |
I always thought I was a live and live kind of person, never made moralistic judgements about a person ....
Obviously I was wrong....
Why?
Well today I logged on, had a nosey through the forums and happened to notice a woman I recognise in the images at the top of the page (Why I got women I don't know but that's another Q lol) ....
Well I had to go have a peek ..... She's got a nice first image, then they get progressively naughtier ... One of her in a shortie nightie on her bed, bikini, underwear, knickers and hands over her boobs, naked but for a bit of sheet over the crack in her butt ......
So I read the profile... Blah de Blah de Blah .... Usual gumph ... Looking for an intimate encounter, discretion guaranteed and expected .....
None of my business you all say ......
Well she's one of my 14 year old son's teachers ..... What the Foookity ?????
I can't go to parents evening ever again... What do I do lol ...
My heart wants to tell this moralistic reprobate to keep away from my baby but in my head I know this really has no bearing on her teaching abilities... What would you do? Would you say anything or would you just sn1gger quietly to yourself everytime you saw her ???
You could pass her my number... | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 10:34:24 AM | sorry pants nearly wet myself when i read this one  and so did my son,
is she an English teacher?? reason for asking are my English teacher was a slut with the boys and used to come to work in skin tight pencil skirts and open shirts down to her cleavage 
all the boys used to dribble as she sat on the corner of the desk with her long legs crossed but hey they never skipped an English class
mmmm what should you do i would laugh every time i saw her not to wind her up just because i wouldn't be able to help it
i never understand why some women on here feel the need to get their bits and bobs out and same with the men but its a choice they make and as its been said it is a very public site so maybe she doesn't give a flying fig who sees it....... you could pull her to one side and just let her know that you have seen it and explain that although you don't have a huge problem with it if you son was to see it she might have a problem and if she ever lays a hand on him you will rip her head off
or you could send her a message on here that would be a funny one
good luck and lets us know what you decide x | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 10:52:57 AM |
naked but for a bit of sheet over the crack in her butt ......
Get that printed on the front of a t-shirt and wear it with pride on parents evening
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Posted: 6/5/2008 10:55:41 AM | As you say OP she is your sons teacher and unless there is a problem with the way she is educating your son in a teaching capacity then I can see no problem.
My ex is an Art teacher and we used to have to go to great lengths to go for a drink where her pupils were'nt drinking just so she could let her hair down and unwind.
In school hours she was Miss and outside school she was Marie .......we all have private lives outside of work !!
The mistake this woman has made is putting a recognisable pic of herself up in public view and I am sure she would be mortified if she knew she had been discovered.
Maybe send her a private message on here putting her wise to the fact that she is on show to the worlds largest free dating site and this at times can be a very small world !! | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 11:04:09 AM | You should send her a polite message pointing out you are aware who she is, and that in fact it might not upset you particularly, but it would upset a lot of parents.
Then send me a link to her page. | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 11:07:36 AM | | I have to say I'm very disappointed in the number of sensible "send a polite PM" replies in this thread. Does no-one have a mischievous, or even down-right sadistic streak? | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 11:19:49 AM | I fail to see what she is doing wrong.
As she is advertising herself on here it suggests she is not into boys your son's age, & if it doesn't affect her teaching just leave her be. | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 11:25:37 AM | "What the Foookity ?????" is now my fave saying! Pants..I thank you for that!
Have to say I agree with most of the replies on here - she is entitled to a private life.
HOWEVER - not sure if I would risk being quite so open about what I was after if I was in her career. ... 14 year old boys would be completely merciless with her if this information fell into the wrong hands. Mind you...I suppose that you could argue that if she's going to advertise herself like that, she has to take the consequences - what a brave girl. Hats off to her! | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 11:31:43 AM | would be kinda fab from a 14yr old boys perspective if she was the teach who was doing the sex education class ...
wow would she be popular.... | |
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Posted: 6/5/2008 11:36:18 AM | I am going to listen to her talking about my son's poor behaviour in his English lessons, smiling quietly to myself and then say 'Plentyoffish',' How is he doing again?'
LOL ... I won't cos I'm not like that but ohmygoodnessgraciousme I hope no News of the World reporters are in our midst...... They'd have a field day ...
I agree with all the above with regards to her entitlement to a private life (Don't see the connection to Max Mosely though? Last time I looked all F1 drivers were over 18 ? ) It was all to do with my knee jerk reaction of .. How dare that slut teach my baby !!!!! All righteous indignation and that rubbish ... She's really staid at school, all starch and tweed ... They say the quiet ones are the worst ..
I will have to drop the site name into our conversation at some point though....
T shirt image, Ohh I'm tempted lol .... | |
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Posted: 6/28/2008 2:19:26 AM | It's a dilemma right enough....one of the reasons I don't post a picture on my profile is because I'm a teacher and I would hate to be recognised....not because I'm ashamed of being on POF (quite the reverse) but because of the slagging I'd get from any pupils who recognised me!!
Let's not forget it's not only over-18s who trawl this site....despite the rules! | |
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Posted: 6/28/2008 2:27:37 AM | Well she's one of my 14 year old son's teachers ..... What the Foookity ?????
I can't go to parents evening ever again... What do I do lol ...
When i was 14 i would have considered it your moral obligation to inform me about the wants and needs of my young,nubile,sexy,glam,so far unobtainable and aloof teacher.
Purely in order for me to get on a more relaxed even level with her.Im sure we could have found some common ground!!
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Posted: 6/28/2008 2:34:38 AM | I am a teacher and I have been recognised twice on here. Once by a 20 year old lad who wasnt in my class but at the school where I taught. He was about to send me an email aimed at an older woman meets young man type , however , just before he sent it he stopped and recognised me. Sent an entirely different email then !
The other time was by a dad of an ex pupil here on POF. I don't think I have ever posted anything that I wouldn't be happy for my son's to see so I wouldnt be bothered if ex pupils saw me. I dont think my current pupils will be on this site , they are only 7...wouldnt they be on Plenty of Tiddlers? | |
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Posted: 6/28/2008 3:37:07 AM | i don't see why it's a moral conundrum, as i don't see why morals come into it.
what is she doing wrong morally?
before you go dropping the hint to her that you have seen her profile here i would ask yourself one question....how would you feel if the situation were reversed?
ok, so she has some flirty pics up, but from what you've described she isn't posing full frontal...she's just being a bit flirty AND she's being honest about what she's looking for. none of those things make her a pervert or a danger to kids...it makes her human and that's all.
if she were one of my boy's teacher's i wouldn't dream of embarrassing her by letting it be known i had seen her here...the only thing that will achieve is making her feel bad, and why on earth would you want to do that? | |
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Posted: 7/11/2008 6:46:01 AM | How wonderful! She sounds like a fun, sexy, intelligent lady! Every shool boys dream I would have thought! I think you should make a point of smiling extra widely next time you see her! At the end of the mandatory 'how's my angel doing' conversation, you could ask her if she's had much response to her POF profile and mention that you would love to see whats under that sliver of sheet! 
I'm a bit surprised that she hasn't saved those saucy snaps for her private album but thats her business...I'm guessing she hasn't posted them on the school website. I think teachers with oomph and character are far more interesting to learn from than stiff, asexual types! On a business course a few years ago, one of my female instructors revealed to the class that she had managed to have an orgasm caused by the vibrations in her car that morning at the traffic lights. True story! A couple in the class later complained to the course director which I thought was totally unnecessary. I really wanted to ask her how on earth she managed 0-100 in the time it takes for the lights to change.
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Posted: 7/11/2008 6:53:57 AM | Ha ha ha ha quality......
I'd have to aciedently call her by her by her pof username........
No way would be abe to go to parenta evening and not say anything, no way id have to quote things from her profile and watch her reatcion | |
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